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could not get get an erection

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  • 12-11-2014 9:01pm
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    LegacyUser
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    recently i was with a girl i dont know very well but know her years. we came to mines. i started snogging but when we got naked i could get an erection. i dont need to go the doctors but what should i do?


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    LegacyUser
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    erttttt wrote: »
    i dont need to go the doctor

    How do you know you don't?


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    LegacyUser
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    there was another girl i was with who i would get an erection with but any time it started to get hot she would leave. we never had sex. i think i just expected it or trained myself that nothing would happen.


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    ted1
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    Nerves got the better off you. Had you being drinking?


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    LegacyUser
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    ted1 wrote: »
    Nerves got the better off you. Had you being drinking?

    yes but normally i get it very easily even too easily . its only when i stripped i noticed i didnt have one

    i dont know if its relevant but the girl asked me to stop and then when i stopped and asked if this was ok and there was no pressure she told me to start again. she did this 2 or 3 times she told me the next morning she had a boyfriend


    would she have been annoyed? in my defence i gave her about 3 hours of oral

    but i havent been able to get an erection since even when masturbating.


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    LegacyUser
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    eeeeeerrrrrrrttt wrote: »
    i dont know if its relevant but the girl asked me to stop and then when i stopped and asked if this was ok and there was no pressure she told me to start again. she did this 2 or 3 times she told me the next morning she had a boyfriend

    Well that'd wreck anyone's head and it's no surprise it's reflected elsewhere. Don't let it get under your skin and it shouldn't become a problem, maybe just pick your partners a bit better next time.


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    LegacyUser
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    Guessed wrote: »
    Well that'd wreck anyone's head and it's no surprise it's reflected elsewhere. Don't let it get under your skin and it shouldn't become a problem, maybe just pick your partners a bit better next time.

    it hasnt happened to me before but i dont have much experience

    she asked me to stop undressing not stop having sex. she was in touch since and told me she was blind drunk(she wasnt as far as i could see) and regrets it as she has a boyfriend and feels guilty and we were supposed to be friends


    the wierd thing is since its happened i have had 2 other chances with other girlsbut shied away. should i give sex a break or take my chances again?

    should i masturbate more? or less? or not at all?


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    kjl
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    I was with this girl one time and it was our first time having sex, but she was so paranoid about her legs not being shaved that she asked me to borrow my razor and about 15 min later the moment had passed and she made a comment on it which put extra pressure on things.

    Needless to say about 20 min later everything was ok again, sometimes a little pressure can make things not funtion.


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    LegacyUser
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    if i meet another girl what should i do?

    is masturbation making it worse or better?


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    fergus1001
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    eeerrrttt wrote: »
    if i meet another girl what should i do?

    is masturbation making it worse or better?

    Worse ! Don't be at yourself if you know there is a good chance of sex at least ~48 hours

    You loose your drive if your pulling yourself along the whole time end of

    Source: personal experience


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    LegacyUser
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    op here thanks for the replies ok its happened again since with a different girl. the thing is im supposed to meeting another girl again this weekend what should i do?

    i know this makes me look like a stud but im not this is all a coincidence and its all happening at the same time it not usual for me


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    Tokyo
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    Hi OP,

    the advice in the very first post still stands - you need professional advice on this. It may be medical advice from a doctor, or it may be advice from a counsellor on how to cope with nervousness or anxiety. But the fact that you keep returning to this thread highlights that we can't help you here if you are unwilling to seek out advice in the real world too. For now I'm closing this thread - I hope that you are able to find the help that you need.
    Regards,
    Mike


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