Sharing bed with pets

It's weird.

I can't see the difference between a spaniel lying on me when I watch TV and a spaniel lying on my feet when I sleep. Maybe you could argue that a spaniel should be doing neither (and I certainly feel this way myself now and again!) - but if you dog is indoors and gets on the sofa with you, I don't see why the bed is much worse.

I did a poll for this a while ago:

Approx 30% of posters had a dog on their bed or in their bedroom
Approx 12% have their dogs outside at night
And the rest have their dogs sleeping in the hall/kitchen etc.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056093306

When I'm working nights I usually have a nap during the day and one of the dogs sometimes join me.

If neither of the dogs are there with me, then one or both cats will sleep on the bed during the day.

When my OH is away for the night the cats sleep on the bed all night. I don't let the dog sleep on the bed all night as he snores very loudly.

When we go camping, we have the dog on the blow up bed with us, he starts at the end, but at some stage in the night tends to climb up under the covers, between us and lies there too hot, but too cosy to move. This year now, we have another boy in foster, so, if he's still with us, he will be coming camping too. I don't know how we will manage with both. I think they will have to be crated in the "porch" because I don't fancy waking up to a game of chasing over my head!

We change our bed covers twice weekly. I also have a throw which I put on the bed when one of the pets are on it. We are hardly ever sick!

Nope, not this dog. The JR cross we had growing up shared all of our beds all the time. Once one person got out of bed, she'd slink out and find someone else who was still in bed and join them. She was living in a house with 4 teenage boys, so she was rarely short of somewhere to sleep.
She was good though - she'd get in and go to the bottom of the bed, lie beside your legs and stay there.

That said, at night she slept in her own bed in the kitchen.

The Staffie though, no way. For a start, she smells. And she farts as only Staffies can do. Plus she moves around a lot when sleeping, and snores and does a lot of huffing and puffing. I've also discovered that she's much happier when there are firm, "You're dog, I'm owner" lines, and allowing her to even sit on the bed would blur those lines.

I don't let him upstairs cos of his legs but I voted yes because if he could come upstairs or my bed was downstairs I'd let him sleep on it!

Kablamo! wrote: »

The cat sleeps on my feet at night. She's grand and warm. I keep her wormed and flea-ed etc so I don't have a problem with it, although some may find it odd.

Same here, but mine lies next to my head for a few minutes before walking to the far end of the bed. For me his purring is kind of relaxing and helps me fall asleep

At the start i always told jack "No, Sleep in his bed on floor!" but then he just sneaked up when i was asleep...now i cant bare the night without his warm, cuddly self next to me. Its amazing!:)

Our cat sleeps on the pillow

Had a big boxer, he would dribble big saliva drips from his lips, he never stopped farting and had a discharges from his penis, would not let him anywhere near my bed.
Saw an article yesterday about ticks coming into the UK from the continent and spreading on animals, if they spread to us they can cause Lyme’s disease which could kill

www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/world/520094/ticks-bring-disease-to-uk.html

Fleas. These hardy little insects bite warm-blooded animals and use their blood for food. Fleas are so tiny that a single bite is barely noticeable (unless you or your cat are allergic, in which case it itches like crazy). A full-blown flea infestation, however, can take so much blood from an animal that it becomes anemic.

Fortunately for us, fleas prefer the warmer body temperature of cats and dogs to our 98.6 degrees Fahrenheit. But a hungry flea will take any port in a storm, and a flea will jump from an infected cat to carpets, drapes, furniture, and later onto you for a quick snack.

There's some concern that diseases carried in the blood could be passed through fleas but that would mean the flea that bites you would have to have bitten another person with a blood-borne disease, which is possible but highly unlikely. The largest dangers of fleas are the annoyance and itching of the bites.

Ticks. These are also blood-sucking insects. Ticks are somewhat larger than fleas, especially once they've attached themselves to a host and swell up. Like fleas, ticks aren't as likely to abandon your cat for you, but it can happen. Also, if your cat has been somewhere that ticks hang out, the odds are either you've been there, too, or your cat has brought them home. Again, the most common problem is annoyance. However, ticks can carry two serious diseases: Rocky Mountain spotted fever and Lyme disease.

The best protection against both of these diseases is prompt and complete removal of ticks. A few generations of Boy Scouts were taught that the best way to remove a tick is to burn its fanny with a cigarette or a smoldering match head. Well, besides the fact that Boy Scouts shouldn't be smoking, the evict-a-tick-by-fire strategy is not the best choice.

The best way to remove a tick is to use a pair of tweezers to grasp the tick as close to the skin line as possible. Pull it straight out, firmly but gently, with slow, even pressure. This should remove the entire tick -- including the head. Ticks are very hardy, so drop it in a small bottle of rubbing alcohol to make sure it's dead (and to preserve it for your vet, if your cat shows any signs of illness). Then, once you have removed the tick, dab the area with a topical antiseptic or antibiotic ointment.

Worms. These little fellows can live in your digestive tract without you realizing they've taken up residence. Worms can be picked up by careless handling of litter boxes and soil that cats have used as a litter box. Children are at particular risk for picking up worms this way.

Worms are often hard to detect, since they live inside the body. The tip-off is usually some sort of digestive problem that doesn't go away and has no other explanation. It's also a good idea to take a sample of your pet's stool to the vet for microscopic examination of worms and worm eggs. Worms can be treated quickly and safely as soon as they are diagnosed.

Ringworm. This isn't really a worm at all. It's a fungus that takes up residence on the skin, causing bald, scaly patches that are usually edged by a red ring. Cats are notorious for being asymptomatic carriers of ringworm, which simply means they can carry the fungus into your home (and onto you) without ever showing any signs themselves. Of course, many cats do show the signs, too.

Whether your cat shows the signs or you do (or both of you do), you'll most likely have to treat the whole house, as well as all the cats in the home. Ringworm spores can survive in the nooks and crannies of your home for months. Treatments might include disinfecting your home, topical ointments or lotions for the scaly patches, dips or baths for your cat, and oral medication.

Rabies. This is serious business. Rabies is a fatal disease. What's more, once the disease has taken hold, there's not much that can be done to stop it. The best defense against rabies is a strong offense. An indoor cat has nearly no chance of being exposed to rabies, but the safest bet is to give your cat a rabies vaccine and keep it current. Rabies is passed in the bite or scratch of an infected animal, so every time an outdoor cat gets in a scrape with another cat or tangles with local wildlife, there's a chance she'll contract it.

Rabies infects all warm-blooded animals, including people. Any bite or scratch from an animal -- even one that you know and that's up-to-date with its rabies shots -- should be treated as potentially dangerous. It's never an overreaction to seek medical care for a cat bite or serious cat scratch.



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Cat scratch fever is a fancy name for a
wound inflicted by a cat
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Cat scratch disease (also referred to as cat scratch fever). Some folks insist that cat scratch fever is a myth, but it really is a medically proven disease. Cat scratches and bites can turn into serious infections literally overnight. Cat bites, in particular, need careful attention. Wash bites or serious scratches thoroughly and call your doctor for advice. You may need a tetanus booster or an antibiotic shot to prevent infection.

Toxoplasmosis. Toxoplasma gondii is a protozoan parasite (one-celled organism) that can cause a neurological disease in humans. This protozoa is passed in the stools of infected cats, who in turn catch it from infected animals they've killed and eaten. Cats are what's called the primary vector for the toxoplasma organism, which means the life cycle of the parasite depends on spending at least a little time in the body of a cat.

Cats don't usually show much in the way of symptoms when they're infected with toxoplasmosis -- and a person who picks it up usually doesn't either. There may be some mild symptoms that are passed off as a cold or the flu but that's usually about it. The two major exceptions are people whose immune systems are weakened (such as someone on chemotherapy or a person with AIDS) and pregnant women.

Perhaps as many as 70 percent of adults have already been infected by toxoplasmosis and are now immune. Although cats are the primary vector for this parasite--and it is theoretically possible to pick up toxoplasmosis from careless handling of litter boxes or inhaling toxoplasma spores when cleaning the litter box--most people get toxoplasmosis from digging in dirt contaminated by cat feces or handling or eating raw or undercooked meat.

MaryK666 wrote: »

Yep. One cat sleeps on my pillow, one on my back (as I sleep on my stomach) one in the crook of OH's knees and one at the bottom of the bed. We wouldn't have it any other way and I miss the purring when I'm away from home.

They're gas, aren't they?
We have three cats and they all sleep in different positions, depending on the weather.
Also, at around 11 every night, they get very restless and start pacing around us if we're in the living room. As soon as we stand up, they go charging upstairs gurgling as if to say "yaaaay, bed bed bed bed!"
The third cat is a recent arrival and was wild when she first came to us. She wouldn't even allow us touch her. She's now worse than the other two and is first up every night. Also, when the alarm goes off in the morning, she hassles us until she gets attention.
If the weather is very cold, the three will, at various stages of the night, try to squirm in between the two of us to get warm. This can even mean wriggling under the covers! We've often woken up with the three of them having a wrestling match to get the prime position for attention and also warmth.
Now that the weather is getting warmer, they are less inclined to sleep on our chests, legs etc and settle for sleeping on our feet.
Once summer arrives, they rarely sleep on the bed because it's too warm and either sleep in their box on the floor or on the laundry basket on the landing or sometimes just on the floor itself.

Our dog sometimes sleeps in with us at the weekends - if not she sleeps in her bed in the hall or during the summer sleeps outside.

Also if she senses something is up - particularly if we're heading on holidays/weekend or prepping for a big day she is fairly insistant on staying in the bedroom with us - almost to make up for the time we'll be away from her. It's like she senses unusual activity from the normal routine.

She has her little habits though - in the mornings she comes in for a cuddle, normally I'm up first and I bring her in and she just snuggles into the bed beside himself. But...if he's up first, she comes in, jumps on the bed, gives me lots of kisses and then rolls over for a belly rub. And then barks for me to get up and play.