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  • 10-08-2019 1:53pm
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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭


    Hope it’s ok to post this here.

    I’m circumcised and I met a pretty good guy the other night, we played around and eventually when we got down to business I found it a bit difficult to top him.
    I was circumcised as a child for medical reasons and I’ve convinced myself it’s affecting me having sex. I got hard no problem and penetrated his anus just as easy but I didn’t ejaculate after several minutes of action.

    So my question is have any tops experienced issues ejaculating or was it more just pressure to perform in the heat of the moment?


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    IAMAMORON
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    [Mod Note:] Helpful comments only please.


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    Heebie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Heebie


    "a few minutes" and you didn't climax yet?
    Be thankful for that, the guys you top certainly will be! A one-minute-wonder top isn't much use.

    but seriously, yes many circumcised guys experience problems getting enough stimulation due to the combination of millions of amputated nerve endings that went with the prepuce, and the thick, leathery state of the skin of their glans due to it having to do the prepuce's job. Many have difficulty getting or keeping an erection, especially with the additional diminishment of sensation that wearing a condom adds.
    Anyone who's really suited to bottoming isn't going to to mind at all if it takes you a long time to climax.. they're going to enjoy it.
    It can be frustrating if you're the circumcised top and you really want to get off.


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    hasdanta
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭hasdanta


    I'm uncircumcised and can never ejaculate from penetration alone, so I doubt its due to you being circumcised. Some guys can ejaculate from penetration alone, and others cant. It's normal!


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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    Heebie wrote: »
    "a few minutes" and you didn't climax yet?
    Be thankful for that, the guys you top certainly will be! A one-minute-wonder top isn't much use.

    but seriously, yes many circumcised guys experience problems getting enough stimulation due to the combination of millions of amputated nerve endings that went with the prepuce, and the thick, leathery state of the skin of their glans due to it having to do the prepuce's job. Many have difficulty getting or keeping an erection, especially with the additional diminishment of sensation that wearing a condom adds.
    Anyone who's really suited to bottoming isn't going to to mind at all if it takes you a long time to climax.. they're going to enjoy it.
    It can be frustrating if you're the circumcised top and you really want to get off.
    I never thought of it that way, but your right. It’s going to be more pleasurable for him the longer it takes me. I’m aware of the dangers of anal sex without a condom but I can’t feel anything with one on.
    hasdanta wrote: »
    I'm uncircumcised and can never ejaculate from penetration alone, so I doubt its due to you being circumcised. Some guys can ejaculate from penetration alone, and others cant. It's normal!
    So you don’t ejaculate from sex at all?

    On a side note would refraining from self pleasure for a time beforehand help things at all?


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    Locker10a
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    Could it be Death Grip?


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    Ten of Swords
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    Gael23 wrote: »
    I met a pretty good guy the other night
    Gael23 wrote: »
    I’m aware of the dangers of anal sex without a condom but I can’t feel anything with one on.

    Honestly, I'd be a little concerned about this.

    Re your issue, is this your first time topping someone?

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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    Ten of Swords wrote: »
    Re your issue, is this your first time topping someone?
    No its not but I don't do it often either.


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    nthclare
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    Luckily the moderator said helpful comments please, because I was going to mention that good old a bit of vaseline and sand, the rougher the better lol

    But it's not what the op is looking for I'm sure....


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    hasdanta
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭hasdanta


    Gael23 wrote: »
    So you don’t ejaculate from sex at all?

    I do, just not from penetrating a guy.


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    thenumber3
    Registered Users Posts: 47 ✭thenumber3


    Have you tried it with poppers?


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    Locker10a
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 4,142 Mod ✭✭✭✭Locker10a


    I think there’s a wider issue here that’s not spoken about among men with masturbation and death grip causing loss of sensitivity.
    Many millions of men are circumcised, it shouldn’t be that much of a barrier to ejaculation during penetration


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    Annasopra
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    nthclare wrote: »
    Luckily the moderator said helpful comments please, because I was going to mention that good old a bit of vaseline and sand, the rougher the better lol

    But it's not what the op is looking for I'm sure....
    Definitely not...

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

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    argentum
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    I was circumcised at the age of 50 and it makes a huge difference.I find it really hard to cum unless its oral to be honest.Its like there's feck all sensation left to get me over the edge


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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    When solo I can cum if I use loads of lube but it’s difficult with a guy.


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    imme
    Registered Users Posts: 3,200 ✭✭✭imme


    Gael23 wrote: »
    When solo I can cum if I use loads of lube but it’s difficult with a guy.

    Oh right, thanks for that.

    Seriously though, have you thought about your GP.


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    Locker10a
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    https://apple.news/A8TleCXA4QS68N4VnpuRCUg


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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    imme wrote: »
    Oh right, thanks for that.

    Seriously though, have you thought about your GP.

    What could my GP do?


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    Heebie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Heebie


    Gael23 wrote: »
    What could my GP do?


    prescribe viagra, cialis, levitra, caverject... so you can get an erection for hours and hopefully stay psychologically excited long enough to have an orgasm? Doesn't everyone to be turgid for 4 hours plus?


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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    Heebie wrote: »
    prescribe viagra, cialis, levitra, caverject... so you can get an erection for hours and hopefully stay psychologically excited long enough to have an orgasm? Doesn't everyone to be turgid for 4 hours plus?

    I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?


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    Heebie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Heebie


    Gael23 wrote: »
    I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?


    I would doubt it. I was hoping for more comedic effect with my last post on this thread.


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    Locker10a
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    Gael23 wrote: »
    I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?

    Can you ejaculate from masturbation ? If so have you read up about death grip and and loosing sensitivity from masturbating? And the measures you can take to reverse this ?


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    bikeman1
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    Hi Gael,

    I tried sending a PM with some advice, but your inbox is full!


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    boetstark
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    Mod Note - if you have a problem with any post use the report function, do not comment on mod actions in thread either, take it to PM if you wish


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    geronimo123
    Registered Users Posts: 12 ✭geronimo123


    I got snipped after I was born - routine circumcision was practised by the paediatrician at the hospital in Co. Galway where I was born in 1974 - you need lube and lots of it when you're performing with someone else.


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    Gael23
    Registered Users Posts: 12,086 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    geronimo123 wrote: »
    I got snipped after I was born - routine circumcision was practised by the paediatrician at the hospital in Co. Galway where I was born in 1974 - you need lube and lots of it when you're performing with someone else.

    What if your wearing a condom? Do you put lube on that or directly on your penis


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    L1011
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    Both


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    Heebie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Heebie


    Gael23 wrote:
    I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?


    They'd only help you stay hard longer. You'd still have to find ways to either physically or psychologically, get enough stimulation to get you over there edge.


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