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  • 15-09-2014 5:08am
    #1
    Jo_336
    Registered Users Posts: 5 ✭


    I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years two years ago and I realised this weekend that I'm still not over him. I emailed him to say I'd been thinking of him and he said he thinks of me everyday, help?


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  • #2
    Pawwed Rig
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,407 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Thread moved - You might get better advice here Jo


  • #3
    Into The Blue
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭Into The Blue


    Meet for a coffee and chat..


  • #4
    amdublin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    When you break up after any period, but particularly a period like 8 years it would be rare that you are "over them in two weeks".

    It might be useful to meet for a coffee and a chat but think about what you want to get out of this chat.

    What was the reason you broke up? Does still stand, no matter how much you are "not over him".

    Edit.
    Oops it is two years, not two weeks. My advice still stands but consider the reason you broke up - have things changed now?


  • #5
    Idle Passerby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,122 ✭✭✭Idle Passerby


    Are you single? Is he single? If so, and you've both been thinking of each other, I say meet up and have a face to face chat. The reasons you broke up initially might not stand any longer. or alternatively you might realise that in the last two years you've both changed and are no longer the people you both knew. You wont know any of that until you meet up.


  • #6
    Mr. Incognito
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    Two years ago, not two weeks.

    Meet up with him


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  • #7
    Sweet Rose
    Closed Accounts Posts: 206 ✭✭Sweet Rose


    Jo_336 wrote: »
    I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years two years ago and I realised this weekend that I'm still not over him. I emailed him to say I'd been thinking of him and he said he thinks of me everyday, help?

    Go for it Jo. I broke up with my ex of 5 years over 5 years ago and I'm still not over him completely. I still haven't met anyone like him or have let myself. I know he has a girlfriend now so obviously he's off limits but if he was single, I'd love to tell him how I feel. Go for it and don't have any regrets. If you meet up and nothing happens, at least you know. I still think of the what ifs at the back of mind.


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