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I want to ask the bar man out

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    He doesnt know you like him just means he popular and a friendly barman! I prob wouldnt have the confidence to ask out a barman but no probs chatting him if he cute or have an interest but rarely happens ive given up asking rather be asked but nothing ventured nothing gained you be wondering what if?

    So try and find out you always wonder?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Okay, I've just pretended to his colleague that one of my friends likes him ( we come here often, my friends and I so he believed it's) and his response is, 'everyone likes him.' :-( I'm getting rejected so.

    You can only get rejected if you actually try him.

    Everyone, including the best looking men and women in the world are attracted to someone. Who says it won't be you he's attracted to?

    Cop on and go for it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,825 ✭✭✭Timmyctc


    I'll ask him out if you do


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    It happens to most people but all depends who attracts who but only way to find mutual attraction is to ask the other person. Maybe ask him if he like to hang out at the bar later in the night? No pressure friendly kind of asking him out but its one way to know if he interested you never know until you try! It wreck your head wondering!

    You might regret not trying. Be nice friendly and polite. Good luck!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,612 ✭✭✭Lelantos


    Ask him if he's gay, if he says no, say good! would you like to go out with me, easy peasy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Chop chop, I want to go to sleep! I'm up at 7am...I need to know what happens!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Ive an idea get a pen and paper write it down! Show him the piece of paper he might give you an answer....?! Something similar worked for me but was different and a dare!


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    So your the female Feeky then OP? :)

    Can this thread emulate this?

    Ask yourself...What would Feeky do?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    doovdela wrote: »
    Ive an idea get a pen and paper write it down! Show him the piece of paper he might give you an answer....?! Something similar worked for me but was different and a dare!

    She hasnt posted for nearly 30 minutes....We may have our love story :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Chucken wrote: »
    She hasnt posted for nearly 30 minutes....We may have our love story :D

    Nah, she'll be back on in a few hours with the "So, I want to ask out the taxi driver" thread


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,390 ✭✭✭IM0


    tell him youre looking for an orgasm duh, after much laughter ensues hold eye contact and during the slightly awkward silence read him to see if its awkward body language he's giving off by breaking your stare into his eyes [which you should be doing] if eventually he cops it in a 'heeeey' moment like joey from friends then walk back to your seat. and wait for him to hit on you


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    Chop chop, I want to go to sleep! I'm up at 7am...I need to know what happens!



    Chop chop makes me laugh when I hear it every time (except when it is followed by something like wheres my dinner). He was never brave enough tho lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Feeky is the new word for kiss as said on msn news articles. 19 ways us irish call to kiss only heard a few! Im getting old waiting for prince charming!

    Go get him op do you think prince charmings and princesses waited to be asked if you had a glass slipper the barman might try to find you as owner.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    rockbeast wrote: »
    Nah, she'll be back on in a few hours with the "So, I want to ask out the taxi driver" thread

    Stop ruining the romance :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    Chop chop makes me laugh when I hear it every time (except when it is followed by something like wheres my dinner). He was never brave enough tho lol

    I said it to someone recently and he said that it means I wanted sex off him...news to me!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Huh? Silly double meanings!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Chucken wrote: »
    Stop ruining the romance :(


    Sorry:o

    Deep down I hope she and the ginger get together. I also hope he's on boards and sees this tomorrow


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    Just go up and ask for a Screaming Orgasm and gauge his reaction.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,943 ✭✭✭from_atozinc


    At this stage, they must be ridin

    Edit : they have finished ridin ; )


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  • Registered Users Posts: 402 ✭✭BrianG23


    Is he a gingery ginger or a day walker?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    BrianG23 wrote: »
    Is he a gingery ginger or a day walker?

    Proper Ginger :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Ask for a cocktail drink a sex on the beach! And add something to it so he catch the gist of it! I dont get funny looks when i ask for the drink but embarrassed to ask though...so go for a cosmo usually!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Heating up pizza now, I'll be up until I find out what's going on!! I f*cking love pizza...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    BrianG23 wrote: »
    Is he a gingery ginger or a day walker?

    She'll let us know soon enough, I'm sure


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    I said it to someone recently and he said that it means I wanted sex off him...news to me!



    Well that would explain the weird looks I get when I say it for the laugh so....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    rockbeast wrote: »
    Nah, she'll be back on in a few hours with the "So, I want to ask out the taxi driver" thread

    This has happened to me before :-). My battery is running out. You guys were right, the bar is incredibly packed. I'll tell you what happened tomorrow.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    This has happened to me before :-). My battery is running out. You guys were right, the bar is incredibly packed. I'll tell you what happened tomorrow.

    Damn it, I've still pizza left, the computers back on and I'm about to open wine. I'll expect a report at 7am!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    This has happened to me before :-). My battery is running out. You guys were right, the bar is incredibly packed. I'll tell you what happened tomorrow.

    Just tell us before you go. Was it positive or negative?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,284 ✭✭✭StewartGriffin


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    :-( I'm getting rejected so.

    If you do get rejected I fear there may be deep psychological scars. You must hop on the train to Westport tomorrow morning, pm me, and I will meet you in my kitchen. I will be wearing a ginger wig and a strange smile. will nod an acceptance and you may jump on me an f**k my brains out.

    This will heal you.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Wine nearly ready to open or should it be champers pop open the bubbly...we look forward to the report! Do tell...we dying to know what happens! Summer lurve! :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Eff this. I am going to ask him now. Rejection builds character!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,943 ✭✭✭from_atozinc


    Just let us know in one word at least

    Good or bad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Its all part of the dating experience best of luck op! We all rooting for you!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I can hear fireworks or something...its June ffs! Either that or its gunshots :/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Every barman in Dublin will be wearing a ginger wig tomorrow night:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    TAXI!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    rockbeast wrote: »
    Every barman in Dublin will be wearing a ginger wig tomorrow night:D

    What makes you think shes in Dublin?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Howd it go?

    How you know it dublin could be cork or limerick or galway as munster87 seems to be in the same bar!?

    I like to know the name of the bar my own options wearing thin in the kingdom!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Chucken wrote: »
    What makes you think shes in Dublin?

    Hadn't thought of that!

    And there's me trying to figure out what bars you can serve in and wear shorts in in Dublin...

    Too dublin-centric for my own good...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Shorts my guess it sunny or beach spot or near the sea or port?
    Its a city if packed but it a bank hol most cities and big towns are and been sunny lately. Unless it a themed night?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Wine at the ready ha!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I bet shes either in Dublin city centre or somewhere close to it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    I bet shes in Cork.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    I bet it cork too! :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Chucken wrote: »
    I bet shes in Cork.

    I'm thinking Sally Longs in Galway if she's not in Dublin...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭bacon n eggs


    Someone wants to reproduce with a GINGER?

    Oi, there's a shortage ye know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,348 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    If not cork or dublin it limerick or galway have a feeling it cork or galway!


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,030 ✭✭✭pavb2


    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=84806979#post84806979


    The silence. I miss the silence. God I can't wait to live alone again. This is one of the reasons I have no intention of ever getting married or having kids.


    Hang on a minute


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    pavb2 wrote: »
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=84806979#post84806979


    The silence. I miss the silence. God I can't wait to live alone again. This is one of the reasons I have no intention of ever getting married or having kids.


    Hang on a minute

    That cheatin...:mad::D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Oi, there's a shortage ye know.

    My new little grandson is Ginger and gorgeous :D


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