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Am I just being awkward

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  • 17-02-2008 7:47pm
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    lilrayosunshine
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    I've been seeing a guy for 3.5 months and spend at least one night at the weekend at his place. I have been coming home during the week but he always wants me to stay during the week and go to work from his place. I just think it would be a bit too much like living together.
    Am I just being weird, do you all stay at your boy/girlfriend's place and go to work from there? How long where you going out when you first started this?

    Thanks in advance for your opinions


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    meremortal
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    I personally think its okay after a few months, it all comes down to how you feel yourself though I suppose. You dont need to keep your stuff there at first, but can get tiring trying to remember travel toothbrush!! I dont think its like living together at all, because you still have the sense of independance of having your own place to go back to. Also - its nice hes keen for you to stay over during the week, its usually the boys who panic about these kind of things!!!


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    lilrayosunshine
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    Thanks meremortal.


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    corcaighcailin9
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    Hey OP I think it depends on the people involved and how comfortable you are staying there. If it feels right then go for it as meremortal said boys usually have a phobia about the staying over thing so it's a good sign - face it, he can't live without you :-)


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