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The Pregnant Womans Moan Thread.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    well see, it's already been paid for, and we asked them to hold it for a day or two as we had no way of getting it into the car. They were ok with that, but we havent been able to get up there because of all the ice. I called yesterday and thye were ok with that, they didn't tell me what the deal with it was, just too kmy number, but I am assuming it's all ok. They did write "paid" in large letters accross the box along with my name and the receipt. I don't think they have a choice but to hold it under the circumstances.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Ah that's grand then! They'll have to keep hold of it!


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Seriously...please please please please this weather can't last for another week!! !I can't do it!!!! :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Hang on in there hun, I am stuck with you!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Das Kitty wrote: »
    I had a wee cry for myself because I am smelly. :o


    Me too :D I freak out if I can't have a shower every morning, this morning was my second day without one so there was nothing for it but to brave the roads and stay in my sisters place.
    The simple bliss of hot water and not having greasy hair anymore was so good!
    What was not so good is the doors on her shower cubicle aren't that wide so wasn't too sure if I'd fit out through the doors once I got in :eek:

    @Hacked, I know how you feel I was seriously agitated when I seen on the news they're giving this weather for the next 10 days :mad:

    @Targetwidow, mine's the same, though I had the GTT and they said all was fine and I'm not registering too much protein in it either.

    I am looking so forward to having my body back to (nearly!) the way it was before! Too many odd things happening to it of late :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Cap...I had a good cry about it!! The mother is being a bit of an unmentionable pain, and being locked up in my family home for the last two weeks and locked out of the flat has taken its toll!!

    I can't really complain though...those of you with frozen pipes and no heating have it much worse than I do. Any news on when thye can get that fixed for you?


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,968 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Just give them a call,they will understand due to the weather conditions:)


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    Just give them a call,they will understand due to the weather conditions:)

    Well, my mom and I discussed it today. I already got the free changng bag out of them, and all my mom could say to my worry of them doing something silly with it was that if that happens...they owe me an upgrade. :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    No moan today.... just happy happy happy.:D


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    Hard day today. Supposed to be going for much anticipated first scan on Monday, so had booked someone to run the office for me. Said someone phoned today to say she wasn't going to drive the 7 miles on Monday because of the weather forecast. So, do the public need their postoffice more than me and my baba need this scan (on a freezing cold Monday where there will probably only be two customers all day)? Hell-No! I'm gonna drive DD to creche, let the postman in and give him keys to lock up when he leaves, go get my scan and try (yes only TRY) to be back in time to get the outgoing post out for the last time of posting. I could technically be taken to court for it. It has been known to happen. I have no other option though. Cried a little after the phone call and then thought, sod it. I'm going. Please everyone cross fingers eyes and toes for me on Monday, now for LOTS of reasons!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭Swizzles


    Hey Target
    Hope everything goes ok for you ..
    Im sure seeing the lil baby on the scan will make the risk seem worthwhile :)


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Target, if I could sit in that Post Office for you I would.

    Fourth day here with no running water and the central heating (which feeds off the mains) is running low and a lot of the radiators aren't working. The pipe leading up to the house is frozen so we have to wait for a thaw. :(

    Going for a swim today so I can have a shower (or 2!) hopefully I have some swim gear that fits!

    Capri, you still without water?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    TargetWidow, I'd go to work for you if I could.

    No moan here today. Addison got two top teeth last night which brings it to to a total of four :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Das Kitty -- My heart goes out to you!

    Target -- Will be praying your little detour to work gets overlooked. I am so sorry, that must be so dissapointing!

    Adrieanne -- Yay!!

    Not much to complain about really, the difference in my mood since I've been able to get out a bit is astronomical.
    Still stuck up in my parents house due to ice and snow though. Dying to get home!! Someone tell me I;m not crazy. I am nesting so strongly as of last night. My cousin sent me a couple of bags of baby things I haven't been able to go through yet, my pram is still sitting in mother care, went to Ikea and bought the matching changing table to my cot along with bedding and accessories...all froggie themed. :D

    Started nesting like mad last night, and am actually ready to scratch my eyes out. Dying to get home to clean and sterilise and declutter and set up!! I've even gone so far as flat hunting online! My small two room flat isn't going ot cut it for long. :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    @Target Widow - you poor thing last thing you need is the added stress of work when you've a scan to go to.
    Sod it, it'd be different if you were taking the time off to go dossing you're going for a medically necessary appointment I don't think there's a court in the land that'd dare argue that one with you!
    I'm sure your customers will understand too. I know there are loads of businesses going to be closed tomorrow in Kilkenny due to the weather.

    @ Das Kitty - yes still without water and heating! we moved over with the inlaws and my jinx of no water has followed us over here, we're filling water canisters from the local river to fill the cistern for the loo. very Ray Mears/Bear Grylls :D
    Hubbie got a lift over in a jeep to check on our house and all is ok so at least we've a bit of peace of mind, I was worried we might so back to leaks/burst pipes but so far so good :)

    I had to do that when I was renting before go to a local swimming pool to get a shower, thankfully my sister works in a hotel so we can pop in there to grab a shower. I think if I dived into the local pool they'd think a whale had beached itself there :D:o

    Hopefully the pipes will thaw soon and you'll have your rads & water back working


    @ Hacked - I know the feeling, I was starting to nest nicely on Wednesday, scrubbed the cot, got the nursery ready but pulled the presses in our room apart to reorganise them.
    Only got half way through doing that when hubbie told me we had to leave the house so house is like a tip and I'm itching to tidy it! So frustrating not being able to get near it!
    The nursery stuff in Ikea is only gorgeous I love all their themed bedding.

    @ Adrienne x - so cute, I love the little gummy grins when they have a few teeth :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭Swizzles


    DK and Cap..I know how ye feel ..Have had no water for a few days now.And im down in Cork.We dont have central heating (Old old old house ) but we cant even put down a big fire becoz of the water tanks bursting ..I was looking forward to the snow but i take it back now..I just want my water back :(:(

    Back ache is being a nightmare today and tryin to get comfortable is just not happening to me ...Makes me wonder if i can handle what the next 5 months will bring :(:(


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Swizzles... I feel your pain! 32 weeks here, and baby is lying in the weirdest positions. Kicking and leaning on my spine and ribs...it's fun. And don't worry, I felt like that too, but it doesn't last forever....it comes and goes. Just remember to take it easy, and if your having a bad back day...don't be a hero!

    Cap -- I know, IKEA has some gorgeous stuff in. They don't have much choice in the way of cot bedding though! I got a gorgeous cot and changing table from the same set, and the colour scheme is a base colour of green. They've got some really cute little cot accessories at the moment. Also I didn't notice too many themes going on...but they had frogs everywhere. Works well just in case baby decides to accidently come out with a penis. :rolleyes: You can't tell I'm excited, can you??
    Sorry you had to leave half way! that's the worst feeling!
    Dying to get home now. All I need to get now are some wicker baskets lined with fabric....preferably white. If anyone knows where thye sell cheap ones, I would be much obliged :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭Swizzles


    Try a pound/Euro shop Hacked they might have some there.
    Just did a quick google there and storage solutions in Dublin have them...Quite expensive though:eek:


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Everything seems ot be overpriced eh? They have a load of nice baskets in IKEA, but none suitable for baby clothes, kinda scratchy and they'd snag everything.

    Saw some in Dunnes yesterday actually..I think they were meant to be for bathrooms, but they only had certain sizes, so I don't know about the dimensions.

    Adrieanne thinks I'm crazy...I think I must be an obsessive nester!! :o

    How is everyone feeling today??


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    Evening ladies. Feeling much better today. Braved the roads with DH and DD to get to local Supervalu and bought a weeks worth of meat for the freezer! (So sick of rubbish food from the shops nearby!) After that we met his mam in Ballyb for lunch and while there it started snowing properly. I was glad DH was with me as he is much more confident driving in it than me. We hit Lidl in Listowel on the way home to replenish our much needed ice-cream stocks and got DD a CD player for her new room to be! My postman has volunteered to take the kingsize bed which has been cluttering up DDs room and preventing me from moving her in there and came and took half of the base (I know!) away, thank goodness. He will move the rest over the next day or two and I am thrilled to see it go. Now I must go shopping for a nice cot bed. Saw a Disney Princess canopy toddler bed that wowed me for a second and is so utterly out of character for me that it shocked me that I was even looking. I normally go for the clean lines and white or natural looking wood. I always think, can I pass this onto the next one if its a boy. They often have that habit of popping out with a willy attached that a previous poster mentioned! ~Disney princesses tend not to impress them.:rolleyes:

    Anyway when we got home we took the shopping in but DD was having none of it and wanted to stay out playing in the snow so we joined her and the other kids on the estate having snowball fights and building my first ever snowman (I originally come from the seaside where it never used to snow like this!). Lovely dinner made by DH, changed the sheets and put on my fab Northern Nites ones, bowl of lidl vanilla ice-cream and herself panned out in her little cot. Gonna hit the shower now and then the sack. A good day by all accounts.

    Thank you all for your support. I reached out to a few family members yesterday and got more dysfunction than I was ready for. Going to the hardware shop for bread!:rolleyes: When will I learn.:D

    My heart goes out to all of you with frozen water pipes. I am sending warm thoughts to you and your pipes tonight. My washing machine in the shed is frozen again and I am about to run out of stuff to wear for all of us tomorrow. I will throw myself on the mercy of some good friends and trust and see what happens. Someone should invent a device that prevents water systems from freezing up when the temp hits a certain low level. They would make a fortune. Thinking of you all. Mwah! xxx


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Swizzles wrote: »

    Back ache is being a nightmare today and tryin to get comfortable is just not happening to me ...Makes me wonder if i can handle what the next 5 months will bring :(:(
    ]

    Did you try one of the big sausage shaped Maternity pillows? I can't recommend them enough, I started getting really bad back pains from about 14 weeks on and the only relief I got was when I got one of them.
    The bed in the in lawswhere we're staying is really soft and is giving me a sore back, typical I forgot to ask the hubbie to pick up my maternity pillow when he went over to check the house today :rolleyes:

    @ Hacked, I had a 4D scan at 24 weeks where we were told we were having a girl, but in the past few weeks (after buying loads of pink stuff!) I'm now freaking about whether it will be a boy.
    Obviously I'll be delighted once baby is healthy but I'm worried about giving junior a complex if it is a boy and I have to dress him in pink for the first few weeks/months of his life :D
    The nursery I had only decorated a few months previous in black and white and the furniture is neutral, I'll be leaving it as it so it'll suit whether its a girl or boy.

    I was in a home wares shop in Skerries recently (can't think fo the name sorry!), its near 'The Raven' pub & they do loads of wicker baskets really good prices but I don't think you're over that side of the city?
    I think Woodies might do them too?


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    @ TW. Glad the spirits are staying up there! Fair play to you. Just remember to ignore that family drama!! Keep us posted, fingers crossed for your scan!

    @Cap...oh wow, I didn't even think of that! I've told everyone I'm having a girl, so the problem might come in when I start getting gifts of frilly dresses. But no, it was definately a girl judging by my scan!!
    Love the sound of the black and white nursery...I'm dying to get into a more permanant place where I can have artistic liscense!

    I actually never thought of woodies...good idea, will have to head over when the weather clears up!

    Cap, remind me when you're due again. Are you next on our list or is Adrieanne?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    hacked wrote: »
    Everything seems ot be overpriced eh? They have a load of nice baskets in IKEA, but none suitable for baby clothes, kinda scratchy and they'd snag everything.

    Saw some in Dunnes yesterday actually..I think they were meant to be for bathrooms, but they only had certain sizes, so I don't know about the dimensions.

    Adrieanne thinks I'm crazy...I think I must be an obsessive nester!! :o

    How is everyone feeling today??

    You are crazy!! But in the good way :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    @Hacked

    I'm due 21st February (scarey 6 weeks today :eek:)

    When are you and Adrienne due?

    I'm planning to finish up in work a fortnight beforehand, I'm looking at it with equal measures of dread and delight.
    Delight because its been so busy in the run up to xmas and I'm starting to get knackered but I'm dreading the fortnight beforehand just the sitting around waiting for things to happen.

    If I go overdue I know I'll crack up!

    Do you reckon you'll be able to get back into your apartment soon or do you have to wait for the thaw first?
    It'll be lovely to get your cot/buggy & all the bits in!


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    oh wow! I think Adrieanne is due the week after you? I'm due beginning of march sometime....date is rather unclear! They told me the 12th, but i think it;s come forward.

    Oh I can completely understand! I really envy all of you who are working! I was working in a small shop before I got pregnant, but there wasn't much for me to do after a certain point. My boss wouldn't let me lift anything, and then I couldn't bend easily. My job was not food for a pregnant woman, ended up being more a liability, and i've been bored out of mind. I got offered a job the other day though, so delighted!!

    Don't know when I'll get home. The ice is really bad by my flat, and the road is a dangerous one. I also don't live incredibly close to supermarket, and so if it got really bad I'm worried I'd get stranded with no one able to drive out to me. Driving me mental as I have a lot I'd like to do, but I've fallen twice already, and my hip has taken a beating, so I don't want to try and be a hero! Afraid I'd do damage to baby.

    How is it where you are? Any thaw today?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    I am due 23rd Feb!

    cap, I gave up work two weeks before I had Addison and the sitting around for two weeks drove me absolutely crazy! I had no one to meet up with for coffee as everyone I knew was either in college or working! I sat watching day time telly and napping most of the time! I went to Charlestown one of the days and spent nearly three hours walking around the shops (and it's a crap shopping centre :( ) I was that bored!!

    I didn't go overdue though, gave birth on my EDD so it was all good :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    I am due 23rd Feb!

    cap, I gave up work two weeks before I had Addison and the sitting around for two weeks drove me absolutely crazy! I had no one to meet up with for coffee as everyone I knew was either in college or working! I sat watching day time telly and napping most of the time! I went to Charlestown one of the days and spent nearly three hours walking around the shops (and it's a crap shopping centre :( ) I was that bored!!

    I didn't go overdue though, gave birth on my EDD so it was all good :D

    Just as well I didn't guess the date, I thought it was the 26th! :P

    Oh you lucky girl!! And this time you'll know exactly when it is too. I just found out last night that my mom never really went over due. I think only once, and that was only by three days. Apparently on the rest of us it was either on her due date or the day after. Hope i take after her in that respect!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    @ Adrienne - I am now taking that as advice that shopping will ensure baby will arrive on time, must try convince other half of that one :D


    Does Addison understand that she's getting a little brother/sister soon or is she still a bit young? such a gorgeous name :)

    @ Hacked - sounds like you're much better off staying where you are til after the thaw. You poor thing hurting your hip, you need that like a hole in the head I'm sure. I ventured into town today and was inching along in case I'd fall over. I'm sure I had other shoppers behind me driven mad by going so slow!

    Fair play to you getting a job offer when you're pregnant, are you going to take up on the offer to keep you occupied til babs arrives?

    No thaw here yet but its raining tonight instead of snowing so even though I know that'll freeze over and make the roads dodgy for a few days, I'm hoping it might be the start of the big thaw.

    I'm looking forward to getting back to my own bed!
    Although its good practice, at home I have a habit of putting the electric blanket on every night and having the bed toasty warm, but I've recently starting to freak at the notion of my waters breaking while I'm in bed electrocuting hubbie & me :eek: so I'm better off getting used to the cold bed :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    hacked wrote: »
    I just found out last night that my mom never really went over due. I think only once, and that was only by three days. Apparently on the rest of us it was either on her due date or the day after. Hope i take after her in that respect!

    My mum went overdue by a fortnight on my sister and I, sooo hope it doesn't run in the family :rolleyes:


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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Swim was grand today apart from horse-playing kids nearly kicking me in the belly, I went Mammy on their asses and told them to be considerate of other people. LOL. So nice having clean hair!

    No central heating now but we're lucky to have a leccy heater, going to need a plumber when the water returns as there seems to be a problem with the heating system losing water. TBH I'm actually slightly glad this is going on so I have something else to concentrate on other than every sensation in my body!

    Hacked, Argos do things for storage, got quite a few when we moved here. Also got Ikea Cot and drawers, very happy with them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    @ Adrienne - I am now taking that as advice that shopping will ensure baby will arrive on time, must try convince other half of that one :D


    Does Addison understand that she's getting a little brother/sister soon or is she still a bit young? such a gorgeous name :)

    I wouldn't take that as advice, believe me, there are other reasons why baby came on her EDD... and I would not recommend it to anyone after the birth I had!! :(

    I don't know if she understands or not... It'd be lovely if she did, she sometimes puts her hands on my tummy and I go "aww the little baby in mammys tummy" and then she starts 'patting' it with both hands. So maybe!! She's started to get really clingy lately too so I'm not sure whether to take that as a sign that she knows something is on the way!

    Also, she's starting to pull down my top to try and get to the aul air bags which is hilarious, especially when there is company present! Even though she wasn't breastfed!

    I love her name haha! Had it picked since very early on in the pregnancy and never got bored of it. I don't have a girls name picked this time! hacked has been helping me with that one!! Still haven't decided haha!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    @ Adrienne - I am now taking that as advice that shopping will ensure baby will arrive on time, must try convince other half of that one :D


    Does Addison understand that she's getting a little brother/sister soon or is she still a bit young? such a gorgeous name :)

    @ Hacked - sounds like you're much better off staying where you are til after the thaw. You poor thing hurting your hip, you need that like a hole in the head I'm sure. I ventured into town today and was inching along in case I'd fall over. I'm sure I had other shoppers behind me driven mad by going so slow!

    Fair play to you getting a job offer when you're pregnant, are you going to take up on the offer to keep you occupied til babs arrives?

    No thaw here yet but its raining tonight instead of snowing so even though I know that'll freeze over and make the roads dodgy for a few days, I'm hoping it might be the start of the big thaw.

    I'm looking forward to getting back to my own bed!
    Although its good practice, at home I have a habit of putting the electric blanket on every night and having the bed toasty warm, but I've recently starting to freak at the notion of my waters breaking while I'm in bed electrocuting hubbie & me :eek: so I'm better off getting used to the cold bed :D

    Yeah, as much as I want to get rolling, I think it's safer for me to stay put for now!

    Really hoping the thaw comes soon. Really feel for you being stuck out of the house. I miss my bed too! Haha, I know it's not funny, but I never would have thought of that! I'm sure waters breaking on an electric blanket wouldnt be the best idea. Get yourself one of those super thick warm winter duvets. I end up using them in the summer too as they arej ust so cuddly! :)

    Thanks! Delighted with the job offer. Don't have a clear role yet. Will be some kind of manager, but as it's a new company will have my finger dipped in most aspects of the company. It's in the fashion industry (something I've not really done before!) so in the future will be designing and making my own clothes and jewelry, possibly doing some personal shopper stuff possibly including make up. The girl running it liked my creative eye and asked me to consider joining, in the future I might be let loose on running a line for pregnant women :D. For the mean time I'll be doing a good bit of admin work...all those years as a librarian, ya know! It will just be a lot of meetings for the next while.

    @Das-- thanks for smack over the head! Never thought to check argos :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Stupid tummy bug :( Getting horrible cramps from it all day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    @ Adrienne - that's so cute her patting your tummy, hopefully she'll take well to her new brother/sister :)

    I actually don't think I'd be able for shopping up to the last few weeks, Thank God for online shopping!

    Here's hoping you'll have a much easier birth this time :)
    Sorry to hear about your tummy bug, hopefully it'll only be a 24 hour one

    @ Hacked - I'm v jealous of your new job it sounds fantastic! Great having that to look forward to as well as babs. So exciting starting in a new company too :)

    @ Das Kitty, I'm v jealous of you being able to have a shower, not sure if I can brave the local swimming pool but might just have to, my hair is looking a little too 'lived in' for my liking :o


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    Hello all.

    Had scan yesterday and have one lovely leggy little 4 inch baba. Wheee. theres a little baby in there! And (s)he is fine! 15 weeks tomorrow. Got into office yesterday to let postman in and tap had been left on in kitchennette causing minor flood! Wohoo! this was perfect excuse to mop up, fone head office and bugger off for scan! The universe works in strange ways! Bought cot bed for DD and postman took away the kingsize bed that was taking up her room. Just waiting for delivery of cotbed now for next week or so. also washing machine started working today. So excellent day all around!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭Swizzles


    Hey Target
    Glad everything worked out for you in the end ..Least you know what to do now if you need more time off:p

    Weve got water :D:D:D I never thought id be sooo happy to have a shower I spent about an hour in it ...

    Cap and Kitty..Any sign of the pipes thawing??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    TargetWidow, sooo happy for you :D Are you going to find out if it's a little girl or a little boy??

    Swizzles, wohoo running water! I'd be the same, nothing I love more than a nice hot shower to relax me!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Congrats Target Widow, so glad it all worked out for you with your scan and babs is happy'n'healthy in there :)

    Still haven't made it back home, hubbie is working nights so can't get at the pipes to that them out, he's going over tomorrow morning 6am after work so fingers crossed we'll have heat and water!

    Out of desperation I had to go to the hotel where my lil sis works to have a shower, aw the bliss of being able to wash my hair! :D

    In the spirit of this being the moan thread though I do have to give out.
    I got chatting to a woman in the hotel when I was waiting for my sis, she asked me to join her and her friends for a few drinks, I politely declined and said better not, baby wouldn't like it.
    To which she replies 'ah don't mind that, sure I'm pregnant too' (this after she told me she'd drank 5 bottles of wine today and was on her second southern comfort :eek:)
    Sorry I know each to their own and if someone decides to drink during their pregnancy its their own business but I couldn't help being disgusted at how drunk she was while being pregnany, poor baby :mad:

    Rant over :o


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    5 bottles!!

    LOL, even if she wasn't pregnant I'd think she was a div! I've felt I've had to justify not drinking to a lot of people actually, this country's attitude stinks. People don't trust you if you're sober, even when pregnant!

    No water here yet and most of the attic tank has disappeared even though we haven't used it, that was my emergency bath water! Going out to the Mammy's later for a shower because I have a hospital appointment on Thursday morning.

    Also note the time of this post, wide awake!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 157 ✭✭fi1979


    saw some in Penneys the other day! a 3 box set, can't remember the price tho, heads like a sive!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,174 ✭✭✭bulmersgal


    5 bottles omg, been reading ur thread for the past few days. Had nothing to moan about so this my first post.

    Jesus i had a glass or two of west coast cooler with loads of ice and i felt so guilty. I'd be locked on one and a half bottles before i was preg. Couldn't imagine drinkin that much.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Water's back! We did the water dance this morning!

    After doing do much cleaning now that my pelvis and legs are in
    bits! LOL, had to add a moan to stay on topic!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Das Kitty wrote: »
    I've felt I've had to justify not drinking to a lot of people actually, this country's attitude stinks. People don't trust you if you're sober, even when pregnant!

    I know what you mean, I don't normally drink when I go out (live in the middle of nowhere/can be impossible/expensive to get taxi's so handier just to stick to minerals and drive) and it drives me mad how much people try to push drink on you, like there's something wrong with you if you don't drink :rolleyes:

    @Bulmersgal - I'm the same, actually a fortnight before I discovered I was pregnant I had been out for a work night and had about 5 glasses of west coast cooler, the guilt I felt when I did find out I was pregnany was unreal.

    I know that probably sounds a bit OTT as a lot of women do drink moderately during pregnancy without problem, but I had a bleed a week later and was so paranoid that I had somehow caused it I haven't been able to touch a drop since.

    Its one of the two things I'm really looking forward to after I have babs, getting my own body back and being able to have a nice cold bottle of west coast cooler mmmmmmm :)

    @ Das Kitty & Swizzles - you must be delighted to have your water back! We have our heating and water back but I can't get over to our house til tomorrow night!
    My car is over in the house and hubbie is working nights so have to wait for my sis to drive me over tomorrow.
    I can not wait, a few parcels of clothes and the cot mattress I ordered online arrived over the past few days so my sis can't wait to come over and help put babies stuff in the nursery. I know sad, we're like a pair of kids with a new doll!:rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭Swizzles


    @Das how much a a relief is that water dance :D

    @Cap least you have it back ..Another worry you could have done without but hopefully all over with now:DYou must be so excited to have the stuff delivered..It must be like Christmas again lol Thats what i cant wait for buying stuff and setting it all up Oh and baby of course :D..We have already said my brother will put the cot together ..Ive seen the ohs handywork lol:rolleyes:

    In the mood of the moan thread my temper and moods have been something else the last few days..I have to sit there biting my tongue incase i say something i know ill regret the min it leaves my mouth ..Oh and still no better with the back pain :(


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    Evening ladies!

    Great to see the thread still going strong. I got my washing machine going again today..... it turns out it has a DEFROST function and I only find it last night!!!!:eek:

    I am not going to find out if it's a boy or girl this time either because I just love the mystery of it. There is so little mystery left in any of the birthing process anymore and I love this one last surprise.

    I am online because if I don't stay here I will do my DH an injury tonight before he leaves for work (hey Cap, hubbies who work nights!). Going to visit his mam for last two days on way home from creche has caused casserole to be undercooked last night (tough tough beef!) and reheated tonight instead of a fresh dinner. And he was farting around the house today instead of doing anything useful! I could swing for him. DD was put into timeout twice today at creche but I couldn't find out why. I'm not one of those mammies who swears her darling "would never do that". I just want to know what the issue is so I can make sure we are reacting appropriately to that behaviour here too and reinforcing the discipline. Anyway! Car slid and skidded about 5 times on the way home from creche today and it was scary because it looked perfect and was so deceptively dangerous. And the bloody till was down €138 tonight and I had to put the cash in. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr! :mad:
    There. I am fine now.:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Target Widow - I know its terrible to say but sometimes I'm glad when he's on nights. Mainly because he hates the soaps and when he works nights I get to watch all of them :D I know, I'm such a lovely wife :rolleyes:
    Ah no I do miss him but its only every second week so not too bad.

    Thats bad form that the nursery didn't explain to you clearly why your little one was put in 'time out' dont blame you for being peeved!

    Sounds like you're having a crappy day, here's hoping today will be better :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Oh my god...good and bad moan in one here!

    OK, remember how I told you I managed to get the free 50 quid changing bag out of Mothercare when I bought my buggy because of false advertising?
    And remember I was worried about mothercare being idiots?

    Well they were. I arrived up there this afternoon, handed them my gurantee and receipts and explined the situation. Girl went back to get it. Gone too long. Came back and said they had got rid of it....whatever that means?! It did have my name and paid in full written across it in big letters...with my receipt and phone number!!!!
    I stayed calm and polite, but very angry. I said that wasn't good enough as I had called twice in the last two weeks to explain the situation and ask if said buggy was still ok, they took my number 3 and 4 more times!!

    She just told me they didn't have any more in the shop, except for the display model which I was welcome to. I said that that wasn't good enough...I had paid for a brand new prodcut, not a second hand one.
    Manager came down and said she'd call home office. Grand. She called, said they had one left in stock at head office and that they would home deliver it on friday if that was ok with me. I said as long as I didn't have to pay for the service....of course not says she!

    I asked her what buggy came with, just to make sure I was getting the same deal. She said everything....INCLUDING raincover, change bag and car seat base. I Was told i had to buy rain cover and car seat base seperately, so I bought a rain cover worth 42 euro. Manager said she'd give me a full refund for it so i ended up getting a travel cot for 8 euro, 2 free changing bags and 2 free raincovers.
    Also didn't want the raincover back, so i can go and exchange it for something i need. :rolleyes:

    They are a pain in the bum, but mothercare is throwing money at me!!! :eek:


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    I found I had a similar experience with MC. Asked them about a bouncer in their catalog to be told we can get that into stock for you. Now this particular bouncer is only suitable for a fairly limited range of ages and weights but it would have suited DD at the time and I only wanted it for work to keep her amused as it had tonnes of cool features. About 4 phonecalls and 3 personal visits later several chats with manager who took my number and "wrote it into the book" I still had no bouncer. After about 10 weeks I finally decided to go in and cancel the order alltogether only to be told "it has arrived in Dublin and will be here within the week". I said thanks but no thanks, she is now too big for it! I only ever go in there for their herbal wipes, their long-sleeved bibs, and once for the Anabel Karmel ice-pop set. Regetted every stitch of clothing I bought there but I adore her rosebud fitted sheets. My favourites. Wash like hankies and so lovely and soft and not a bobble in sight after nearly two years. I shop from them online now. Got the hairwashing jug and it does the trick but cost a bomb to have delivered. The difficulties of a 44 hr working week!


  • Registered Users Posts: 812 ✭✭✭hacked


    Yeah, can't say I'm too impressed. And it has been a lot of hassle and stress...but kinda worth it now after all this free stuff! Good to know about the sheets...is it any particular brand??


  • Registered Users Posts: 559 ✭✭✭TargetWidow


    MC's own ones. Really lovely bedding in the rosebud range of co-ordinated bedding. Online shopping at......
    http://www.mothercare.ie then head over to the bedding section and from there to "co-ordinated range - Rosebud".

    Thats me for the night. I need my 7 and three quarter hours (wait and see that 15 minutes less will crucify me tomorrow!):D


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