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Dad's Christmas present-IMPOSSIBLE TO BUY FOR!

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  • 04-12-2014 12:51am
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭


    I'm sorry if this thread has been done a million times over.I'm a newbie!

    Just wondering…what do you get your father for Xmas?
    This man has no hobbies as such. Anything we've gotten him for his birthday and previous christmases doesn't get used..even if he has asked for it. He said he is waiting until he retires to use these gifts.
    He's not into technology. At all.
    He refuses to wear a watch.
    He thinks buying new clothes is a waste because "whats wrong with these ones"?
    He doesn't have any hobbies, really. He works hard at home, therefore has no time for anything else, or when he does have time, he sleeps or watches TV.
    He doesn't do DVD's.
    Any vouchers he gets, he gives them to my mother (bar paddy power ones).
    He doesn't get novelty items.
    His mobile phone..he does;t know how to use it.

    We just don't know what to do with him anymore! I'm gonna donate to charity on his behalf, but I'd also like have SOMETHING to have for him for Christmas. I don't wanna get the horse racing vouchers though.

    Any ideas?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 15,127 ✭✭✭✭kerry4sam


    berger89 wrote: »
    I'm sorry if this thread has been done a million times over.I'm a newbie!

    Just wondering…what do you get your father for Xmas?
    This man has no hobbies as such. Anything we've gotten him for his birthday and previous christmases doesn't get used..even if he has asked for it. He said he is waiting until he retires to use these gifts.
    He's not into technology. At all.
    He refuses to wear a watch.
    He thinks buying new clothes is a waste because "whats wrong with these ones"?
    He doesn't have any hobbies, really. He works hard at home, therefore has no time for anything else, or when he does have time, he sleeps or watches TV.
    He doesn't do DVD's.
    Any vouchers he gets, he gives them to my mother (bar paddy power ones).
    He doesn't get novelty items.
    His mobile phone..he does;t know how to use it.

    We just don't know what to do with him anymore! I'm gonna donate to charity on his behalf, but I'd also like have SOMETHING to have for him for Christmas. I don't wanna get the horse racing vouchers though.

    Any ideas?

    Well your post here makes me smile each time I read it, for reasons I won't go into so Thank You :)

    Tell me,
    ~ Do you ever go for a meal with your Dad? Would that be an option or treat both your parents in a combined gift perhaps?
    ~ Would your Dad appreciate anything that would help him around the Home - anything he may need there?
    ~ What about the garage your Dad may frequent, any option there that might give you ideas?

    Anything you can think of to make your Dads life any bit easier, in any way at all?!
    kerry4sam


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    My niece bought her Dad a selection of cheeses, a cheese board, cheese knife a jar of preserve, a bunch of grapes and a selection of crackers. He's just as impossible as your Dad, but he LOVED his pressie! I think she had a blue cheese, a cheddar, a brie, a stilton and one other hard cheese. She bought them all singly and wrapped them with clingfilm onto the board and then in wrapping paper. She had them in my fridge till Christmas eve. Another time she got him a cafetiere, a selection of coffees, nice bikkies and chocolates.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭berger89


    kerry4sam wrote: »
    Well your post here makes me smile each time I read it, for reasons I won't go into so Thank You :)

    Tell me,
    ~ Do you ever go for a meal with your Dad? Would that be an option or treat both your parents in a combined gift perhaps?
    ~ Would your Dad appreciate anything that would help him around the Home - anything he may need there?
    ~ What about the garage your Dad may frequent, any option there that might give you ideas?

    Anything you can think of to make your Dads life any bit easier, in any way at all?!
    kerry4sam

    Yeah we get them a meal voucher for christmas and anniversary, but I would like to get something for him to open…he's the worst person ever to buy for!
    Nope nothing in the garage..he loses the tools or leaves them out in the rain, or just doesn't use them. We bought him a chainsaw to cut his sticks 3 years ago…its still in its box..he uses a hand saw.
    He's reeeeeeally old fashioned.
    I get him books to read, but he puts them away. Think I;ll have to resort to getting scratch cards! :/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭berger89


    My niece bought her Dad a selection of cheeses, a cheese board, cheese knife a jar of preserve, a bunch of grapes and a selection of crackers. He's just as impossible as your Dad, but he LOVED his pressie! I think she had a blue cheese, a cheddar, a brie, a stilton and one other hard cheese. She bought them all singly and wrapped them with clingfilm onto the board and then in wrapping paper. She had them in my fridge till Christmas eve. Another time she got him a cafetiere, a selection of coffees, nice bikkies and chocolates.

    He's overweight and a diabetic so his doctor said he shouldn't eat cheese! while he enjoys it, he doesn't feel well the next morning :( He doesn't drink coffee.

    all fantastic ideas but he's just so old fashioned and wouldn't appreciate it..


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,127 ✭✭✭✭kerry4sam


    berger89 wrote: »
    Yeah we get them a meal voucher for christmas and anniversary, but I would like to get something for him to open…he's the worst person ever to buy for!
    Nope nothing in the garage..he loses the tools or leaves them out in the rain, or just doesn't use them. We bought him a chainsaw to cut his sticks 3 years ago…its still in its box..he uses a hand saw.
    He's reeeeeeally old fashioned.
    I get him books to read, but he puts them away. Think I;ll have to resort to getting scratch cards! :/

    Ah coolio :)

    Okay, tell me: Do you spend time with your Dad, just you & him getting to know each other at all?
    ~ Would you treat both of you to lunch or dinner somewhere?
    ~ Would you both get to a sports-game of any kind?
    ~ Would you both get to a good auld fashioned country-weekend anywhere; or even both your parents for a night out with dancing?

    How's about a drink?
    ~ Would be appreciate some cognac or whiskey maybe?

    We will find you something for your Dad for Christmas,
    doncha worry & don't give up :)
    kerry4sam


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭berger89


    kerry4sam wrote: »
    Ah coolio :)

    Okay, tell me: Do you spend time with your Dad, just you & him getting to know each other at all?
    ~ Would you treat both of you to lunch or dinner somewhere?
    ~ Would you both get to a sports-game of any kind?
    ~ Would you both get to a good auld fashioned country-weekend anywhere; or even both your parents for a night out with dancing?

    How's about a drink?
    ~ Would be appreciate some cognac or whiskey maybe?

    We will find you something for your Dad for Christmas,
    doncha worry & don't give up :)
    kerry4sam

    hahaha love your optimism!!!
    he wouldn't come to lunch with me…he'd feel bad and feel like he'd have to bring my mam and siblings too. plus lunch and stuff wouldn't be his thing..he's the kind of fella 'whats wrong with food here in the house'
    same with sports..he's more content watching it on the TV. perhaps come summer time, I could get tickets to a GAA match. his birthday is in summer so I can do that then :D
    as for the weekend away-->not a hope. he has to be dragged anywhere to go with my mother (and he Hates dancing!!!!!)

    he's not allowed to drink because he's a diabetic. he can only have the absolute odd brandy..literally one glass a year or we'd be picking him up off the floor.

    Was actually looking to get him special chocolate coz I think he misses not being able to have a bar. he sees all of us eating roses and quality street but he can't, so I think i might get him some sugar free chocolate!


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,127 ✭✭✭✭kerry4sam


    berger89 wrote: »
    hahaha love your optimism!!!
    he wouldn't come to lunch with me…he'd feel bad and feel like he'd have to bring my mam and siblings too. plus lunch and stuff wouldn't be his thing..he's the kind of fella 'whats wrong with food here in the house'
    same with sports..he's more content watching it on the TV. perhaps come summer time, I could get tickets to a GAA match. his birthday is in summer so I can do that then :D
    as for the weekend away-->not a hope. he has to be dragged anywhere to go with my mother (and he Hates dancing!!!!!)

    he's not allowed to drink because he's a diabetic. he can only have the absolute odd brandy..literally one glass a year or we'd be picking him up off the floor.

    Was actually looking to get him special chocolate coz I think he misses not being able to have a bar. he sees all of us eating roses and quality street but he can't, so I think i might get him some sugar free chocolate!

    :)

    Another idea linking in your sweety suggestion: Hows about:
    ~ Putting together a specialised hamper for your Dad with all things he would so like/be able to eat? Maybe including the sugar-free chocolate; but also research other food-items for diabetics showing your Dad the Many Many foodie options available to him, that he is not necessarily missing out due to the diabetes :)

    That an option?
    You can buy a wicker basket with ribbons etc and from now until then, pick up varying items and present your Dad this big, srumptuous foodie hamper just-for-your-Dad ?

    How does that sound? Maybe also including a dvd or two with some characters/actors he might like?
    kerry4sam


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭berger89


    kerry4sam wrote: »
    :)

    Another idea linking in your sweety suggestion: Hows about:
    ~ Putting together a specialised hamper for your Dad with all things he would so like/be able to eat? Maybe including the sugar-free chocolate; but also research other food-items for diabetics showing your Dad the Many Many foodie options available to him, that he is not necessarily missing out due to the diabetes :)

    That an option?
    You can buy a wicker basket with ribbons etc and from now until then, pick up varying items and present your Dad this big, srumptuous foodie hamper just-for-your-Dad ?

    How does that sound? Maybe also including a dvd or two with some characters/actors he might like?
    kerry4sam

    Class idea!! Thank so much!!! And I think he'd actually appreciate it too :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,127 ✭✭✭✭kerry4sam


    berger89 wrote: »
    Class idea!! Thank so much!!! And I think he'd actually appreciate it too :)

    Well Done to you though! So many leave shopping til much later but by starting early you're making it all easier for yourself.

    Happy Shopping :)
    kerry4sam


  • Registered Users Posts: 766 ✭✭✭ger vallely


    If your dad refuses to wear a watch how about a lovely pocket watch? Old style yet practical and a great gift that you can personalise.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 387 ✭✭berger89


    If your dad refuses to wear a watch how about a lovely pocket watch? Old style yet practical and a great gift that you can personalise.

    my brother got one for him about 5 years ago! he asked for it. never used it though :(


  • Registered Users Posts: 125 ✭✭uberalex


    Any vouchers he gets, he gives them to my mother (bar paddy power ones).
    Is he a fan of racing? Maybe a day at Punchestown, or just some more betting vouchers?


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,189 ✭✭✭jos28


    I was also going to suggest a day at the races but uberalex beat me to it. My sons opened a Tote account for their Dad last year and he loves it. He can do his bets over the phone and they topped the account up again for his birthday.
    Couple of offers on at the moment
    https://www.thetote.com/promotions/353?title=Free%20%E2%82%AC50%20in%20Bets%20&%20Tickets%20to%20the%20Races#


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