Lone Female Traveller Seeks your Advice

LoneFeTravel wrote: »

Hi everyone,

This is my first post to Boards seeking advise from you knowledgeable people.

I am 29 year old female who is interested in travelling for approx. 4 - 6 weeks this year/next year around Asia perhaps and possibly by myself but may have an option to bring a friend with me or join a solo travel group - although I’m thinking I might enjoy myself if I went alone.

So, I’d like to know:
1. Where in your opinion would be safe to travel to alone?
2. If I was to go with my friend what county would you suggest? We are both very different - I like all things health and wellbeing related and she likes the general touristy stuff and drinking at night - but we both like good food!!
3. If I was to go with a travel group , could you suggest a group? And can you do your own thing if you were to go with a group?
4. Are there any websites that are known to be the best in terms advise for travellers?
5. Budget? I’d ideally like to go somewhere that’s not too expensive but willing to pay for touristy trips too.

So basically I have no idea of anything , it’s something I would like to do in the next year or so and I don’t really even know where to start. Any advise or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

Many thanks for reading.

If it's South-East Asia you have in mind several countries are fantastic travel destinations. You get a gentle introduction by starting out in more developed places such as Thailand and Malaysia. Vietnam, Cambodia, Myanmar (though not at the moment) Indonesia and Laos are all fascinating cultures in their own ways and the food is pretty good everywhere. Though this obviously varies, most countries are fairly safe for women and people travelling alone. Once you get the hang on travelling by yourself it becomes quite addictive and it allows you to absorb more of the local culture. Apart from Singapore, every country in the region is quite cheap if you stay away from the luxury places.

Not a female. So my advice may not be the most appropriate.

South East Asia looked safe when I was there.
Thailand and Vietnam.
Vietnam is a spectacular country. I would imagine very safe for a female too

As with travelling with your friend, it sounds like ye are not a match and would ruin a holiday. My memories of holidaying with friends are wanting to do things and other people not wanting it, or just going drinking or been too hungover to do stuff.

Once you start travelling solo and realise how good and free it is to be able to what you want you will never go back.

But the first solo trip can be daunting, wondering what the hell am I doing so far away from home on my own. But the key is to keep doing things don't allow idle time. You will meet travellers as some said above who you can travel with as long as it suits you/them then part ways and move on.


My recommendation go on your own and start with Vietnam. A fascinating country that has a great history and bit overly touristed yet, but enough to be easy for your first solo trip.

I solo travelled throughout my 20s and lived the dream! Some tips:

1) There are a ton of female solo travel blogs online specific to certain countries. Google them and you will find great advice from women who have solo travelled. (I can't remember any off the top of my head but there are some great ones out there).
2) Have a plan for when you arrive at your destination. How will you get from the airport to your accommodation? Try to arrive during daytime if at all possible.
3) Have a simple ring that you can pop onto your wedding finger if you feel like it may give you some security. (This is a handy, comforting move!)
4) Have extra money that you can access should you need it. Again, this is more of a comfort move and fortunately I can't remember ever needing to avail of it.
5) I used to start my day early and be back in my accommodation before night-time (depending where I was).
6) Bring a set of spare clothes in your carry on. Keeping a money belt on you for your passport, money and phone is just one less thing to think of and means you can sleep easily while in transit. I had a thin one that was very discreet.

I would really recommend solo travel, you just need to prepare for it. I had a huge thirst for travelling in my 20s. It was a choice between not going or going solo as my friends didn't have the same level of interest. Now that I happily have a mortgage (and hopefully my own family on the way too) those days are past for me but I had so many wonderful experiences. You meet so many interesting people and journey with them along the way. People are often fascinated that you are travelling solo and I received so many kind deeds from strangers. Solo travel shaped me into who I am today and I'm glad I took the plunge.

Enjoy your adventure because that is what it will be!