Am I being unreasonable??

ahh yes.

often one half will always seemto have a friend around. i know i used to do that when i was a lot younger. it was kind of a chaparone so that things could never get too heavy.

it may be that your boyfriend isnt sure about the relatioship, or it could be that he just likes his friends company, and is trying to spend time with his two best friends at once. or maybe hes afraid that he wont be able to step up to the plate and keep you entertained on a night out if its just the two of you. by entertained, i mean conversation wise

perhaps you might suggest that you both go out alone every now and then, but you have to be careful, becuase the last thing you want is your boyfriend thinking that you wont let him see his friends, or that you are trying to change him or some other rubbish. this is where all those stories about women come from. you want to have him out for a night alone, and suddenly youre whipping him into a state fit to be married

now, how you broach that, i have no idea. i know i lost a lot of friends when my ex girlfriend did it to me, but then again, she didnt just want to have me to herself every now and then, she actually didnt like any of my friends.
perhaps what you need to do is invite more people? take the emphesis off your boyfriend and his friend, put it onto some others?
its easier to be a couple in a group of 10 people than in a group of 3.

sam0626 wrote: »

Ok here goes...

'look at her yeah i'd have her..would u?'

Banter is no harm but her boyfriend's friend is asking him questions like this within earshot of the OP, which is childish and immature. And the OP has said that her boyfriend doesn't always answer his friend back when she's there, I assume that's because he doesn't want to upset the OP. It sounds like the friend is stirring things a bit if he comes out with stuff like the above