Seeking a little help.

Hey guys, I don't know where else to turn, I've talked to friends, I've talked to family, they all can't seem to help me. The best advice I've ever gotten was from strangers, as odd as that sounds... Anyway, here is my issues, I'm willing to go into more detail if you need me too, but the just of it is as followed;

Met this girl 3 months ago through a group on Facebook, both live in the same town (like 15 minutes away from one another) both of us had the "Love at first sight" thing going for us, we played some games (it was a gaming group) and just loved one another company, we met up the next couple days later, I was still living with my ex (well, my house but she would have been homeless with two kids *not mine* and I can't do that) when we met up we walked around a bit and I stayed quiet because I just couldn't get over how beautiful she was, eventually I was finally able to talk and we did. We talked a bunch, I over exaggerated on a couple things which were correct a couple weeks ago but everything was going great, we sat down at a table and she eventually told me to kiss her after we were talking about it and I kept saying I wanted to, once I kissed her everything that was us just... overflowed with emotion everything was so wonderful I felt like I had just been granted another chance to make someone happy about three days later I moved out of the house and moved in with a buddy of mine because it was the best I could do on such short notice, I spent a few days at her house and every night was just a passion overload (she has a kid don't know if that matters) every night was something new, we went to sleep nightly happy kissing, and just probably the grosses couple you could imagine, you know stopping one another to steal kisses and stuff in Walmart, and just... You know, the PDA couple that people say; 'Wow... They must be very open with their relationship.' about... Through that, and constantly saying cute little things; *example* "I wants snuggles!" -- "Me too babbby" - Again, the gross couple on Facebook that just makes you go; '... stop... to much...' nothing sexual ever posted but just cute little isms and what not... -- Now that you have how we were... I'll explain the problem...

So, about a month ago I had some abdominal pain (have a history of pancreatic issues) and told her I was feeling some pain and was going to go to the ER, she had her Dad watch her kid and she took me herself, whenever I go the hospital they give me Dilaudid it's the only thing that works for the stomach pain, rather it has been the only thing that has worked... They normally do a pain protocol (3 shots), and I had my second one still in minor discomfort I had said out loud; 'I think I might get my third one...' her response was; 'I think you've had enough.' - while I heard her my mind said I didn't and I ended up asking for the third. She was very displeased with me, and when the doctor came in and said; 'Nothings going on with your pancreas today.' She was even more upset. I've had this issue since I was 16, and it's turning into stone so there's not really much they can do, once it happens they remove it I'm on insulin basically. Anyway, after that things changed. The lovey stuff stopped, we stopped hanging out a ton, and only every now and again would we. A week after that we had a pretty nasty fight about the hospital trip and she got really angry at me saying that I'm an idiot for going in just to get high and what not, I've dealt with people saying that my entire life the fact that she would say it had me quite angry, I drank that night, knowing the risk knowing I'd end up in the hospital I did it anyway ended up 16 shots deep in Jack (which she still doesn't know that's why I was in the hospital), ended up in the hospital the next day due to my pancreas acting up again. I was there for 5 days and could barely talk to her because of how much medication they had me on... She continued to get really angry and distance herself from me, major. We went from being close talking every day, all day long to talking maybe 2-3 hours a day... sometimes more just depends on the day, really. We had before I went to the hospital talked about getting married (she brought it up, I went with it I do love her, majorly) -- Now that you know why she's mad at me, below is the final paragraph about what's going on now...

She told me after all of that, that she needs time to let it heal because her family is a family of addicts. I told her okay and I'd give her time, I had asked her if she wanted to snuggle and she went off on me. Got angry and we didn't talk that night. Over the process of the last... week or two things just seem to spiral every time we talk she seems to be mad, and when I ask her if she's mad, or ask her if she wants to be with me she just gets angry and doesn't want to talk to me, or just about it at all... Doesn't really seem to matter what I do, some days she's fine, some days she's angry, her Mom has been stressing her out a lot recently, more then usual I should say... She has started talking about us moving in together though, so I mean maybe she just needs more time, she says she wants us to go back to how we were, but hates that I keep trying to make it something it's not, when in reality all I'm trying to do it get it back to the way we were...

I'm getting stressed, depressed, and just do not know what to do anymore... I love this woman... I love her kid, I love her family she is just perfect for me, how can I get back what we once had? I've apologized, told her it won't happen again, and just... in general it doesn't seem to work, we don't ever spend 1 on 1 time together anymore (with her kid, or without) we just don't... Every time we play games, she is either typing to someone else or we are always doing stuff with her friends...