Honestly now...... What does it for you?

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 1:58am #1

So i was thinking seeing as we have yet another thread going in AH currently that revolves around the whole fat women are horrible thing is it that one sided on here?

Not even just women fat people in general of all shapes and sizes fat doesn't always mean obese blob by the way!

Anyway my point of making this thread is all messing aside forget about what everyone else tells you or what where made to believe is good and bad what does it for you when it comes to size in men or women?

This is not about whats healthy its solely what you find sexy.

Poll included so if you don't want to comment at least vote :P.

Im just curious to see is this topic as black and white as it seems on here.

AlanS181824 · 22-10-2014 2:01am

Personality > Size

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 2:02am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

Ya i know fair enough but just put that to one side for now if you had to pick what would you go for?

Bipolar Joe · 22-10-2014 2:04am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

Now we know how much of a gentleman you are and the women are sufficiently wet in their knickers, do you like 'em fat or thin?

Shakespeare's Sister · 22-10-2014 2:05am

I would say loads of guys don't fancy overweight women (as is their prerogative) despite the claim from certain quarters that overweight women are beating good-looking fellas off with a stick.
The latter is not what I have observed whatsoever, and I have always gotten most attention from guys when at my slimmest - and I'm fine with that.

That's not to say slim guys can never ever fancy overweight women - we all know it happens, and... good for them too.

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 2:08am

Shakespeare's Sister wrote: »

I would say loads of guys don't fancy overweight women (as is their prerogative) despite the claim from certain quarters that overweight women are beating good-looking fellas off with a stick.
The latter is not what I have observed whatsoever, and I have always gotten most attention from guys when at my slimmest - and I'm fine with that.

That's not to say slim guys can never ever fancy overweight women - we all know it happens, and... good for them too.

For me it depends on the woman and how she carrys it and her body type.

I picked somewhere inbetween because really i love curvy women ive been with skinny girls ive been with fat girls but at the end of the day if they carry it well thats what i like.

Saying that different people see it in different ways a lot of the women id find good looking another fella could see her as ugly and fat so......

eeeee · 22-10-2014 2:14am

Personality no. 1. There should be a fit option.

BrokenHero · 22-10-2014 2:18am

How can you stay with a fat girl who'll say:

"Oh, would you like to marry me, and if you like you can buy the ring?".

She doesn't care about anything.

suicide_circus · 22-10-2014 2:18am

I have an undeniable preference for generous posteriors and I cannot bear false witness.

Nino Brown · 22-10-2014 2:19am

gadetra wrote: »

Personality no. 1

I don't know about that, there's a word for fat chicks with great personalities "Friends"!

Muphrys Law · 22-10-2014 2:21am

suicide_circus wrote: »

I have an undeniable preference for generous posteriors and I cannot bear false witness.

You are rather fond of an ample gluteus maximus and incapable of uttering a falsehood?

eeeee · 22-10-2014 2:27am

Nino Brown wrote: »

I don't know about that, there's a word for fat chicks with great personalities "Friends"!

Slim, fit, hot women can have great personalities too : confused: No matter how hot someone is, if they don't have a brain and a good personality I won't even consider it.

Shakespeare's Sister · 22-10-2014 2:28am

How Soon Is Now wrote: »

For me it depends on the woman and how she carrys it and her body type.

I picked somewhere inbetween because really i love curvy women ive been with skinny girls ive been with fat girls but at the end of the day if they carry it well thats what i like.

Saying that different people see it in different ways a lot of the women id find good looking another fella could see her as ugly and fat so......

From what I've observed, most guys seem to have a preference for curvy women - as in, slim or fairly slim and with bootay and knockers - or thin women (not scrawny like, healthily thin).
But yeh, doesn't mean those are the only women they'd ever contemplate getting it on with.

endacl · 22-10-2014 2:41am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

To a point. Let's be honest though. A hippo with a great sense of humour is still a hippo. I'll have a laugh with a hippo, but that's as far as things would go. Wouldn't be into a toothpick either.

I suppose my ideal would be somewhere between toothpick and hippo? It's a spectrum!

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 2:43am

Shakespeare's Sister wrote: »

From what I've observed, most guys seem to have a preference for curvy women - as in, slim or fairly slim and with bootay and knockers - or thin women (not scrawny like, healthily thin).
But yeh, doesn't mean those are the only women they'd ever contemplate getting it on with.

I'd actually rather the thicker type when I say I'm into curvy women. A lot of the time it isn't even an in between situation I prefer a girl with bit meat on her don't mind if she's bigger once she has nice womanly body shape.

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 2:44am

BrokenHero wrote: »

How can you stay with a fat girl who'll say:

"Oh, would you like to marry me, and if you like you can buy the ring?".

She doesn't care about anything.

There's always one.... Ha :-)

mackg · 22-10-2014 2:50am

Honestly , say there are 5 categories:

1. Very thin
2. Thin
3. Medium
4. Heavy
5. Very heavy

I could probably find anyone in 1-4 attractive with a preference for a 2/3 but it's very unlikely I'd find someone who is a 5 attractive. I'd be a 3 bordering on 4 myself.

Lalealea · 22-10-2014 2:55am

I hate this thread. :-(

Judgmental thread ...dieeeee

We are all lovely...

dieeee

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 2:57am

Lalealea wrote: »

I hate this thread. :-(

Judgmental thread ...dieeeee

We are all lovely...

dieeee

It's not meant to be judgemental thread I'm just curious to what people are into because I don't think it's always that simple.

We're all into whatever where into for our own reasons we can discuss that without judging others right?

Bipolar Joe · 22-10-2014 3:08am

How Soon Is Now wrote: »

It's not meant to be judgemental thread I'm just curious to what people are into because I don't think it's always that simple.

We're all into whatever where into for our own reasons we can discuss that without judging others right?

No, because despite this thread being well meaning, some people are cunts who like to make others feel bad about themselves for arbitrary reasons and will take any opportunity to do so, because they are bullies.

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 3:14am

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

No, because despite this thread being well meaning, some people are cunts who like to make others feel bad about themselves for arbitrary reasons and will take any opportunity to do so, because they are bullies.

Let them sure only so much people can say. Really I'd be more interested in how many will pick the first option then any the others bascially because I insist there's a lot more out there then people let on.

Bipolar Joe · 22-10-2014 3:19am

That's easy enough to say when you're not actively on the receiving end. Also, given that it's 3:19 in the morning, you're not gonna get much response either way.

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 3:27am

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

That's easy enough to say when you're not actively on the receiving end. Also, given that it's 3:19 in the morning, you're not gonna get much response either way.

Hopefully if the thread hasn't been buried tomorrow we see then.

I've been on receiving end of many different things sometimes all u can do is just say **** it I don't care.

That's one thing I admire about people who do something they want to that is socially not accepted but means something to them. To be in that situation and not give **** what anyone thinks well if u can pull it off fair play!

Hazys · 22-10-2014 3:31am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaG5SAw1n0c

Barely There · 22-10-2014 8:03am

Curvy hips, bum and boobs - yes please.
Rolls of fat - no thanks

A nice set of pins is essential.
Big boobs never really did it for me - I'm happy with a handful.

caustic 1 · 22-10-2014 8:07am

Over my years driving around I notice if men see an attractive lady with a good figure they ogle, they don't try to hide it, their neck swivels on their shoulders to get a better look and if they have company you can see them comment and admire. Women are more discreet, although recently the younger generations are becoming more loud in their appreciation of the opposite sex. In my observations not once have I seen men or ladies take second look at overweight people strolling down the street except if they were morbidly obese it would be looking in disbelief rather than appreciation.

What does it for me? I used to see a man on my travels who had long hair piercings and tattoos, I would say in late 30s very well built and tall, he would wear a suit which was unremarkable on other men but on him looked good. It was also the way he carried himself. Very confident, head up straight, and when he looked at you he looked at you till you looked away. A very hot man.

Rubberchikken · 22-10-2014 8:10am

a person who is comfortable in themselves. well groomed, healthy!

AlanS181824 · 22-10-2014 8:30am

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Now we know how much of a gentleman you are and the women are sufficiently wet in their knickers, do you like 'em fat or thin?

Please don't tell me I got that the wrong way around haha?

I mean more important than....:pac:

22-10-2014 8:42am

TWO WORDS!

KAT DENNINGS!!!!!:)

fizzypish · 22-10-2014 8:45am

caustic 1 wrote: »

What does it for me? I used to see a man on my travels who had long hair piercings and ....

You can get your hair pierced now?

Paco Rodriguez · 22-10-2014 8:49am

Skinny and fitness fanatics turn me off just as much as obese women.
I like curvy women because I'm physically attracted to them and also because they don't need fitness or don't need food to make them happy. They seem happy with themselves as they are.

Wibbs · 22-10-2014 8:55am

mackg wrote: »

Honestly , say there are 5 categories:

1. Very thin
2. Thin
3. Medium
4. Heavy
5. Very heavy

Which is cool, but outside of obvious extremes at either end of the scale one man(or woman's) medium is another's thin or heavy. That's why it's very much in the eye of the beholder.

22-10-2014 9:09am

I slept with a girl one time who was curvy and super confident. The next morning she went down stairs and brought me a glass of water, no big thing right. BUT, she threw here boots on from the night before and walks in (morning light) totally starkers and hands me the water. She was carrying a bit but had great boobs and bum, it was just the fact she didn't feel conscious or blush and try hide herself in a stupid robe!!

I stayed with her for a few months after till other factors came in between but I tell ya, she was sexy as hell and more attractive than plenty of thin girls I know or have dated.

_Kaiser_ · 22-10-2014 9:13am

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Now we know how much of a gentleman you are and the women are sufficiently wet in their knickers, do you like 'em fat or thin?

Post of the week right there!

Personally I like women with curves - the wafer thin 15 year old boy look does nothing for me.

Boobs, hips n ass FTW. More importantly though is someone who's comfortable in themselves and confident

Cupcake_Crisis · 22-10-2014 9:19am

rusty cole wrote: »

TWO WORDS!

KAT DENNINGS!!!!!:)

That woman should be illegal!

22-10-2014 9:23am

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

That woman should be illegal!

I don't get it, why all these Hollywood lads are hanging out of these horrible skinny coke heads. Id be all over here and have her in vegas, married and off the market in days!!

Talib Fiasco · 22-10-2014 9:27am

Slim with assets

/Thread

Gannicus · 22-10-2014 9:29am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

Your blue peter Badge is in the post Alan

mackg wrote: »

Honestly , say there are 5 categories:

1. Very thin
2. Thin
3. Medium
4. Heavy
5. Very heavy

I could probably find anyone in 1-4 attractive with a preference for a 2/3 but it's very unlikely I'd find someone who is a 5 attractive. I'd be a 3 bordering on 4 myself.

I think this better describes it for me. I'b be a fan of a 3 or 4 myself. Curves all the way. I'd be a bit of a 4 myself but hide well because I'm tall... maybe you could say I'm a tall three

I wouldn't find a 1 or 5 attractive but they are the 2 extremes on the scale.

Cupcake_Crisis · 22-10-2014 9:31am

rusty cole wrote: »

I don't get it, why all these Hollywood lads are hanging out of these horrible skinny coke heads. Id be all over here and have her in vegas, married and off the market in days!!

Can I come to?

sbsquarepants · 22-10-2014 9:34am

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Personality > Size

Wrong.
Roseanne barr seems like she'd be deadly craic, but I wouldn't want to go out with her. No amount of personality can make up for you just not being attracted to someone - it's disingenuous bullshít to suggest otherwise. On the other hand, if you fancy fat chicks in general or Roseanne in particular, well then that's girlfriend equivalent of striking oil.

cletus van damme · 22-10-2014 9:43am

suppose like most here I like a curvy but slim(ish) woman.
I love that hourglass figure with decent boobs.
95% of the time that will be a girl between a size 10-14.
I do like girls into fitness too once they aren't too thin.

But I've had my head turned in the past by women I normally wouldn't find attractive by the way the carry themselves.
Hard to describe but maybe it was their self assured nature.
One girl in my office is like that, I wouldn't be too mad into her looks wise (she isn't ugly btw) but at meetings and stuff I find her very attractive in the way she conducts herself.

ah to hell with it - I like anybody who'll ride me :pac:

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 1:05pm

Seen as its mostly men who answered what about what women want?

Or is that the most open ended question you can ask? Ha!

Laois6556 · 22-10-2014 1:11pm

I tried to pick all 3 options but it wouldn't let me.

anncoates · 22-10-2014 1:13pm

I don't find obesity or extreme skinniness attractive but in between that there's a variation in who I've liked. Some women carry weight better than others as well. That's my honest opinion.

Cupcake_Crisis · 22-10-2014 1:16pm

How Soon Is Now wrote: »

Seen as its mostly men who answered what about what women want?

Or is that the most open ended question you can ask? Ha!

I do tend to favour the larger gentleman. Not absolutely massive now, but tall and broad. Just big enough to make me feel safe.

22-10-2014 1:17pm

Gimme a Colette Fitzpatrick, Sile Ni Seioge or Christina Hendricks any day over a Jennifer Lawrence.

Curvy, big breasted women are what's beautiful.

Not fat chicks.

denhaagenite · 22-10-2014 1:24pm

Honestly it really depends on a lot of things more than weight. I always found that if a guy had a bad diet and was lazy it is a massive turnoff, just not into it at all but this didn't mean that I wasn't into men unless they were completely devoid of fat. You can be bigger and active depending on age etc.

I like a nice pair (of eyes), a sense of humour that is similar to mine, used to be into gingers but now prefer dark hair, don't like body hair too much (even if they wax, in fact if they wax it's even worse), like a clean man but too much grooming or fawning over their own appearance is not attractive to me. Build isn't high up on the agenda and never has been. I do like a good flirt, and find intelligent men particularly sexy.

Luckily himself ticks all the boxes

How Soon Is Now · 22-10-2014 1:25pm

From the answers so far make you wonder why anyone overweight would even bother ha.

WILL NEVER LOG OFF · 22-10-2014 1:26pm

are women allowed vote?

i picked 'something in between', which is ideally stuart olding.

22-10-2014 1:27pm

denhaagenite wrote: »

Honestly it really depends on a lot of things more than weight. I always found that if a guy had a bad diet and was lazy it is a massive turnoff, just not into it at all but this didn't mean that I wasn't into men unless they were completely devoid of fat. You can be bigger and active depending on age etc.

I like a nice pair (of eyes), a sense of humour that is similar to mine, used to be into gingers but now prefer dark hair, don't like body hair too much (even if they wax, in fact if they wax it's even worse), like a clean man but too much grooming or fawning over their own appearance is not attractive to me. Build isn't high up on the agenda and never has been. I do like a good flirt, and find intelligent men particularly sexy.

Luckily himself ticks all the boxes

Bugger, I was reading that thinking I tick all the boxes along the way, then I got to the last sentence

denhaagenite · 22-10-2014 1:28pm

Deleted User wrote: »

Bugger, I was reading that thinking I tick all the boxes along the way, then I got to the last sentence

Sorry, forgot to add Dublin. Dublin is a HUUUUUUGE no no :P

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