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worried about first time

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  • 26-04-2015 11:52am
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    LegacyUser
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    I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. this is my first serious relationship and she's told me recently that she wants to hold off on sex until her exams are over. she's had a couple more partners than i have had and i'm pretty sure she's not a virgin but i've never actually asked. i'm nervous that our first time will be a bit of a let down for her after all this time


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    LegacyUser
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    Posted here b4. Having a similar if somewhat different issue

    well dude, if she is a virgin she well destroy your sheets with blood and possibly your penis.

    My gf is 23 and was a virgin b4 I met her.I'm 31. She still kind of is actually as I haven't properly penetrated her.(Don't think her hymen is completely removed yet, so she is unbelievably tight.) she still bleeds a fair bit too- but that's the gynecologists department to sort...

    On the flip side I've had plenty of sex over the years so I'm happy out with her while she deals with her girly stiff; and she loves foreplay so thats awesome

    There is no rush lad... plenty of time for sex after d exams


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    strobe
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    She'll almost certainly be worrying a little bit about the same thing, man. Even if she's been with other people before, it's her first time with you. So she'll probably be a little nervous about the first time being good enough for you. So, you're both in the same boat. Try to remember that, that she'll be going into it a bit nervous about whether or not you will find it good. Focus on that and making her feel at ease and it should take your mind off your own worries.


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    Typer Monkey
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    smaksticka wrote: »
    well dude, if she is a virgin she well destroy your sheets with blood and possibly your penis.

    Just to put your mind at ease somewhat OP, the above probably won't happen. Most women's hymens are broken in their teens due to tampon use and general activity. I didn't bleed at all my first time and none of my friends did either (cos teenage girls discuss EVERYTHING :D )


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    ShaShaBear
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    Typer Monkey wrote: »
    Just to put your mind at ease somewhat OP, the above probably won't happen. Most women's hymens are broken in their teens due to tampon use and general activity. I didn't bleed at all my first time and none of my friends did either (cos teenage girls discuss EVERYTHING :D )

    Agreed. Not a single one of my girl friends throughout the years ever bled the first time, and neither did I. My partner was the first for three girls and he said none of them did either! I wouldn't be worried about this in the slightest :)


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