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    #32
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    Would love to help you out but I really don't know . Sorry


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    #33
    lex123
    Registered Users Posts: 71 ✭✭lex123


    im from tipp and there is a few around,depends how open and confident you are!


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    #34
    Chuchoter
    Registered Users Posts: 4,306 ✭✭✭Chuchoter


    The difficulty with online chatrooms is that they tend to be populated with men pretending to be lesbians. :( Could you try the belongto group in Cork maybe? I'm nearly sure one exists. Or just go add people on facebook and start talking, or tagged.


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    #35
    lex123
    Registered Users Posts: 71 ✭✭lex123


    reality is every girl thinks about been without another girl,and every girl giving the chance would in my opinion,although most girls would deny it.


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    #36
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    Tagged is useless tbh


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    #37
    Chuchoter
    Registered Users Posts: 4,306 ✭✭✭Chuchoter


    I'm having a flick through here and remembering why I deleted my account here actually. I swear to God, I know this is going to make me sound like the biggest snob in the universe, but why is it that the vast majority of lesbians my age are just rather....I don't know. No-one seems to read or be at all interested in anything slightly intellectual. Maybe I'm just meeting the wrong people..but seriously.


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    #38
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    crayolastereo wrote: »
    I'm having a flick through here and remembering why I deleted my account here actually. I swear to God, I know this is going to make me sound like the biggest snob in the universe, but why is it that the vast majority of lesbians my age are just rather....I don't know. No-one seems to read or be at all interested in anything slightly intellectual. Maybe I'm just meeting the wrong people..but seriously.

    Haha trust me you're not a snob I often wonder the same things . I try find some other common ground


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    #39
    Chuchoter
    Registered Users Posts: 4,306 ✭✭✭Chuchoter


    Like what though? What is the secret key interest I need to make friends with gay girls my own age? :P


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    Kanoe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,522 ✭✭✭Kanoe


    ^ alcohol. :pac: (k,)

    btw platinum, I was in dig recently and they were advertising a wimmins under 25's night this month sometime so if your around you might want to check it out.


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    #41
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    Kanoe wrote: »
    ^ alcohol. :pac: (k,)

    btw platinum, I was in dig recently and they were advertising a wimmins under 25's night this month sometime so if your around you might want to check it out.

    ^^^^^ seriously gotta love that girl :p
    Depends on the night though .I've one more exam left :(.

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    #42
    Kanoe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,522 ✭✭✭Kanoe


    I think it's the 25th which would make it a Saturday, handy if everyone is heading out to celebrate. If I'm I'm passing later I'll take a look an let you know. Best of luck with exams btw ;)


    edit: if it is on this month and I haven't picked up the info wrong, maybe a few others here might be interested? There seems to be a few here who are not too far away and ye could make a night of it.


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    #43
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    Kanoe wrote: »
    I think it's the 25th which would make it a Saturday, handy if everyone is heading out to celebrate. If I'm I'm passing later I'll take a look an let you know. Best of luck with exams btw ;)

    .

    All exams are done on the 24th, the day the entire leaving cert ends lol
    Totally screwed up Biology yesterday like big time .

    Doubt religion will be much better so will need a good night out after it


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    #44
    littlehedgehog
    Registered Users Posts: 588 ✭✭✭littlehedgehog


    I'm a bit older than you guys (omg 25.. FUUUUUUU), but I'm from a tiny town. I came out very, very openly at 17, and suddenly, I knew a good handful of gay people. Just from the virtue of being very out, people were more likely to come out to me then.
    It may be an idea..! If not, college, college, college :D


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    #45
    Chuchoter
    Registered Users Posts: 4,306 ✭✭✭Chuchoter


    The amount of things I've heard about how amazing college is, there better be nothing but lesbians when I get there or I'll be so disappointed :P


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    #46
    littlehedgehog
    Registered Users Posts: 588 ✭✭✭littlehedgehog


    Don't get me wrong - college doesn't mean you'll have a line of ladies outside your door, awaiting your attentions! And honestly, my story is very different to most people's - I met a girl early in first year, and had a 4 year relationship, so I don't know anything about single, gay college life.
    What I mean is that it's just much easier to be yourself in college so you are vastly more likely to get yourself a group of gay friends - especially in LGBT socs! You've a ready made group of queers right there - surely there'll be a few you'll get on with :)


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    #47
    Platinum2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 452 ✭✭Platinum2010


    Can't wait till college !to be fair ....in my case its like 2 months away hopefully lol
    but the things I've heard about attention seekers in LGBT groups is kinda off putting - makes me not wanna join :cool:


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    rainbow kirby
    Moderators, Regional Abroad Moderators Posts: 26,928 Mod ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Platinum2010 wrote: »
    Can't wait till college !to be fair ....in my case its like 2 months away hopefully lol
    but the things I've heard about attention seekers in LGBT groups is kinda off putting - makes me not wanna join :cool:

    Tbh, you won't know for definite until you try it. See how you get on, if nothing else it will be a means of getting to know a few other LGBT people at college.


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    #49
    LegacyUser
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    Duno if anyone is still typing to this but, I'm also living in Cork and yeah i've been having very homosexual thoughts recently. Im pretty confused, as I am going out with a guy for a good while now, and i really do love him, and i find him sexy and everything feels right. but sometimes, i see very pretty girls and i just feel this lust come over me. I think I might be bisexual. Not sure. And not sure what to do either .... ... :/:/


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    another new one
    Registered Users Posts: 42 ✭another new one


    corkgirl2011 wrote: »
    Duno if anyone is still typing to this but, I'm also living in Cork and yeah i've been having very homosexual thoughts recently. Im pretty confused, as I am going out with a guy for a good while now, and i really do love him, and i find him sexy and everything feels right. but sometimes, i see very pretty girls and i just feel this lust come over me. I think I might be bisexual. Not sure. And not sure what to do either .... ... :/:/

    i know you wrote your message there ages ago but just wondering, how did it all work out for you in the end with the fella and your feelings for girls?


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    #51
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    another new one wrote: »
    i know you wrote your message there ages ago but just wondering, how did it all work out for you in the end with the fella and your feelings for girls?

    Please don't drag up an old thread just to look for an update.


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    #52
    another new one
    Registered Users Posts: 42 ✭another new one


    baby and crumble wrote: »
    Please don't drag up an old thread just to look for an update.


    Sorry about that, still getting to know the runnings of the site here..seems I'm a slow learner! whoops:D


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    #53
    RuthK2505
    Registered Users Posts: 1 ✭RuthK2505


    stephunk wrote: »
    Hi,
    So I live in Meath and basically I'm 19 and haven't (to my knowledge) ever even meet another lesbian.
    I've only recently came to accepting my sexuality and tried some dating sites. It was a disaster and I just found it awkward and stuff.
    I'm really clueless about how girls go about meeting other lesbians, especially when you don't have any friends willing to come to gay bars etc. with you...

    I've never properly been with a girl and I'm starting to feel a little on my own... So yeah, any advice would be nice!
    Thanks :)
    i no exactly how you feel. i'm 18 in meath and feel as if all the girls are hiding. and it feels inapropriate to ask girls how they feel about other girls. hope you can find some one soon


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    #54
    Erika15
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭Erika15


    Hi, i'm 15 years old. And i'm bi.. i just found out not long time ago.. so i dont have any gay friend so its very hard to find someone... I;m from Dublin


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    #55
    carly_86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 523 ✭✭✭carly_86


    Thats tough going


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    #56
    Annasopra
    Registered Users Posts: 40,799 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Erika15 wrote: »
    Hi, i'm 15 years old. And i'm bi.. i just found out not long time ago.. so i dont have any gay friend so its very hard to find someone... I;m from Dublin

    Have you tried belong to?

    http://www.belongto.org/

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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    #57
    Erika15
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭Erika15


    No i didn't.


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    #58
    Annasopra
    Registered Users Posts: 40,799 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Erika15 wrote: »
    No i didn't.

    Well then maybe contact them

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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    #59
    Erika15
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭Erika15


    I wrote a email about 3-4 days ago and they didn't text me back. :/


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    #60
    Lauren3142
    Registered Users Posts: 77 ✭✭Lauren3142


    i think there all extinct at this point just me left ..


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    #61
    lifeisamazing
    Registered Users Posts: 1 ✭lifeisamazing


    Belongto.org is great website it helped me with coming out and meeting people in groups it shows you groups in your area. I find it is very difficult for lgbt people under the age of 18. One of my friends is such a homophobic and I have always been really close to her I honestly am not attracted to her but I have seen her throw her other friends that have come out to her to the curb and I am honestly terrified I have come out to all of my close family and one of my best friends starting with my uncle who is gay I found it a huge help and he is my main support bit I am so close to this homophobic friend that I have that I am so scarred to come out to more people I don't want to lose her I even tried showing thee the page belongto.org with info but she just won't look past the fact that lesbians prefer the same sex plez I need some advice


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