Problem please help

When you say you are afraid of doing much foreplay is that her to you or you to her?
You appear to be totally focussed on penetration as the sole means of pleasuring.

Foreplay is a misnomer as it indiactes it comes before something. It doesn't it can be made to last for hours and can be equally as satisfying if not more so than penetrative sex.

So for a start you can work on satisfying your girlfriend that way. You can take it in turns if you wish, acting as giver and receiver respectively and what you do is only limited by your imagination, remember you have the five senses to work with and very tactile hands and a tongue.

So put aside thoughts of your ownn pleasure for a while, dont worry it will be returned, and simply concentrate on learning your lovers responses and every shape and curve of her body, and every erogenous zonee, not juts the genitals.

As for not lasting: well there are ways of overcoming this Strengthening the PC muscle is one way, leraning to relax and breath deeply is another (when you approach orgasm you tend to breath shallowly and quickly and tense the body).
Verying rhthym position and speed may helkp, thiough be aware you have juts hit the spot with her and she may not want you to stop as she is approaching a climax. but slow deep positions alternating with shallow can bbe very good. You dont need to make muhc movement and of course you can focus on all her other parts as well once your body moves to its own rhythm.


Anopther way is the stop start technique, You can practice this solo by bringing yourseelf to the point of no return and then clenching teh PC breathing and squeezing to stop yourself from tipping over.
With practice you will find that you will be able to do this while making love and it will both prolong and intensify your orgasms.
It is also possible for the two of you to do this tiogether where she works you manually and you tell her to stop and so on and so forth. it is very arousing to do this.
If she is of a wicked mind she can actually prolong it by fast then stop and the durantion between each will narrow to less that three fast strokes follwoed by a stop. You will then feel the control you have. If she is really in control she can do this til one on and one off. Then finish you. But watch out it tends to spray lol.

As for the slimy stuff? maybe precum poerhaps but if you notice it again go to your doctor

edit: one of my favourite postiions is crossing the T. though it known by quite a few names. Its ideal if you are hair trigger as ther isnt the tightness. Basically you lie side on your side forming the bars of the T. She opens her legs and flips them over your hips and her body forms the tail of the T. you then enter her. Your hands can then stroke her clitoris as you move or she can do it. If you do the stroking gently and hold the position while thrusting gently you can mantain it pretty much as long as you want. If you want a tioghet sensationat any time, slip onl of her legs between yours and pull her towards you while moving.

Its an excellent gentle resting position as there is no weight on her and you can juts rock and rotate

reg0005 wrote: »

How do i give her a orgasm and how do i know if she is about to climax? there the same thing right or is a orgasm more?

Oh my Op there is an essay there lol. Well lets assume its just a genital orgasm you are talking about rather than the other types so lets not confuse the issue. But you will know ash she will exhibit all sorts of physiologival cahnges as well as apparently "losing" it. It may not be what you see in porn films, they are faked anyways, but if you aer tuned to her body you will feel the movements and lsiten to the sounds she makes. It amy be simple mmms or yesses, or tensing or hips moving. For example of someones hips start moving against my nose when giving mouth magic. its is almost ceratinly a sign she is building. but thats because i knwo thhe persons resonses.
But who can tell you about her responses...she can... she can even show you by masturvating in front of you, then you will have a direct line to what turns her on.

reg0005 wrote: »

I really want to try stuff out with her and we talk about most stuff we'd like to do or try and shes always up for new experiences, but im just not that well educated in this and I want to try everything out with her especially giving her a orgasm.

You have your own answer there!!!!!!!!!!!!. open communication and a willingess to explore. We can only talk to you about it, its up to you two to get down and dirty and enjoy practicing...it IS whats it all about. So juts play and forget the penetration aspect.
Dont take it TOOO seriously, remember if it goes belly up at times dont get upset its all alearning curve whihc never stops. You may miss the mark a few times but evetually you will get the gold, then it will be how higher and further :-)

Kaptain Redeye wrote: »

if you go to the doctor he will laugh at you. Precum is natural/essential thing. You should not go to the doctor about it.

if he laughs at you, sue his ass.
go to the doctor if you feel you should, it will relax you about it and he will give you advise on it.