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I want to ask the bar man out

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  • #52
    from_atozinc
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,943 ✭✭✭from_atozinc


    Look. As a lad I'd love to be asked out by a girl so go for it !


  • #53
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    The bad news is that she is hotter than I am :-(. The good news is I doubt she's interested in my hot ginger man who seems to have disappeared. :-(

    Course shes not hotter than you!?!
    Oh my god, hes probably finished his shift. Quick, start asking questions from whoever is behind the bar now!!

    GO!


  • #54
    Cavehill Red
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,109 ✭✭✭Cavehill Red


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    The bad news is that she is waaaaaay hotter than I am :-(. The good news is I doubt she's interested in my hot ginger man who seems to have disappeared. :-(

    He's off to the bottles bin. You should follow quickly.


  • #55
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Jimoslimos wrote: »
    Hey I only said "eliminate". If you took that as meaning "kill".....wouldn't want to cross you on a dark night.:eek:

    Well in the bond movies 'eliminate' means kill. How was I to know we weren't speaking spy language? In other news, I am beginning to feel pukey and I haven't even started on my third drink. I am not going to last long. Where the heck is he?!!


  • #56
    Cavehill Red
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,109 ✭✭✭Cavehill Red


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Well in the bond movies 'eliminate' means kill. How was I to know we weren't speaking spy language? In other news, I am beginning to feel pukey and I haven't even started on my third drink. I am not going to last long. Where the heck is he?!!

    Airing himself out back awaiting company, obviously! Go keep him warm.


  • #57
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    munster87 wrote: »
    I was just watching the Dublin match, coverage just over

    There's a couple of girls snorting stuff in a lift, now a black dude with an afro, now an old white dude talking to Daniel Craig. OMG! Bond is here! Coincidence?!!


  • #58
    Jimoslimos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,930 ✭✭✭Jimoslimos


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Well in the bond movies 'eliminate' means kill. How was I to know we weren't speaking spy language? In other news, I am beginning to feel pukey and I haven't even started on my third drink. I am not going to last long. Where the heck is he?!!
    Ah yes, I was being needlessly ambiguous
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6cake3bwnY

    Oh and do it now, before the melancholy stage of drunkenness sets in.


  • #59
    Sauve
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Well in the bond movies 'eliminate' means kill. How was I to know we weren't speaking spy language? In other news, I am beginning to feel pukey and I haven't even started on my third drink. I am not going to last long. Where the heck is he?!!

    I think I've met you and you're a feckin' ride.
    Ask him- be my hero!!


  • #60
    Anyone
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,376 ✭✭✭Anyone


    Chucken wrote: »
    Get another drink then ask him, cos if you ask him and he says no and then you take off out the door, he'll think you're just out to pick up anyone!

    Woohoo!!



    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    That's then thing. I came out by myself for a drink. I'm not meeting anyone. Now you have me spooked :-(.

    Awww


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  • #61
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Sauve wrote: »
    I think I've met you and you're a feckin' ride.
    Ask him- be my hero!!

    I've met her...she is :D


  • #62
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Chucken wrote: »
    Course shes not hotter than you!?!
    Oh my god, hes probably finished his shift. Quick, start asking questions from whoever is behind the bar now!!

    GO!

    I am tipsy but I can tell you want to see me fall so you can laugh. That is not advice from someone who cares. Do you care?


  • #63
    orestes
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,972 ✭✭✭orestes


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    I am tipsy but I can tell you want to see me fall so you can laugh. That is not advice from someone who cares. Do you care?

    Quit with the girly talk and go get our man dammit!
    Chucken wrote: »
    Aw, I dont want to see you fall. This little strawberry blonde could be the love of your life! I feel it in my water :D

    Hang on, strawberry blonde?! You said he was a ginger, not a daywalking traitor! :mad:


  • #64
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    I am tipsy but I can tell you want to see me fall so you can laugh. That is not advice from someone who cares. Do you care?

    Aw, I dont want to see you fall. This little strawberry blonde could be the love of your life! I feel it in my water :D


  • #65
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    I've met her...she is :D

    Awww, thank you Sauve and Ihatecuddles. That's kind of you to say. I hope he thinks so too. Okay, confidence boosted. I'm going to ask him when he comes back!


  • #66
    WoollyRedHat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    From the garage to the bar, getting posher.


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  • #67
    Menas
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    Good luck!

    Grabs popcorn.


  • #68
    smcgiff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,943 ✭✭✭smcgiff


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    I am tipsy but I can tell you want to see me fall so you can laugh. That is not advice from someone who cares. Do you care?


    you need to get talking to him. you need to shoehorn a question about whether he has a girlfriend. he'll know you are interested. depending how he responds take it from there. you may need to sit up at the bar.


  • #69
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Good luck :)


  • #70
    Menas
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    OP has been gone a while. Hopefully some top notch flirting going on with lots of eye contact and seductive smiles.

    Or she is running for the 13a bus.


  • #71
    mfceiling
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,862 ✭✭✭✭mfceiling


    Hope this doesn't end up like the safe thread....


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  • #72
    Menas
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    mfceiling wrote: »
    Hope this doesn't end up like the safe thread....

    Or a 'I fancy my music teacher' thread.
    That one went on for weeks and ended sadly.


  • #73
    Aidric
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    Poor trolling hurts my eyes.


  • #74
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    orestes wrote: »
    Quit with the girly talk and go get our man dammit!



    Hang on, strawberry blonde?! You said he was a ginger, not a daywalking traitor! :mad:
    Relax oh soulless one. He's a member of your tribe.


  • #75
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Brian and Ciara was great (even though people keep saying it was all lies :()


  • #76
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    15 minutes?!

    This is like the ad break in an ITV2 film....


  • #77
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Relax oh soulless one. He's a member of your tribe.

    Well????? Whats goin on?


  • #78
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Aidric wrote: »
    Poor trolling hurts my eyes.

    I haven't given the middle finger to anyone in a long time. Time to change that. Here's a virtual finger for you sir.


  • #79
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    This is waaaaay better than the safe thread....I'm on tenterhooks here!


  • #80
    chinwag
    Registered Users Posts: 427 ✭✭chinwag


    Whatever you do OP, don't rush into anything.


  • #81
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Chucken wrote: »
    Well????? Whats goin on?

    He looks busy and my heart is beating waaay too fast.


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  • #82
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    He looks busy and my heart is beating waaay too fast.


    Will you get on with it? He'll only get busier as the night goes on!!!


  • #83
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    He looks busy and my heart is beating waaay too fast.

    She who hesitates...


  • #84
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Chucken wrote: »
    Will you get on with it? He'll only get busier as the night goes on!!!

    It's easy for you to say! For some reason it's not crowded tonight. People keep leaving I'm thinking of playing it's safe and asking the other barman if he's single...


  • #85
    Timmyctc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,825 ✭✭✭Timmyctc


    rockbeast wrote: »
    She who hesitates...

    ..Masturbates...


  • #86
    moc moc a moc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,299 ✭✭✭moc moc a moc


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    cute ginger

    How many have you had?? :eek:


  • #87
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    He looks busy and my heart is beating waaay too fast.

    The third drink should be helping with the nerves by now!

    Have confidence in yourself - it's some compliment to be asked out by a pretty girl. He'll be delighted :)


  • #88
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Timmyctc wrote: »
    ..Masturbates...

    haha. This is the truth. Munster87, are you in the bar where one of the barmen has a gazillion tattoos and is wearing black shorts and a black tshirt?


  • #89
    Timmyctc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,825 ✭✭✭Timmyctc


    Take a shneaky wee pic of him there OP and post it up so we can have a gawk.


  • #90
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Timmyctc wrote: »
    ..Masturbates...

    Was thinking has a mickey d's and gets the fightlink:D


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  • #91
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    haha. This is the truth. Munster87, are you in the bar where one of the barmen has a gazillion tattoos and is wearing black shorts and a black tshirt?

    Fibbers so...


  • #92
    Sir Oxman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,492 ✭✭✭Sir Oxman


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    I'm by myself. I'm worried it's might be even more weird if I ask him out because then he'll just think I've been sort of stealth stalking him. It's the truth but I don't want him to think it. I should just go home.....

    Without reading the whole thread, my advice is stay at home.


  • #93
    ahnowbrowncow
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,584 ✭✭✭ahnowbrowncow


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    haha. This is the truth. Munster87, are you in the bar where one of the barmen has a gazillion tattoos and is wearing black shorts and a black tshirt?

    You thinking of kidnapping the barman :eek:


  • #94
    Jonti
    Registered Users Posts: 76 ✭✭Jonti


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    I'm seated in a pub. This is my second drink. The bar man is a cute ginger with a pretty mouth. I want to ask him out but I'm shy. Also, this is my favourite pub. If he says no, I will be too embarrassed to come back. What to do, what to do?

    Buy him a pint and ask him what's he doing when he gets off?


  • #95
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,344 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Smile and a wink maybe ask him to join you for a drink. Could be a long night before he get a break or waiting till closing time!

    The lads are having you on. Ask him when you not too tipsy!

    Nothing wrong with gingers!


  • #96
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    Okay, I've just pretended to his colleague that one of my friends likes him ( we come here often, my friends and I so he believed it's) and his response is, 'everyone likes him.' :-( I'm getting rejected so.


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  • #97
    Sir Oxman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,492 ✭✭✭Sir Oxman


    munster87 wrote: »
    I think we are in the same bar!!

    She's at home, are you?


  • #98
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    rockbeast wrote: »
    Fibbers so...

    No.


  • #99
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Okay, I've just pretended to his colleague that one of my friends likes him ( we come here often, my friends and I so he believed it's) and his response is, 'everyone likes him.' :-( I'm getting rejected so.

    You will with that attitude missy :mad:
    Tell his colleague the truth now and I bet ya ginger will pop over to chat.:)


  • #100
    Arawn
    Registered Users Posts: 3,158 ✭✭✭Arawn


    Just ****ing sack up and ask him. Confidence is sexy being meek and shy isn't


  • #101
    Gee_G
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,215 ✭✭✭Gee_G


    Itwasntme. wrote: »
    Okay, I've just pretended to his colleague that one of my friends likes him ( we come here often, my friends and I so he believed it's) and his response is, 'everyone likes him.' :-( I'm getting rejected so.
    You're not being rejected! He might just be a cheeky chap that has the craic and gets on with everyone! Go for it! :)
    I'm completely hooked here and expecting serious results :D


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