Am I alone?

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:17am #1

Im wondering is there anyone else out there that is straight and around my age that likes to wear ladies lingerie? Or am I alone? I am 19 years old and just cant help myself as I love it too much. Im not bi or gay at all as I love woman too much.
Are there any girls out there that like this phenonoman at all in a guy?

fade2black · 05-11-2005 1:24am

I wish i could use the search function to see what your first 4 posts where because the immediate presumption would be that you're a Troll. Sure we can only presume you're genuine.

I think the general reaction is going to be along the lines of everyone to their own. It wouldn't be something that would interest me but who's to say what's normal and what's not these days. You're not hurting anyone, (unless the knickers are particularly tight and then you may inflict some discomfort upon yourself) so if it makes you happy, then why not.

Turner · 05-11-2005 1:28am

TBH i cant see how women wear thongs never mind men!!!

Id say your iin the minority alright and Probably a troll...

cue women saying how comfortable a thong is and how i should try one....not gonna happen!!

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:29am

What do you mean by a troll? I dunno what happened to my posts in the other forum thing thats why I put it here instead.
Im asking for girls opinions really and do any like it at all even if a guy was defo not ugly and nice.?
And if there are other guys out there round my age how do they get them? Im really embarassed about this issue.

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:30am

I dont like thongs by the way, I dont like them on woman and I certainly dont look at men!!

What is a troll??

fade2black · 05-11-2005 1:31am

Go into the shop and say it's a present for your girlfriend.

monkeyfudge · 05-11-2005 1:33am

Or order over the internet.

Ever seen the movie Ed Wood? Johny Depp played the B-Movie director Ed Wood who was a transvestite... I think it was a very positive portrayal and it showed the problems he had with his girlfriend because of it.

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:33am

Yea thats good but you always have people looking at u and its highly embarassing! And the staff behind the cash desk sometimes sniggering...

AARRRGH · 05-11-2005 1:33am

Do you not find they are uncomfortable??? An ex made me wear them once all day (for a laugh). They're not made for men!!!! Ouch.

Victor · 05-11-2005 1:34am

My Kink Is Not Your Kink.

I'm sure everyone likes something different. There are lots of people who like cross-dressing to some level or other.

You are not alone.

AARRRGH · 05-11-2005 1:37am

I like your sig Victor! I am tempted to do something like this but for the Israeli conflict.

fade2black · 05-11-2005 1:37am

Truly_You wrote:

Yea thats good but you always have people looking at u and its highly embarassing! And the staff behind the cash desk sometimes sniggering...

I'd say they're well used to men in their shops by now. Just say that you're girlfriend was getting on to you cause you never buy her lingerie and the girls in the shop would be delighted to help ya.

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:39am

fade2black wrote:

I'd say they're well used to men in their shops by now. Just say that you're girlfriend was getting on to you cause you never buy her lingerie and the girls in the shop would be delighted to help ya.

Thats a good idea!

Turner · 05-11-2005 1:40am

dublindude wrote:

I like your sig Victor! I am tempted to do something like this but for the Israeli conflict.

Not sure about the bertie bit... he didnt kill all the motorists... they did themselves or else the other party involved in their fatal incident did :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 1:41am

dublindude wrote:

Do you not find they are uncomfortable??? An ex made me wear them once all day (for a laugh). They're not made for men!!!! Ouch.

Find what uncomforatble? I like silk lace knickers or french boxers and they both are very comfortable..!! I like the smooth silk..

monkeyfudge · 05-11-2005 1:41am

fade2black wrote:

I'd say they're well used to men in their shops by now. Just say that you're girlfriend was getting on to you cause you never buy her lingerie and the girls in the shop would be delighted to help ya.

Ah... but if you feel self concious then you'll still be embarressed and think they're laughing at you...

I have the same problem when I buying toys in Smyths and pretending they're for my nephew... or sometimes my niece.

AARRRGH · 05-11-2005 2:12am

Truly_You wrote:

Find what uncomforatble? I like silk lace knickers or french boxers and they both are very comfortable..!! I like the smooth silk..

Hmmm. If you have really worn womens underwear you'd know they totally crush your balls.

I sense a troll!

Truly_You · 05-11-2005 2:32am

u probaly wore real tight ones. U shud buy the right size and then try them!

Victor · 05-11-2005 2:55am

Behave! Less of the troll comments.

Aisling(",) · 05-11-2005 3:04am

I have headr of a few people your age doing this but I would advise you not to tell your mates because chances are they wiould slag the sh*t out of you.You can get mens tongs would that not do the same thing and the comment about silk you can get silk boxers

AARRRGH · 05-11-2005 3:05am

Truly_You wrote:

u probaly wore real tight ones. U shud buy the right size and then try them!

LOL, knickers for fat chicks???

Setun · 05-11-2005 10:56am

Not alone, but probably part of the small niche of cross-dressing. Does your gf know or have you had any trouble in the past? Also, how the heck did you realise you liked wearing womens underwear as a matter of interest?!

skipn_easy · 05-11-2005 11:33am

Its nice to see that whenever someone has a personal issue thats slightly diffferent from the norm of "OMG, I like this girl but I'm too scared to tell her, what should I do??" the first few answers scream troll and half of the other posters make jokes.

I know of someone who does this, its a taboo subject with his girlfriend as she found out but isn't comfortable with it, so he continues but not around her. Different things turn different people on, the practicalities of some of them can be difficult, but don't worry about being embarrassed or feeling alone, I doubt anyone suspects a thing and there's a huge amount of people out there with their own secret fantasies. There are also specialist fetish shops online which can help you out, trying to get that elusive item, if you find it too awkward to buy from a high street shop.

parker larkin · 05-11-2005 12:59pm

truly isn't a troll I don't think. He posted the same thread in the GBL section but it was locked when there was a showdown between a couple of posters - he was then advised to come here.

Truly, you're fine. Ok it isn't the norm, and you will get your homophobes you will throw all the usual bile, so I'd advise exercising descretion. You are not hurting anyone.

[Jackass] · 05-11-2005 1:50pm

Didn't David Beckham wear womens underwear on ocassion when he went on TV or something? And he's done alright for himself. No op, I'm sure you're not alone...but it is unusual, which is why not many people on here can relate to you.

But I wouldn't worry about it, it's probably just a "phase" or a "thing" or whatever, which you may or may not got bored of & move on at some stage.

Advice I would give is try not to do it all the time...even if you dont want to stop, you'll need to wear guys underwear if/when you meet a new girl and your sleeping together...this isnt something that can comeup on your first sexiual experience with her....or probably even in the first few months..o i suggest you try and not get "caught"

As for feeling bad about...why? You like it, so screw everyone else, it's none of there business & you should keep it that way..

Good Luck

jptk · 05-11-2005 1:59pm

Ive heard of people who like to do this aswell, so there are plenty out there.
Its probably more common than we think, sure how would we know who likes to do this in there spare time?

faceman · 05-11-2005 2:11pm

Truly_You wrote:

Im wondering is there anyone else out there that is straight and around my age that likes to wear ladies lingerie? Or am I alone? I am 19 years old and just cant help myself as I love it too much. Im not bi or gay at all as I love woman too much.
Are there any girls out there that like this phenonoman at all in a guy?

Ur a legend dude, talk about dropping a clanger! Best of luck!

Nevyn · 05-11-2005 2:20pm

Many people have differing kinks or fetish.
If someones kink is not to your liking but they are not harming anyone it is not for anyone to judge or pass remarks.

Truly_You having an intrest in fabrics and how the feel on your skin is not
an unusual kink it just tends not to be talked about by the general populous.

The staff in the likes of pennys or dunnes stores are awful most of the time
so them sniggering at customers is apalling but common enough.

I would suggest trying a better type of shop and as ladies sizes are based
off the measurement of hips and bum you get a tape measure and learn what
size in that range you are.

Ordering on line may be an option too as there are site that sell
Manites that take into consideration make requirement for room in underwear.

As for dating some one well it may be trick and hard to find someone who understand but really your not harming anyone and would you want to be
with someone that was that closed minded.

McGinty · 05-11-2005 10:44pm

I have to say for f*** sake, the amount of s**** remarks re: cross dressing, its a man wearing women's clothes. Women dress as men every day, why not vica versa. In respect to the original poster, I have no objection (I am female) to a man wearing women's clothes if I fancy him, I had a male friend who dressed as a woman, but he looked awful, if you're going to dress up do it properly, some men who dress up as a women look better than us women, and aesthetically I prefer that, however, I also like my man to be manly, so if we were close (initimate) I would have to say I would what him to be manly looking at that time. Some men need to be able to express their feminine side through cross dressing, and also the fabrics of women's clothing are so much softer, and would appeal to the more tactile man. I personally see nothing wrong with this, and would probably offer fashion tips (I did to my male friend), but at the same time I would also like him to enjoy his masculantity. Truly You f*** the begruggers, be true to yourself and enjoy wearing women's clothes, the choice is far wider. All will work itself out.

el Bastardo · 07-11-2005 2:13am

A quick peruse of the web told me that there are a few reasons why men where womens garb; because it's a turn on, because it helps them to 'de-stress' or because they just feel more comfortable. If it's of any interest, I did have issues of that sort during my adolescent years (thankfully, I grew out of it).

It's not considered 'normal', but that's society for ya.

jimmidy_cricket · 07-11-2005 9:50am

TBH Truly-You, that would totally creep me out if my fella told me he'd like to borrow my knickers. Saying that though, I'm of the opinion that I'm a bit old fashioned and traditional when it comes to Male/Female roles...let me explain...Had a bit of a debate with some of my friends re; boys trimming their neither reigons, not totally shaving it all off but "tiding up" the em lower area, when I heard this I was disgusted and thought they were messing to get my fella to maintain his bits (eeeew) but it transpired that all of the lads tidy up their area, this to me is totally unessasary for a bloke to do ,Very nessasary for a girl, but not a lad. Seemingly this is comonplace and it was more unusual that my fella didn't, but anyhow very long winded I know I'm getting to the point. While a straight guy weraring ladys underwear <Shudder> is kinda repulisive to me, its only my opinion and mine seems to be old fashioned so there you go.

PS To further cement my old fashionedness I don't like blokes wearing dimond earings, especially one in each ear.

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