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Don't know how to ask her out?
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01-05-2008 3:12am#1
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yep you can always try and go "oh hey Im going to Chad's party next week are you going?" and she'll be all like "OMG my BFF Jill is going to be there so yeah probably" and then you go "cool see you there".
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yep you can always try and go "oh hey Im going to Chad's party next week are you going?" and she'll be all like "OMG my BFF Jill is going to be there so yeah probably" and then you go "cool see you there".
Oh that Chad! He's such a divil, with his parties and wild ways!
First off, any man/woman's biggest pothole in askign someone out is their fear of rejection, and we all have it/had it at some stage. Put this in perspective in your own head, remind yourself that, while she may be aweomse beyond imagining, when all's said and done you're just asking her on a date. You're not asking her to validate your whole existence. if she says no then try to laugh it off.
In fact, do what I do whenever I get rejected, turn it into a joke. I was at a party a few months back adn i got talkign to this woman, and i thought she was amazing, she seemed confident, intelligent, and she had this silky elegance to her that stoked my fires. So, carpe diem and all that, I said "look, do you want to have dinner sometime", granted dinner might be a bit much for a first date, but anyway, I then learn that she's homosexual
Imagine my dissappointment, so I laughed it off by saying something along the liens of "awww man, just my luck, the only interesting woman at the party isn't attracted to men!". That kind of response tend to cause any tension/awkwwardness to evaporate, and it gives you time to think of a enw topic before the laughter ends.
Also everybody digs confidence. And I mean EVERYBODY, if you were relaxed enough to ask your best male friend on a date he would probably say yes. So get set in your head, and don't ask her until you've put this into perspective.
P.S. While I don't usually endorse head games, I feel compelled to point out that if she says "no" and you laugh it off, it will cause a radical jarring in her head, and she'll probably completely re-evaluate how she sees you. Anywho, best of luck.0 -
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AngryBadger wrote: »Oh that Chad! He's such a divil, with his parties and wild ways!
First off, any man/woman's biggest pothole in askign someone out is their fear of rejection, and we all have it/had it at some stage. Put this in perspective in your own head, remind yourself that, while she may be aweomse beyond imagining, when all's said and done you're just asking her on a date. You're not asking her to validate your whole existence. if she says no then try to laugh it off.
In fact, do what I do whenever I get rejected, turn it into a joke. I was at a party a few months back adn i got talkign to this woman, and i thought she was amazing, she seemed confident, intelligent, and she had this silky elegance to her that stoked my fires. So, carpe diem and all that, I said "look, do you want to have dinner sometime", granted dinner might be a bit much for a first date, but anyway, I then learn that she's homosexual Imagine my dissappointment, so I laughed it off by saying something along the liens of "awww man, just my luck, the only interesting woman at the party isn't attracted to men!". That kind of response tend to cause any tension/awkwwardness to evaporate, and it gives you time to think of a enw topic before the laughter ends.
Also everybody digs confidence. And I mean EVERYBODY, if you were relaxed enough to ask your best male friend on a date he would probably say yes. So get set in your head, and don't ask her until you've put this into perspective.
P.S. While I don't usually endorse head games, I feel compelled to point out that if she says "no" and you laugh it off, it will cause a radical jarring in her head, and she'll probably completely re-evaluate how she sees you. Anywho, best of luck.
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This is the best way to do it, don't go through her friend she'll think you don't have the guts to ask her yourself and that's a turn off , as said just start chatting with her and along it say "Hey , So you going to let me take you for a drink sometime?" or something like that if she says yes great if not laugh it off move topic - if you don't ask you'll never know...0 -
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