conflict of men/women

carlybabe1 · 08-07-2009 8:43pm #1

So lads, I need mostly your opinions, in the whole "etiquette of relationships" thingy. Heres the story so far,
My other half takes exception to me walking outside bra-less, and I think hes being ridiculous. Now Im not talking going for a jog in a tight top with boobs-a-bouncin'', I mean walkin out in the pjs to water the flowers in my garden.
So, is he bein ridiculous, or am I bein naive

Lads, take the floor

445279.ie · 08-07-2009 8:46pm

He's being ridiculous :rolleyes:

Snowie · 08-07-2009 8:46pm

Yeah he is right, you should be covered up... walkin around in pjs Its spreeding soon all of irish women will be like gardeners street....

Ruu_Old · 08-07-2009 8:46pm

He's being a gobshite, dump him and go travelling.

Bob Z · 08-07-2009 8:48pm

carlybabe1 wrote: »

So lads, I need mostly your opinions, in the whole "etiquette of relationships" thingy. Heres the story so far,
My other half takes exception to me walking outside bra-less, and I think hes being ridiculous. Now Im not talking going for a jog in a tight top with boobs-a-bouncin'', I mean walkin out in the pjs to water the flowers in my garden.
So, is he bein ridiculous, or am I bein naive

Lads, take the floor

Yes my OH also likes me to wear a bra outside. I think SHES just been silly

ejmaztec · 08-07-2009 8:48pm

Perhaps he doesn't want you using his wheelbarrow, and would prefer you using a bra.

Biggins · 08-07-2009 8:49pm

Yep, agreed. He's being ridiculous.

Its another thing if you were wandering about the main streets in your pj's but just outside your own door! Way over-reaction.
If he's like that now, just start to imagine what he'd be like if ye were married!

Time make some hard decisions before ya get in deeper!

phasers · 08-07-2009 8:49pm

Speaking as a woman: Put on a bra.

Not as a style thing, it's just that from personal experience men notice/ it's uncomfortable.

Also you'll be all saggy in a few years :pac:

My name is URL · 08-07-2009 8:49pm

He's afraid you'll catch a bewb cold.

Nobody likes a blue nipple

TPD · 08-07-2009 8:51pm

I dont think enough women walk around without bras.

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Super-Rush · 08-07-2009 8:52pm

As long as you're not going to Tesco in your pj's then he is over reacting. Bra's get in the way imo.

TestTransmission · 08-07-2009 8:52pm

Pics or GTFO

TheZohanS · 08-07-2009 8:54pm

phasers wrote: »

Speaking as a woman: Put on a bra.

You're a girl?!

OP it all depends on the size/shape of your boobs tbh.

We're going to need pics.

Abi · 08-07-2009 8:54pm

Go out and water the flowers again, only this time do it topless. Nothing like exaggerating a point to make a guy see sense.

Poor Uncle Tom · 08-07-2009 8:55pm

That's the start of it, You'll be doing commando cartwheels to go to the shops next.

Stamp it out now, chastity belt, bra and shades are mandatory for watering the flowers you know.

Didn't you ever see day of the triffids?

admiralofthefleet · 08-07-2009 8:56pm

tell him to shut up and get back into the parochial house

Poor Uncle Tom · 08-07-2009 8:58pm

admiralofthefleet wrote: »

tell him to shut up and get back into the parochial house

Or wait till he's saying mass and go bananas with the hose..!:D

TheZohanS · 08-07-2009 9:09pm

carlybabe1 wrote: »

I mean walkin out in the pjs to water the flowers in my garden

You're using a watering can....right?

ahara · 08-07-2009 9:09pm

You should wear a burkha and chastity belt as well when engaged in such unseemly activity as the watering of flowers (after all they are nature's harlots).

You haven't mentioned it but I'm presuming you have a suitable chaperone when venturing outdoors.

cruiser178 · 08-07-2009 9:17pm

Ladys of ireland,BURN YOUR BRAS.....not the mingers of course

Calibos · 08-07-2009 9:59pm

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

itsallaboutheL · 08-07-2009 10:00pm

I only got as far as braless.............................. so my answer is YES

Mrmoe · 08-07-2009 10:03pm

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

feck it, now I have a semi and I'm still at work.

LimeFruitGum · 08-07-2009 10:03pm

*lol*

If nobody else can see the twins, then I really don't see the problem.

But make a habit of it and the twins will suffer later. And I'd say the lads here wouldn't like that. Maybe he's thinking long-term here :-)

ejmaztec · 08-07-2009 10:08pm

TheZohan wrote: »

You're using a watering can....right?

I think she uses a big pair of jugs if she can't find the watering-can.

Professey Chin · 08-07-2009 10:09pm

Ignore him.Let your boobies hang wild and free.
For as the old saying goes, Let your boobies hang wild and free.

Maddison · 08-07-2009 10:12pm

I think i love you:D

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

Abi · 08-07-2009 10:18pm

Maddison wrote: »

I think i love you

I was wondering when you were going to cop it

ejmaztec · 08-07-2009 10:23pm

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

Didn't you say all that in court last week, just before the female judge gave you two years?:eek:

K-9 · 08-07-2009 10:24pm

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

Now she will see something wrong with it. :eek:

Novella · 08-07-2009 10:32pm

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

Maddison wrote: »

I think i love you:D

+1 I also think I love you!

OP, next time water your flowers wearing just a bra.

stealthyspeeder · 08-07-2009 10:47pm

carlybabe1 wrote: »

I mean walkin out in the pjs to water the flowers in my garden.

Outside of the kitchen???? I agree with your boyfriend, i'd be raging with you!!!:D

confusticated · 08-07-2009 10:51pm

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

You could make a fortune writing for Mills&Boon...that's assuming that you're not already.

OP - do as he asks, but in the interests of equality, he must wear one too?

gaeilgegrinds · 08-07-2009 10:58pm

Jeez ye have me thinking now, mine are really pert so they don't go all floppy without one so I'd often leave out the bins without one. My better half rather dislikes bras!

LimeFruitGum · 08-07-2009 11:17pm

gaeilgegrinds wrote: »

Jeez ye have me thinking now, mine are really pert so they don't go all floppy without one so I'd often leave out the bins without one. My better half rather dislikes bras!

It depends on your age and bra size. Not that I am asking for details(!), but if yours are say, over a B cup, then you can't afford to skip wearing one unfortunately.

gaeilgegrinds · 08-07-2009 11:22pm

I don't hugely agree, it depends on how toned they are too. I've a nice set but they're not all floppy as I said. I can just about get away with it. I like wearing bras but refuse to in bed, hate that!

LimeFruitGum · 08-07-2009 11:26pm

gaeilgegrinds wrote: »

I don't hugely agree, it depends on how toned they are too. I've a nice set but they're not all floppy as I said. I can just about get away with it. I like wearing bras but refuse to in bed, hate that!

:-) I find it more uncomfortable not to wear a bra; damn bosoms!

Vinta81 · 08-07-2009 11:27pm

Depends what kind of pjs. It's obviously skimpy enough if he's kicking up a fuss.

Then again, I wouldn't open my door in pjs let alone walk out into the front garden in them lol! My parents wouldn't be too thrilled!

Loopy · 08-07-2009 11:30pm

He's being a tit.
Wear what you bloody well want too..

carlybabe1 · 09-07-2009 12:16am

Bob Z wrote: »

Yes my OH also likes me to wear a bra outside. I think SHES just been silly

ejmaztec wrote: »

Perhaps he doesn't want you using his wheelbarrow, and would prefer you using a bra.

TheZohan wrote: »

You're a girl?!

OP it all depends on the size/shape of your boobs tbh.

We're going to need pics.

Abigayle wrote: »

Go out and water the flowers again, only this time do it topless. Nothing like exaggerating a point to make a guy see sense.

Abigayle, I love you!!!!!! :pac::pac::pac::pac::pac::pac:

Poor Uncle Tom wrote: »

That's the start of it, You'll be doing commando cartwheels to go to the shops next.

Stamp it out now, chastity belt, bra and shades are mandatory for watering the flowers you know.

Didn't you ever see day of the triffids?

admiralofthefleet wrote: »

tell him to shut up and get back into the parochial house

RLOL

:D:D

TheZohan wrote: »

You're using a watering can....right?

Calibos wrote: »

As a man, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong in walking past some lady watering the flowers braless in her Pj's in her garden on my way to work. I'll even say "hello, lovely morning isn't it".........

.........as I gaze at the glistening beads of sweat from her exhertions slowly run down in rivuletes between her breasts visible from the top of her PJ's as she bends over to water the Hydrangia....as her breasts hang there defying gravity, I long to reach in and cup her fleshy orbs of womanhood while caressing her pert nipples erected by the chill morning air between my thumb and forefinger...........

Cough.......

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with it love.

Dont water them in the mornin chick, sorry to disappoint

ejmaztec wrote: »

I think she uses a big pair of jugs if she can't find the watering-can.

modest litre & half per cup size

I swear, if Id known this thread was gonna be so funny Id have posted ages ago

:D:D RLOL RLOL. Ive been in fits.....

Anywho, not to blow ones own trumpet, (manner of speakin) my rack is not "swingin-a'tween-the-knees". And I only remove the bra at night, cant sleep in the god-damn things. Its part of my relaxy routine.

Astrogeek · 09-07-2009 12:23am

You water the garden? In Ireland?

But as a woman, I say either ignore him or do it topless to piss him off and if this really pisses him off you really want to be in a relationship with this guy?
He isn't gay by any chance?

K-9 · 09-07-2009 12:32am

Astrogeek wrote: »

But as a woman, I say either ignore him or do it topless to piss him off and if this really pisses him off you really want to be in a relationship with this guy?

Well, a girlfriend being topless while watering the flowers would piss me off a little.

Grand in the house, but not outside in the garden. Sorry, I'd have a thing about that! :cool:

Banter Joe · 09-07-2009 12:32am

I'm starting to think this is a very elaborate scheme by the boyfriend to get her to do topless gardening and Astrogeek and Abigayle are in on it!:D

120_Minutes · 09-07-2009 12:39am

it depends OP, how big are they?

gaeilgegrinds · 09-07-2009 12:40am

Hmm...reverse psychology. Maybe he's just more conservative than you? I'm just thinking of my last boyfriend and how he nearly died when it finally dawned on him on holidays why I don't have tan lines. He was not a happy camper. Some men do not like that kinda thing.

Saibh · 09-07-2009 12:42am

Tell him to water the flowers the next time...

k8bcly · 09-07-2009 12:55am

Saibh wrote: »

Tell him to water the flowers the next time...

omg soo agree!!! if he has a problem tell him to do it!!!!

Bob Z · 09-07-2009 1:11pm

Your OH is just being silly. Next time you want to water the flowers braless tell us fellas where you are and well go around and support you

Professey Chin · 09-07-2009 1:23pm

Bob Z wrote: »

Your OH is just being silly. Next time you want to water the flowers braless tell us fellas where you are and well go around and support you

If she wanted support, she'd wear the bra. Pay attention

carlybabe1 · 10-07-2009 10:58am

gaeilgegrinds wrote: »

Hmm...reverse psychology. Maybe he's just more conservative than you? I'm just thinking of my last boyfriend and how he nearly died when it finally dawned on him on holidays why I don't have tan lines. He was not a happy camper. Some men do not like that kinda thing.

Thats the weird thing, he doesnt mind me goin topless on holidays, sooo confusing. I think part of it is that he hates where we live, doesnt want the neighbours bitchin, where as I dont give a fcuk

k8bcly wrote: »

omg soo agree!!! if he has a problem tell him to do it!!!!

Have done loads of times, it just pisses me off that he gets that way, it really fcukin annoys me.

Dardania · 10-07-2009 11:15am

carlybabe1 wrote: »

Thats the weird thing, he doesnt mind me goin topless on holidays, sooo confusing. I think part of it is that he hates where we live, doesnt want the neighbours bitchin, where as I dont give a fcuk

Have done loads of times, it just pisses me off that he gets that way, it really fcukin annoys me.

Whole different issue so...

conflict of men/women

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