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want that chick.....

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  • 17-02-2008 9:40pm
    #1
    highlydebased
    Registered Users Posts: 7,466 ✭✭✭


    Was going to sign out for this post but meh....

    Right, well there is this chic I have my eye on. I'm not going to give the exact details of how I end up seeing her (its a school related activity, all boys school but girls involved for this activity).

    I like her alot, shes incredibly cute imo, and like me she's quiet. That leaves me feeling that she would not leave me rejected, i just dont know how to approach her and start talkin to her basically :confused::confused: I'm a naturally quiet and reserved guy so it does not help at all


    Anyone help......?


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    daauneal
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭daauneal


    start with "hello" and move on from there;)


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    Max_Damage
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,461 ✭✭✭Max_Damage


    daauneal wrote: »
    and move on from there;)

    A bit vague, no?


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    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,089 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Just get into a conversation with her. Don't be angling for anything more. Don't come across as creepy by said angling for something more. If things go well at this maybe suggest meeting up outside this activity. If she refuses or gets embarrassed just laugh it off.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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    DetectivFoxtrot
    Registered Users Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭DetectivFoxtrot


    strike up a conversation with her. befriend her before sending out any signals re romance. ask her lots about herself, listen intently, offer up some info about yourself. It'll go from there ;)

    oh and BE YOURSELF and don't be cocky - gals hate that


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    Musha
    Closed Accounts Posts: 497 ✭✭Musha


    Invite her for a coffee, chat, enjoy her company, start slow she might be good looking but can you have a conversation with her?
    If you can become a girl's friend then "girlfriends" will follow :D


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    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Isn't there a 'relationships' forum?


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    JuliusCaesar
    Registered Users Posts: 4,882 ✭✭✭JuliusCaesar


    Neon-Circles wrote: »
    I'm not going to give the exact details of how I end up seeing her (its a school related activity, all boys school but girls involved for this activity).

    Say hi, ask her about the activity, is she enjoying it etc etc.....that'll start the convo!
    It doesn't matter what on earth you start the conversation with, the main thing is that it has been started. Talk about TV, the weather, anything - small talk is just an ice-breaker. Nobody expects a conversation to start with Significant Words Of Wisdom.


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    DetectivFoxtrot
    Registered Users Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭DetectivFoxtrot


    Kevster wrote: »
    Isn't there a 'relationships' forum?

    is this comment to help the young chap or are you being rude?

    he has a 'personal issue' and posted in forum of same. end of......:rolleyes:


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    highlydebased
    Registered Users Posts: 7,466 ✭✭✭highlydebased


    thank you all for the responses........spose I'll just have to brave it and try my best to say hi to her :eek::D:o


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