Is Stammering Anxiety Driven?

Hi there
Firstly,stammering is a genetic condition.In my opinion there are two types of stammerers-overt and covert.Overt stammerers are people who stammer most of the time whereas with covert stammerers friends and even family members might not know they have a stammer.Interview situations are difficult because its very hard to use 'tricks' such as switching words.
An example would be if at the start of an interview if you were asked to state your name,that would be difficult for a person with a stammer,as you can't change it.
IMO stammering is something you are born with,it is not anxiety driven,however anxiety can exacerbate it.
Everyone's stammer is different but I believe its more evident when you are in a situation such as giving a Mass reading,have to ask directions to a specific place etc where you can't switch words.
Personally,I rarely stammer around friends and family whereas situations such as making phone calls,interviews,readings,asking for directions would be far more challenging on my speech.

Hope O_o wrote: »

Thanks stutteringdude. I've never discussed this before, so I have very little information and wasn't aware of any tricks.

I stammer around family and friends and switching words makes my delay worse because then I have to switch gears and form another word when my mouth is struggling to say the first one - its rather frustrating and comes out an the most inopportune times. Everyone has always been pleasantly patient with me when it happens though.

I can give readings and such, but answering point blank questions seems to restrict my responding muscles (sorry, don't know how else to explain it).

So........relaxation techniques won't help if it's genetic, then
... Thanks for the good info, stutteringdude.

Hi Hope
The switching gears you mention is something every person with a stammer experiences.
Stammering is genetic but there are tools & techniques to control it which I've personally learned on the McGuire programme.It is definetly possible to control your stammer.My advise to you when someone asks you 'point blank questions' is to resist time pressure.Only reply to the question when you are ready to speak.
I must stress this is only my advise,Im not infallible when it comes to the area of stuttering!:D

No prob Hope,any questions ask away!

stutteringdude wrote: »

My advise to you when someone asks you 'point blank questions' is to resist time pressure.Only reply to the question when you are ready to speak.

+1000

Quite often in work I'm asked a question "on the spot" and for quite a long time Id ended up answering the question 2 or 3 different times while giving only one answer (if that make sense). Emmmm I'd start explaining the answer one way then while half way through that explanation I'll suddenly change tact and start again with another explanation. Leaving everybody confused.

I trained myself to say "one moment" this gives the questioner a sense that I'm deeply considering the question while in fact I'm just taking a moment to clear my thoughts and then I proceed to answer the question.

The system with the "One Moment" thing is what I call a trigger.

I use loads of them when I'm in different situations. I was at a function when I got talking to a hypotherapist and he said that its a form of self-hypnosis.
And was very impressed with my system. I've even got one to help me focus when Im trying to learn something.

It all stemmed from a stammer that started when I was 16-17 and over the years I've learned to control it. Its weird as I always thought that it was me being thick that caused my stammering, and for a while it was really effecting my confidence. It was an episode of MASH, Season 11 Episode 9 that tbh changed my life. It dealt with stammering. Once or twice a year I watch it and I bring a little tear to my eyes.

Weird but I dont know how I would be if I hadn't been watching tv that day


Jus' my 2cents

imo it is not genetic. Sure if someone say in your family has a stammer then there is a greater chance that you imitate them and pick it up that way but no one is born with a stammer. People are born with a lisp or other defect but not with a stammer.

As a person who stammers, personally it is from anxiety or other emotional problem. I feel once you start to stammer then it can make you second guess yourself when speaking. Its like you have to think about what you are going say rather than just speaking it. You have to align your sentence to what you feel comfortable saying even if it means dumbing down the sentence with basic easier words to say. It is a mental health issue imo. Generally people in authority are one of the worst groups to communicate with for stammerers. Stammering leads to more stammering.

I suffered quite badly from a stammer when I was younger, and had gotten a good handle on it ever since college or so...my mam had a slight one when she was younger and my brother also has one.

My 4 year old daughter has developed a problem over the past year or two and as I said, mine would be barely noticable, certainly not at home where I am most comfortable so in my opinion it is genetic. Too many occurances in one family to be coincidence

I switch words which begin with "problem" letters when required, and the whole thing is seamless enough in my head. I would have the occasional bump but nothing that would be worried about it.

When in school, I thought I would have this all my life, but I seemed to grow out of it. I know people though who have carried it through to their adult life unfortunately.

Stammering 4 Ireland wrote: »

Splashthecash, do you still switch words and use those you are comfortable with?? If so you would be described as a covert stammerer, but you seem to be pretty happy with where your speech is.

Have you done anything in relation to your daughters speech?

I probably do switch words with family\friends but I not conscious of it. Although when in work on and a conference call, i do have to think ahead, while I am talking to see if any problematic words are on the horizon. I switch the find the suitable alternative so its ready...all happens in the blink of an eye but thats how it works for me.

Re my daughter, myself and my wife are just being aware to speak slowly to her and not react when she encounters any bumps. We just wait for her to get through it and act like nothing is wrong. We will be starting a session with a speech therapist soon and following the Lidcombe program. Supposed to be intensive 6-8 week course.