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J. K. Rowling is cancelled because she is a T.E.R.F [ADMIN WARNING IN POST #1]

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  • Registered Users Posts: 27,003 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    I have never heard such bull**** in all my life. A one year old can't talk or know that they are human and not a cat yet they know they are in the wrong body.

    A 1 year old doesnt even know that they are a thing, nevermind that they are not some other thing.
    18months is when they start to become self aware.


  • Registered Users Posts: 877 ✭✭✭_Godot_


    keano_afc wrote: »
    Network Rail currently have Pride colours in their Twitter profile pic. Of course.

    Why would you have a problem with this?


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,153 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    _Godot_ wrote: »
    Why would you have a problem with this?
    Somehow allowing a billboard with "I ♥ JK Rowling" = taking sides in political matters, but having a pride flag on your official Twitter account isn't.,

    maybe it's for her views on Scottish independence, wonder did they host any campaign billboards around the time of the independence referendum...?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,492 ✭✭✭Sir Oxman


    Somehow allowing a billboard with "I ♥ JK Rowling" = taking sides in political matters, but having a pride flag on your official Twitter account isn't.,

    maybe it's for her views on Scottish independence, wonder did they host any campaign billboards around the time of the independence referendum...?
    Yes, it's the utter hypocrisy that is being outed here.
    The more, the better for sanity prevailing.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,153 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/rosie-duffield-labour-mp-cervix-women-backlash-a4514321.html?amp
    UK Labour MP Rosie Duffield has become embroiled in a transphobia row sparked by a tweet about cervical cancer.

    The controversy erupted after the Canterbury MP commented on a CNN tweet sharing the new American Cancer Society guidelines.

    CNN's post said: “Individuals with a cervix are now recommended to start cervical cancers screening at 25 and continue through age 65, with HPV testing every five years.”

    But Ms Duffield was flooded with complaints after she liked Piers Morgan's reply to the tweet which read: "Do you mean women?"

    She then hit back at critics, tweeting: "I'm a 'transphobe' for knowing that only women have a cervix...?!"


    https://twitter.com/CaoimheHaleLab/status/1289521361728176128?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    You make me feel like an individual with a cervix...

    Once, twice, three times an individual with a cervix..


    Or how about one of my favourite mushy songs - You're my individual with a cervix, you bore my child, Lord...

    Or this one - the fabulous poem by Maya Angelou sung by the even nore fabulous Ruthie Foster..

    Pretty individuals with cervixes wonder where my secret lies.
    I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
    But when I start to tell them,
    They think I’m telling lies.
    I say,
    It’s in the reach of my arms,
    The span of my hips,
    The stride of my step,
    The curl of my lips.
    I’m an individual with a cervix
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal individual with a cervix,
    That’s me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    Here is a conundrum for wokescolds -
    Individuals with a cervix has 22 letters
    Women and transmen has 16 letters.
    6 letters more means 27% more ink wasted, more paper used, more trees felled, more waste laid to the environment. You are egregious monsters!!
    :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 81,516 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Gruffalox wrote: »
    Here is a conundrum for wokescolds -
    Individuals with a cervix has 22 letters
    Women and transmen has 16 letters.
    6 letters more means 27% more ink wasted, more paper used, more trees felled, more waste laid to the environment. You are egregious monsters!!
    :)

    Wat


  • Registered Users Posts: 27,003 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo




    I thought this was good and follows my thoughts on the subject


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    Thanks for this. So calm and factual.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,711 ✭✭✭keano_afc


    _Godot_ wrote: »
    Why would you have a problem with this?

    Because their reason for taking down the billboard was a nonsense excuse about not favouring one opinion over another and refusing to be political. The display of the Pride flag refutes this.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Yesterday, Irvine Welsh posted a few tweets pointing out the conflict between some transgender rights and some women’s right. He was measured, just like JK. The response was muted. Very few threats, very few transphobia accusations, not much of anything really. He’s lower profile than Rowling but still pretty high profile. Now, what could be the behind the difference of treatment of the two authors. I wonder?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,281 ✭✭✭CrankyHaus


    Yesterday, Irvine Welsh posted a few tweets pointing out the conflict between some transgender rights and some women’s right. He was measured, just like JK. The response was muted. Very few threats, very few transphobia accusations, not much of anything really. He’s lower profile than Rowling but still pretty high profile. Now, what could be the behind the difference of treatment of the two authors. I wonder?


    I honestly doubt many of the younger people engaged in Cancel Culture would even know who Irvine Welsh is, especially the Yanks, whereas they would have grown up reading JK Rowling's books and watching the film adaptations.

    I mean even Morrissey is nearly off their radar, the response to his endorsement of For Britain was fairly muted, and he was massive for older generations.


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,736 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Hard to know what is going in the UK with proposed reforms of the gender recocgnition act. It seemed a month or so ago that Self ID was completely off the cards after Theresa May had previously indicated support for it and that toilet bans might even be on the cards. Apparently now there is suggestions that Carrie Symonds is encouragining Boris Johnson to bring in Self ID.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Well hopefully pillow talk won’t cause Johnson to make a grave error.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    Well hopefully pillow talk won’t cause Johnson to make a grave error.

    I'd say it will. I saw that yesterday and thought Oh Fnuck. He won't get the ride for a year if he does not do as he is told.


  • Registered Users Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Johnson is certainly a man who is lead by his...er...Johnson.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Tired Gardener


    CrankyHaus wrote: »
    I honestly doubt many of the younger people engaged in Cancel Culture would even know who Irvine Welsh is, especially the Yanks, whereas they would have grown up reading JK Rowling's books and watching the film adaptations.

    I mean even Morrissey is nearly off their radar, the response to his endorsement of For Britain was fairly muted, and he was massive for older generations.

    More than likely. A lot of what 'Gen X' grew up with culturally is not relevant to today's young millennial adults, so is completely alien to them.

    Gen X, continues their long tradition of being overlooked and irrelevant!

    Yay! (/Sarcasm)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    CrankyHaus wrote: »
    I honestly doubt many of the younger people engaged in Cancel Culture would even know who Irvine Welsh is, especially the Yanks, whereas they would have grown up reading JK Rowling's books and watching the film adaptations.

    I mean even Morrissey is nearly off their radar, the response to his endorsement of For Britain was fairly muted, and he was massive for older generations.

    It is still notable for him to get basically no blowback. It would be at a lower level than Rowling but you’d imagine there’d be some. But, hey, if you think he’s not high-profile enough, William Shatner has been tackling gender ideology absurdities in the last few days. John Cleese did too recently. They are both very well known across the generations. Women get attacked and vilified much more for expressing doubt about gender ideology without a shadow of a doubt. Check out the worst tweets aimed at Cleese and Shatner as opposed to Rowling. There’s a difference. Both in viciousness and volume. Basically any leftie bloke who secretly harbours misogynistic feelings now has a socially acceptable way to express them whilst still looking progressive.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 572 ✭✭✭Errashareesh


    any leftie bloke who secretly harbours misogynistic feelings now has a socially acceptable way to express them whilst still looking progressive.
    The "brocialists".


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,951 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    It is still notable for him to get basically no blowback. It would be at a lower level than Rowling but you’d imagine there’d be some. But, hey, if you think he’s not high-profile enough, William Shatner has been tackling gender ideology absurdities in the last few days. John Cleese did too recently. They are both very well known across the generations. Women get attacked and vilified much more for expressing doubt about gender ideology without a shadow of a doubt. Check out the worst tweets aimed at Cleese and Shatner as opposed to Rowling. There’s a difference. Both in viciousness and volume. Basically any leftie bloke who secretly harbours misogynistic feelings now has a socially acceptable way to express them whilst still looking progressive.

    Cleese was a few years back though. He keeps his head down these days.
    I wonder if the tone from the pro trans lobbies has just got far more vicious recently. Look at Graham Limehan, he got plenty of vitriol thrown at him didn’t he?

    We’ll see what happens if Irvine Welsh keeps it up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    It is still notable for him to get basically no blowback. It would be at a lower level than Rowling but you’d imagine there’d be some. But, hey, if you think he’s not high-profile enough, William Shatner has been tackling gender ideology absurdities in the last few days. John Cleese did too recently. They are both very well known across the generations. Women get attacked and vilified much more for expressing doubt about gender ideology without a shadow of a doubt. Check out the worst tweets aimed at Cleese and Shatner as opposed to Rowling. There’s a difference. Both in viciousness and volume. Basically any leftie bloke who secretly harbours misogynistic feelings now has a socially acceptable way to express them whilst still looking progressive.

    Yay for Captain Kirk :) he is keeping cool.
    https://twitter.com/WilliamShatner/status/1290332692622450688?s=19


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Cleese was a few years back though. He keeps his head down these days.
    I wonder if the tone from the pro trans lobbies has just got far more vicious recently. Look at Graham Limehan, he got plenty of vitriol thrown at him didn’t he?

    We’ll see what happens if Irvine Welsh keeps it up.

    No, only a few weeks back, he expressed support for Rowling. And that you haven’t heard of it demonstrates neatly the difference in treatment he received compared to her.

    I do think there is increased viciousness and I think it’s because people are waking up to the absurdities we are all supposed to swallow.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,218 ✭✭✭✭Danzy


    No, only a few weeks back, he expressed support for Rowling. And that you haven’t heard of it demonstrates neatly the difference in treatment he received compared to her.

    I do think there is increased viciousness and I think it’s because people are waking up to the absurdities we are all supposed to swallow.

    The "progressive" activists are also pushing the boat out further in to even more ludicrous measures and positions, so they have to be more aggressive to drive conformity and obedience.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,951 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    No, only a few weeks back, he expressed support for Rowling. And that you haven’t heard of it demonstrates neatly the difference in treatment he received compared to her.

    I do think there is increased viciousness and I think it’s because people are waking up to the absurdities we are all supposed to swallow.

    Okay fair enough about Cleese, and it wouldn't surprise me if you were right. Is there a clear explanation for why Linehan got so much hostility himself?

    And you're definitely right about the increased viciousness. I do think it's evidence of the weakness of the trans case, once their earlier appeal to emotion failed.

    (And just to be clear, it failed because there is more involved than just being nice to people: women are being expected to give up some of their hard-won protections for reasons that are not sufficiently convincing to me. Rather like pro-lifers got really nasty once their "Love Both" slogan was shown up for the simplistic propaganda that it was.)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Okay fair enough about Cleese, and it wouldn't surprise me if you were right. Is there a clear explanation for why Linehan got so much hostility himself?

    And you're definitely right about the increased viciousness. I do think it's evidence of the weakness of the trans case, once their earlier appeal to emotion failed.

    (And just to be clear, it failed because there is more involved than just being nice to people: women are being expected to give up some of their hard-won protections for reasons that are not sufficiently convincing to me. Rather like pro-lifers got really nasty once their "Love Both" slogan was shown up for the simplistic propaganda that it was.)

    I not sure why Linehan has attracted so much ire. I think it’s because he’s very belligerent. And, though I agree with many of his points, he did something I consider harassment on Twitter. He would routinely @ famous people in his comments, some who have spoke out in favour of trans rights and some who haven’t waded into the topic at all. He’d do that often, asking them why they haven’t changed their views and drawing their attention to different things. He was hectoring people.

    I think another reason is because he has been a vocal liberal voice for a long time now and maybe trans activists felt betrayed by him not rowing in behind them.

    I agree re: the whole “Awww, be nice” thing. I’ve said it before, but I do believe that most people who express support for trans rights do have their hearts in the right place. And I’m somebody who believes that people should dress how they want and present how they want and not be harassed for it. So I understand why people think “Yeah, rights for everyone!”. But I think that many of these people have simply not thought things through and I find the naivety of some of them intensely irritating. We already have a male offender (who needs extra guarding) housed in a women’s prison in Ireland. That’s not okay. How unfair to the female inmates to have that extra worry placed on their shoulders. But many activists are a world away from these vulnerable women. They will never have to worry about that. So it’s easy for them to be idealistic. I hadn’t really thought about the whole thing as recently as a year ago. My turning point was the Maya Forstater debacle. It opened my eyes.

    To me, self ID is just a continuation of Ireland’s shoddy women’s rights history. It’s just the same old same old. Think about this: we had self-identification in Ireland BEFORE we had abortion rights.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 572 ✭✭✭Errashareesh


    I have always been supportive of transgender people. I don't think it's just a mental illness (although I see why psychiatric assessment is part of the treatment, to rule it out, as gender reassignment treatment is very drastic and potentially traumatising). I think the high levels of depression and suicide in the community are linked to the loneliness and desperation people who are trans can experience. I have no issue with using the preferred pronouns, no issue with someone identifying as the opposite gender to the one they were born as. I recognise that trans people can experience horrendous abuse and hurt, and even just the experience of being trans in and of itself can cause terrible heartache and pain - emotionally, mentally and physically - and I know virtually nobody would inflict that on themselves just for attention, etc. Also I'm not going to pretend that I, a middle-class, white, heterosexual woman living in the west, have experienced anything like what trans people have experienced. I believe in compassion and empathy, and in every good person being able to live their life in peace and dignity. As long as you are not harming yourself or anyone else, be who you want to be, dress how you want to dress, love who you want to love.

    But that doesn't mean I have to agree with everything that members of the transgender community claim (and not all do) including pretending a fallacy is the truth. Nor does the lack of ticking absolutely every box mean I hate trans people and want them to experience hardship. This is the crazy narrative that's being put out there though - tick eight out of ten boxes in support? You hate trans people and want them to suffer - it's ten or nothing. In the past few months, I have become more familiar with the debate on Twitter, and I have been astounded, and absolutely appalled... and quite upset by it. I have seen women spoken to/of in a way that I thought was confined only to the grubbiest, grottiest corners of misogyny on the internet (the obsession with insulting middle-aged women - wtf? Can't that just be the preserve of incels?) And by so-called liberals and feminists. I decided just to close my Twitter because it wasn't good for me to be drip fed that kind of hatred. As for people losing their jobs because of saying biological sex is real? Only someone deluded would not see how frightening that is.

    I will not accept that trans women are women - the gleefully spiteful way some insist it's the case, what the hell is wrong with them? Trans women are trans women. If trans women are women, then I'm a trans woman - which of course I'm not, and I would never claim to be, because that would be a lie. Women have a vagina, clitoris, cervix, ovaries; women menstruate, gestate, give birth and breastfeed. The argument "What about women who don't do one or more of those things? Are they not women?" is terrible - and people who resort to it think they're so clever. Not all women have a cervix, ovaries, menstruate, gestate, give birth or breastfeed, but only women do. "What about those who have gone through the menopause or had a hysterectomy? Are they not women?" Duh, only women can go through the menopause or have a hysterectomy. The cheek of telling women that "woman" should be redefined. Tell that to a woman who has or has had ovarian cancer, cervical cancer (and the less than pleasant experience of the smear test - as someone once said to me: it's like your vagina is a tyre and it's getting jacked up :pac:), breast cancer (I know men and trans women can be diagnosed with breast cancer but the vast majority of breast cancer patients by miles are women - because of oestrogen), miscarriages, stillbirth, polycystic ovarian syndrome, gestational diabetes, endometriosis, becomes terribly ill - physically and psychologically - every month because of her period, a traumatic birth (there are women who have experienced the death in utero of the baby they were carrying, and had to deliver a dead baby), ectopic pregnancy, post natal depression, a terrible time breastfeeding, an awful menopausal experience. Physical sex is real (the fact I'm even saying that...) - claiming it's subjective is absolutely an Orwellian spin on language (and I don't use that term lightly). Ditto pretending the past of high profile trans women (like Caitlyn Jenner) never existed.

    Try saying trans women are women to the millions of women outside the western world who are brutalised for being women, who endure FGM and banishment to the "menstrual hut". Respect should be a two-way street - I don't claim that the global demographic which I'm part of knows what it's like to be transgender and the awful experiences that can go with this. If you were born with male genitalia but now identify as female, I respect that - I see you as female too. But you are not a woman. You are a trans woman.

    And "cis"? Give me a break. As someone said on Twitter, it's like a cross between "cyst" and "piss". I am a woman. Not a cis woman - a woman. All this obtuse "define woman" stuff - insulting, disingenuous tripe.

    If what I'm saying is hurtful to trans people, I mean... I'm not trying to hurt - but I refuse to deny reality. There are realities for all of us which are uncomfortable. I acknowledge that the defensiveness (not the abuse) from trans people is somewhat understandable (I wasn't a fan of Graham Linehan's tweets - he could be very nasty and hurtful to trans people) but abuse from non trans people? Pitiful - all about optics and looking "right on". Absolute bandwagon jumping. To see women - feminists - call JK Rowling (to claim what she said is transphobic is utterly bizarre) and other women who share her views "TERF cunnts" (even in contexts which have nothing to do with trans rights) is utterly depressing. No thought involved whatsoever.

    Now I do agree that there are unscrupulous types hijacking this debate who are genuinely transphobic and who previously couldn't give a fiddler's about women. I have also seen some feminists say awful things about trans women - again, clear transphobia. But I won't let their muddying of the waters sway me when it comes to the objective reality of biological sex. And from what I've seen, the majority of the abuse is from the other direction.

    As for women's/girls' spaces being abused? It's not trans women I'm concerned about at all - it's a minority of men, who aren't actually trans women, exploiting self ID.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,909 ✭✭✭CtevenSrowder


    I have always been supportive of transgender people. I don't think it's just a mental illness (although I see why psychiatric assessment is part of the treatment, to rule it out, as gender reassignment treatment is very drastic and potentially traumatising). I think the high levels of depression and suicide in the community are linked to the loneliness and desperation people who are trans can experience. I have no issue with using the preferred pronouns, no issue with someone identifying as the opposite gender to the one they were born as. I recognise that trans people can experience horrendous abuse and hurt, and even just the experience of being trans in and of itself can cause terrible heartache and pain - emotionally, mentally and physically - and I know virtually nobody would inflict that on themselves just for attention, etc. Also I'm not going to pretend that I, a middle-class, white, heterosexual woman living in the west, have experienced anything like what trans people have experienced. I believe in compassion and empathy, and in every good person being able to live their life in peace and dignity. As long as you are not harming anyone else, be who you want to be, dress how you want to dress, love who you want to love.

    But that doesn't mean I have to agree with everything that members of the transgender community claim (and not all do) including pretending a fallacy is the truth. Nor does the lack of ticking absolutely every box mean I hate trans people and want them to experience hardship. This is the crazy narrative that's being put out there though - tick eight out of ten boxes in support? You hate trans people and want them to suffer - it's ten or nothing. In the past few months, I have become more familiar with the debate on Twitter, and I have been astounded, and absolutely appalled... and quite upset by it. I have seen women spoken to/of in a way that I thought was confined only to the grubbiest, grottiest corners of misogyny on the internet (the obsession with insulting middle-aged women - wtf? Can't that just be the preserve of incels?) And by so-called liberals and feminists. I decided just to close my Twitter because it wasn't good for me to be drip fed that kind of hatred. As for people losing their jobs because of saying biological sex is real? Only someone deluded would not see how frightening that is.

    I will not accept that trans women are women - the gleefully spiteful way some insist it's the case, what the hell is wrong with them? Trans women are trans women. If trans women are women, then I'm a trans woman - which of course I'm not, and I would never claim to be, because that would be a lie. Women have a vagina, clitoris, cervix, ovaries; women menstruate, gestate, give birth and breastfeed. The argument "What about women who don't do one or more of those things? Are they not women?" is terrible - and people who resort to it think they're so clever. Not all women have a cervix, ovaries, menstruate, gestate, give birth or breastfeed, but only women do...

    Ye that's great. But transwoman fit into the examplars of women, transphobe.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    I have always been supportive of transgender people. I don't think it's just a mental illness (although I see why psychiatric assessment is part of the treatment, to rule it out, as gender reassignment treatment is very drastic and potentially traumatising). I think the high levels of depression and suicide in the community are linked to the loneliness and desperation people who are trans can experience. I have no issue with using the preferred pronouns, no issue with someone identifying as the opposite gender to the one they were born as. I recognise that trans people can experience horrendous abuse and hurt, and even just the experience of being trans in and of itself can cause terrible heartache and pain - emotionally, mentally and physically - and I know virtually nobody would inflict that on themselves just for attention, etc. Also I'm not going to pretend that I, a middle-class, white, heterosexual woman living in the west, have experienced anything like what trans people have experienced. I believe in compassion and empathy, and in every good person being able to live their life in peace and dignity. As long as you are not harming anyone else, be who you want to be, dress how you want to dress, love who you want to love.

    But that doesn't mean I have to agree with everything that members of the transgender community claim (and not all do) including pretending a fallacy is the truth. Nor does the lack of ticking absolutely every box mean I hate trans people and want them to experience hardship. This is the crazy narrative that's being put out there though - tick eight out of ten boxes in support? You hate trans people and want them to suffer - it's ten or nothing. In the past few months, I have become more familiar with the debate on Twitter, and I have been astounded, and absolutely appalled... and quite upset by it. I have seen women spoken to/of in a way that I thought was confined only to the grubbiest, grottiest corners of misogyny on the internet (the obsession with insulting middle-aged women - wtf? Can't that just be the preserve of incels?) And by so-called liberals and feminists. I decided just to close my Twitter because it wasn't good for me to be drip fed that kind of hatred. As for people losing their jobs because of saying biological sex is real? Only someone deluded would not see how frightening that is.

    I will not accept that trans women are women - the gleefully spiteful way some insist it's the case, what the hell is wrong with them? Trans women are trans women. If trans women are women, then I'm a trans woman - which of course I'm not, and I would never claim to be, because that would be a lie. Women have a vagina, clitoris, cervix, ovaries; women menstruate, gestate, give birth and breastfeed. The argument "What about women who don't do one or more of those things? Are they not women?" is terrible - and people who resort to it think they're so clever. Not all women have a cervix, ovaries, menstruate, gestate, give birth or breastfeed, but only women do. "What about those who have gone through the menopause or had a hysterectomy? Are they not women?" Duh, only women can go through the menopause or have a hysterectomy. The cheek of telling women that "woman" should be redefined. Tell that to a woman who has or has had ovarian cancer, cervical cancer (and the less than pleasant experience of the smear test - as someone once said to me: it's like your vagina is a tyre and it's getting jacked up :pac:), breast cancer (I know men and trans women can be diagnosed with breast cancer but the vast majority of breast cancer patients by miles are women - because of oestrogen), miscarriages, stillbirth, polycystic ovarian syndrome, gestational diabetes, endometriosis, becomes terribly ill - physically and psychologically - every month because of her period, a traumatic birth (there are women who have experienced the death in utero of the baby they were carrying, and had to deliver a dead baby), ectopic pregnancy, post natal depression, a terrible time breastfeeding, an awful menopausal experience. Physical sex is real (the fact I'm even saying that...) - claiming it's subjective is absolutely an Orwellian spin on language (and I don't use that term lightly). Ditto pretending the past of high profile trans women (like Caitlyn Jenner) never existed.

    Try saying trans women are women to the millions of women outside the western world who are brutalised for being women, who endure FGM and banishment to the "menstrual hut". Respect should be a two-way street - I don't claim that the global demographic which I'm part of knows what it's like to be transgender and the awful experiences that can go with this. If you were born with male genitalia but now identify as female, I respect that - I see you as female too. But you are not a woman. You are a trans woman.

    And "cis"? Give me a break. As someone said on Twitter, it's like a cross between "cyst" and "piss". I am a woman. Not a cis woman - a woman. All this obtuse "define woman" stuff - insulting, disingenuous tripe.

    If what I'm saying is hurtful to trans people, I mean... I'm not trying to hurt - but I refuse to deny reality. There are realities for all of us which are uncomfortable. I acknowledge that the defensiveness (not the abuse) from trans people is somewhat understandable (I wasn't a fan of Graham Linehan's tweets - he could be very nasty and hurtful to trans people) but abuse from non trans people? Pitiful - all about optics and looking "right on". Absolute bandwagon jumping. To see women - feminists - call JK Rowling (to claim what she said is transphobic is utterly bizarre) and other women who share her views "TERF cunnts" (even in contexts which have nothing to do with trans rights) is utterly depressing. No thought involved whatsoever.

    Now I do agree that there are unscrupulous types hijacking this debate who are genuinely transphobic and who previously couldn't give a fiddler's about women. I have also seen some feminists say awful things about trans women - again, clear transphobia. But I won't let their muddying of the waters sway me when it comes to the objective reality of biological sex. And from what I've seen, the majority of the abuse is from the other direction.

    As for women's/girls' spaces being abused? It's not trans women I'm concerned about at all - it's a minority of men, who aren't actually trans women, exploiting self ID.

    OMG TRANSPHOBE.

    Agree with everything you say except the bolded bit. Female is the one thing that cannot be identified into. Or male. That’s biological sex, not gender.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    I wish people got as animated about the housing crisis as they do about trans issues.


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