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  • 29-07-2020 8:12pm
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    I have been wanting to get a puppy for my whole life and finally I have a house with a garden. I have wanted this particular breed for over twenty years(I was around 11 when I first met a dog of this breed and started asking my parents for one) and have bought every book over the years to learn about them. The whole reason I bought this particular house was because of the size of the garden and close proximity to work would suit a dog.

    I researched good breeders who do health testing and contacted one. I gave an outline of myself and my routine. I work from 8.30 - 3.30 4 days a week and 8.30 - 1 on the other day. I am a teacher so would be off during the summer. I said that I live 5 minutes from work and can come home during a break to let the dog out. The breeder got back to me and said my working hours are too long.

    To say I am disappointed is an understatement. There is no point in contacting another breeder if my routine is not suitable for a dog.

    What does everyone else do? Do good breeders only allow unemployed people to buy puppies?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,223 ✭✭✭jellybear


    Doggy day care and pet sitters/walkers who call in during your work hours are very popular. You could also see if any relative, friend or neighbour might be interested in doing this.


  • Registered Users Posts: 23,259 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    Do you want a puppy or a dog, because puppies only lasts few months. Then you have a dog for the next 15+ years


  • Registered Users Posts: 43,024 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Energetic bored dogs and nice gardens don't mix


  • Registered Users Posts: 11 emmamav


    ted1 wrote: »
    Do you want a puppy or a dog, because puppies only lasts few months. Then you have a dog for the next 15+ years

    I understand the concept of ageing, thanks :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 11 emmamav


    Energetic bored dogs and nice gardens don't mix

    How do people that work have dogs? My hours are shorter than most.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,274 ✭✭✭cocker5


    emmamav wrote: »
    How do people that work have dogs? My hours are shorter than most.

    As posted above... many use services such as doggie day care, dog walkers etc..

    Getting a puppy and leaving them all alone for long periods isn’t ideal and will lead to destruction


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,274 ✭✭✭cocker5


    emmamav wrote: »
    I have been wanting to get a puppy for my whole life and finally I have a house with a garden. I have wanted this particular breed for over twenty years(I was around 11 when I first met a dog of this breed and started asking my parents for one) and have bought every book over the years to learn about them. The whole reason I bought this particular house was because of the size of the garden and close proximity to work would suit a dog.

    I researched good breeders who do health testing and contacted one. I gave an outline of myself and my routine. I work from 8.30 - 3.30 4 days a week and 8.30 - 1 on the other day. I am a teacher so would be off during the summer. I said that I live 5 minutes from work and can come home during a break to let the dog out. The breeder got back to me and said my working hours are too long.

    To say I am disappointed is an understatement. There is no point in contacting another breeder if my routine is not suitable for a dog.

    What does everyone else do? Do good breeders only allow unemployed people to buy puppies?

    Just wanted to say I’m glad the breeder came back and said no ... sounds like a responsible breeder who cares and wants the best life for the pups .. but that’s just me!


  • Registered Users Posts: 64,762 ✭✭✭✭unkel


    @emmamav - welcome to boards :)

    You sound like a responsible person and it is fine to leave dogs, even puppies, on their own for a few hours. Dogs will just sleep for most of that, they sleep for at least several hours more per day than humans.

    Go home for lunch yourself on those 4 longer days and plan to have someone (yourself / neighbour / dog sitter) come in for a few minutes every morning mid morning, at least for a few months and take it from there

    Pity you didn't decide a few months ago when you got off school because of COVID. Your puppy would have been nearly adult by the time you are back in work!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭deadlybuzzman


    I've worked much longer hours and just used doggy day care. It solved 2 problems in 1 go, the dog got both exercised and more importantly socialised.


  • Registered Users Posts: 11 emmamav


    cocker5 wrote: »
    Just wanted to say I’m glad the breeder came back and said no ... sounds like a responsible breeder who cares and wants the best life for the pups .. but that’s just me!

    Yes, that's why I want to get a dog from a breeder that cares. I was just very disappointed initially. I have never had a dog and read that they shouldn't be left alone for more than 4 hours, so I felt that coming home during the day would have been enough, but clearly not.
    unkel wrote: »
    @emmamav - welcome to boards :)

    You sound like a responsible person and it is fine to leave dogs, even puppies, on their own for a few hours. Dogs will just sleep for most of that, they sleep for at least several hours more per day than humans.

    Go home for lunch yourself on those 4 longer days and plan to have someone (yourself / neighbour / dog sitter) come in for a few minutes every morning mid morning, at least for a few months and take it from there

    Pity you didn't decide a few months ago when you got off school because of COVID. Your puppy would have been nearly adult by the time you are back in work!

    I know, it would have been good as I had been working from home for so long but I think any good breeder has a waiting list of 1+ years anyway!
    I've worked much longer hours and just used doggy day care. It solved 2 problems in 1 go, the dog got both exercised and more importantly socialised.

    Thank you and to the others that suggested dog daycare. I didn't think there was any near me, but one opened last year!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,274 ✭✭✭cocker5


    emmamav wrote: »
    Yes, that's why I want to get a dog from a breeder that cares. I was just very disappointed initially. I have never had a dog and read that they shouldn't be left alone for more than 4 hours, so I felt that coming home during the day would have been enough, but clearly not.



    I know, it would have been good as I had been working from home for so long but I think any good breeder has a waiting list of 1+ years anyway!



    Thank you and to the others that suggested dog daycare. I didn't think there was any near me, but one opened last year!

    With the right things in place of course it’s possible to have a puppy / dog

    We lost our cocker last year after 14 years and decided to rescue in January.. from the outset I told the rescue we both work full time but we would be using doggie day care etc and we were experienced spaniel dog owners .. do lots of hiking each day and at the weekends so Suit the dog we applied for .. they were fine about it!

    Next breeder u contact explain you’ll be using doggie care day and coming home at lunchtime and hopefully they are ok with this. Also maybe ask a relative to pop in one / two dats per week (again explain to breeder)

    With some work and organising there’s a happy medium and it can be done!

    Best of luck


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 9,726 Mod ✭✭✭✭DBB


    I wouldn't fall out with you over your working hours op :o Especially if you could nip home for a little while on the longer days, and if you could possibly time the arrival of pup at the start of the summer hols... I see no reason why it's not entirely do-able. Is the breed you're looking for one of the rarer ones that it's hard to find a reputable breeder? I hope not :o
    One thing I will say, and I may be shot down in flames for this, but I am not a fan of big doggy daycares. I think that most dogs in the bigger daycares are experiencing some level of stress while they're there. It takes a certain kind of dog to actively enjoy the atmosphere, and I feel that dogs can learn quite bad habits in them too.
    Give me either a small daycare, or a dog walker any day of the week!


  • Registered Users Posts: 223 ✭✭pinktoe


    Maybe the breeder is more concerned with you becoming a first time dog owner, possibly bad past experiences. Would the dog be high maintenance?
    DBB wrote: »
    One thing I will say, and I may be shot down in flames for this, but I am not a fan of big doggy daycares. I think that most dogs in the bigger daycares are experiencing some level of stress while they're there. It takes a certain kind of dog to actively enjoy the atmosphere, and I feel that dogs can learn quite bad habits in them too.
    Give me either a small daycare, or a dog walker any day of the week!

    I completely agree with you.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,277 ✭✭✭aonb


    I think its very positive that the breeder wants such a good home/environment for their puppies to go to. Dont be put off/take it personally OP - I would give the breeder a call back - tell them that you are impressed with their attitude - and what can you do that would help them change their mind about your taking one of their puppies...
    I agree you should consider waiting until next year, when you will have a long summer holiday to get your puppy - you need to bond and train your dog, so you are in an excellent position with the summer off to do that.
    If you are close by, and can commit to going home every day at lunchtime to take your dog out for a little trot, and have lunch at home with him/her that would be a big commitment, but should also make all the difference
    Maybe you have a neighbour or a friend close by who can fill the gaps, and might let your dog out for a few minutes during the day if you cant get home?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,579 ✭✭✭charlietheminxx


    What kind of dog were you looking for? Some breeds need of companionship than others, is this perhaps a breed specific thing?

    I adopted a dog from a rescue last year, we both work full time but I come home at lunch. It wasn't a problem for the rescue as the dog would never be alone for more than a 4 hour stretch and we found a dog who is suited to that, but I know there are some dogs who would be so distressed that they'd completely rip a house apart if they were left alone that long. I'd imagine reputable breeders would be trying to make the same judgement call based on what the know of the dog's temperment.


  • Registered Users Posts: 728 ✭✭✭bertiebomber


    The best solution is actually to get 2 dogs they play together keep each other company and then there is no pining for you or misery. I have 3 and work 40 hours but like you i come home for lunch and they get 45 mins outside. 2 dogs are easier than 1 believe me no body seems to get this but its soo true.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,170 ✭✭✭sillysmiles


    . 2 dogs are easier than 1 believe me no body seems to get this but its soo true.


    2 dogs may be easier than one, but it is not recommended to get two pups together.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 9,726 Mod ✭✭✭✭DBB


    Having 2 dogs is, in many respects, easier than one. But, there are disadvantages to it too. You need twice the stuff, at least twice the training effort, you need twice the moolah for walkers, daycare, routine vet fees, food, toys, equipment etc. Depending on their size, you may need a bigger car. Realistically it is harder to get two minded if you're going away. Twice the hair if they're moulters, twice the muddy footprints and tail wall art. As already stated, if the suggestion is to get a pair of littermates, unless you've a lot of training and dog-management experience, can go quite wrong on you... although there is a bit of leeway depending on breed and individual temperament too.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,080 ✭✭✭MissShihTzu


    emmamav wrote: »
    How do people that work have dogs? My hours are shorter than most.

    We used a doggy day care for ours. €60 a week if I worked all week. Worth every penny, as our boy got lots of attention, doggy friends to play with, and the owner loved him. He also used to board him if we had to go away. Get recommendations from the folks on here.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,080 ✭✭✭MissShihTzu


    DBB wrote: »
    Having 2 dogs is, in many respects, easier than one. But, there are disadvantages to it too. You need twice the stuff, at least twice the training effort, you need twice the moolah for walkers, daycare, routine vet fees, food, toys, equipment etc. Depending on their size, you may need a bigger car. Realistically it is harder to get two minded if you're going away. Twice the hair if they're moulters, twice the muddy footprints and tail wall art. As already stated, if the suggestion is to get a pair of littermates, unless you've a lot of training and dog-management experience, can go quite wrong on you... although there is a bit of leeway depending on breed and individual temperament too.

    Sorry to take this off-topic a little, but I found your answer interesting DBB, and wanted to comment further.
    We had a Shih Tzu which we sadly lost at the start of lockdown. I've commented on threads on here many times before under my old username ABajaninCork. We're planning to get 2 Shih Tzu and are on wait lists with IKC breeders here, but do not plan to get littermates as they would be much harder to train. I'm WFH for the foreseeable, so hopefully, we will be able to train the new friends at home. I have a doggy day care lined up, and training sorted. My plan is once they are toilet and puppy trained, then send them to the day care once a week to get them used to it if I have to return to the office.
    What do you think? :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,036 ✭✭✭MFPM


    emmamav wrote: »
    I have been wanting to get a puppy for my whole life and finally I have a house with a garden. I have wanted this particular breed for over twenty years(I was around 11 when I first met a dog of this breed and started asking my parents for one) and have bought every book over the years to learn about them. The whole reason I bought this particular house was because of the size of the garden and close proximity to work would suit a dog.

    I researched good breeders who do health testing and contacted one. I gave an outline of myself and my routine. I work from 8.30 - 3.30 4 days a week and 8.30 - 1 on the other day. I am a teacher so would be off during the summer. I said that I live 5 minutes from work and can come home during a break to let the dog out. The breeder got back to me and said my working hours are too long.

    To say I am disappointed is an understatement. There is no point in contacting another breeder if my routine is not suitable for a dog.

    What does everyone else do? Do good breeders only allow unemployed people to buy puppies?

    I'm sure it's disappointing for you but it's great that a breeder is taking such an interest in where the dogs will be homed, if more did that we wouldn't have so many stories of cruelty and neglect (I'm not suggesting for a moment you wouldn't care for your dog).

    There are also many people who work from home and people involved in caring responsibilities who would be home a lot so no I dare say they don't only sell to the 'unemployed'.

    As others have said - a dog sitter/walker would be your way around this issue.


  • Registered Users Posts: 11 emmamav


    Hi, thank you for all the replies.

    I don't want to be too specific about the breed as there seems to be few good breeders of this breed in Ireland. I don't want to completely burn my bridges if the breeder sees this thread and might take offence. But, the breed is small and not one that I have heard of not being recommended for first time owners. They are very popular in mixed dogs at the moment and any I have come across in recent years have been mixed breed versions. Many of my friends have cross breeds with this breed being one of the parents. It would be much easier to get a mixed variety as there seems to be so many around, but I have my heart set on a well bred pure breed from a very good breeder that does all the necessary testing.

    I don't want to get two dogs as I would want to take the dog out with me anytime possible (like eating outside at a restaurant etc.) and feel it would be easier with one.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 9,726 Mod ✭✭✭✭DBB


    Nice to know you're still about!:)
    On the not getting littermates thing, and maybe I'm picking you up wrong, but if you want to avoid so-called "littermate syndrome", then you need to avoid getting any two pups at the same time, even if they're not related. A bit of an age gap, or time one spends with you before the second pup arrives, is what to aim for. Perhaps this is what you meant?
    As for daycare, I'm not a fan of places that have lots of dogs. I think they're quite stressful for many dogs, and I feel that there's a large subset of dogs that, no matter how much socialising you do with them, just don't enjoy being in big crowds of other dogs, particularly if their owner isn't with them. It's a temperament thing, and we can't do much to change that. It's perfectly understandable really, there are lots of humans the same!
    No matter how careful they are, big daycares are noisy and distracting. I'm not a fan of how "down time" is practised in them (I don't feel it's really quality "down time" for most dogs at all), and I've just seen too many dogs pick up too many bad habits from having too many inappropriate interactions or experiences in the larger daycare setting. Some daycares are careful to do this already, but any that allow small dogs (and puppies) to mix freely and in a free-for-all way with big dogs are, in my opinion, an absolute non-runner.
    I would prefer, if possible, to get pups into good puppy socialisation classes, graduating on to basic obedience classes, as these are great opportunities for controlled and safe access to other dogs.
    In the absence of a smaller daycare, I would opt for a good dog walker who brings small groups of dogs out for group walks in safe places for days I'm not going to be home

    Sorry to take this off-topic a little, but I found your answer interesting DBB, and wanted to comment further.
    We had a Shih Tzu which we sadly lost at the start of lockdown. I've commented on threads on here many times before under my old username ABajaninCork. We're planning to get 2 Shih Tzu and are on wait lists with IKC breeders here, but do not plan to get littermates as they would be much harder to train. I'm WFH for the foreseeable, so hopefully, we will be able to train the new friends at home. I have a doggy day care lined up, and training sorted. My plan is once they are toilet and puppy trained, then send them to the day care once a week to get them used to it if I have to return to the office.
    What do you think? :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 36 ToTheSea


    Plenty of dogs and puppies in rescues centres around the country that would only love their forever home.

    Would you not consider this rather than handing over a few hundred quid to a breeder?

    I got a 7-week old puppy from a rescue when I was a child. Ended up having him for 16 years and he absolutely made my childhood. Don't totally discount a rescue dog in favour of a pure breed, visit your local rescue centre, you never know you might totally fall for one of its residents and want to give them a home.


  • Registered Users Posts: 11 emmamav


    ToTheSea wrote: »
    Plenty of dogs and puppies in rescues centres around the country that would only love their forever home.

    Would you not consider this rather than handing over a few hundred quid to a breeder?

    I got a 7-week old puppy from a rescue when I was a child. Ended up having him for 16 years and he absolutely made my childhood. Don't totally discount a rescue dog in favour of a pure breed, visit your local rescue centre, you never know you might totally fall for one of its residents and want to give them a home.

    I do want a specific breed as it suits my needs.

    I looked at my local rescue website in the past and they state that someone must be at home most of the day..so it's the same issue.


  • Registered Users Posts: 14,020 ✭✭✭✭tk123


    OP would you maybe suss out a local dog walker and see if you can arrange something in advance pending you getting the pup.. Then get back to the breeder to show you’re serious and have organised something?

    I’m waiting for a pup atm too!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,080 ✭✭✭MissShihTzu


    ToTheSea wrote: »
    Plenty of dogs and puppies in rescues centres around the country that would only love their forever home.

    Would you not consider this rather than handing over a few hundred quid to a breeder?

    I got a 7-week old puppy from a rescue when I was a child. Ended up having him for 16 years and he absolutely made my childhood. Don't totally discount a rescue dog in favour of a pure breed, visit your local rescue centre, you never know you might totally fall for one of its residents and want to give them a home.


    No.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,954 ✭✭✭mp3guy


    There's day time care but also night time, young pups will need to be let out to go toilet in the middle of the night for a while. So if you're living alone you'll be wrecked, they're like babies except mobile with no nappies and you can't really take them everywhere. And depending on the pup they'll chew everything to bits if unsupervised.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,080 ✭✭✭MissShihTzu


    DBB wrote: »
    Nice to know you're still about!:)
    On the not getting littermates thing, and maybe I'm picking you up wrong, but if you want to avoid so-called "littermate syndrome", then you need to avoid getting any two pups at the same time, even if they're not related. A bit of an age gap, or time one spends with you before the second pup arrives, is what to aim for. Perhaps this is what you meant?


    Yes - that's exactly what we're aiming for :)

    DBB wrote: »
    As for daycare, I'm not a fan of places that have lots of dogs. I think they're quite stressful for many dogs, and I feel that there's a large subset of dogs that, no matter how much socialising you do with them, just don't enjoy being in big crowds of other dogs, particularly if their owner isn't with them. It's a temperament thing, and we can't do much to change that. It's perfectly understandable really, there are lots of humans the same!
    No matter how careful they are, big daycares are noisy and distracting. I'm not a fan of how "down time" is practised in them (I don't feel it's really quality "down time" for most dogs at all), and I've just seen too many dogs pick up too many bad habits from having too many inappropriate interactions or experiences in the larger daycare setting. Some daycares are careful to do this already, but any that allow small dogs (and puppies) to mix freely and in a free-for-all way with big dogs are, in my opinion, an absolute non-runner.
    Yes - the daycare our boy went to before is small and very reliable. We've been burned a few times by flaky dog-walkers and one well-known company in particular that just took our money and did nothing for it. The daycare owner also boards and was also very good with our boy. He has indicated he would be more than happy to take on our friends when we get them, and we're very comfortable with him.

    DBB wrote: »
    I would prefer, if possible, to get pups into good puppy socialisation classes, graduating on to basic obedience classes, as these are great opportunities for controlled and safe access to other dogs.
    In the absence of a smaller daycare, I would opt for a good dog walker who brings small groups of dogs out for group walks in safe places for days I'm not going to be home


    I agree, and don't really like the 'training classes' as such. We much prefer the socialisation and training through play approach which worked well for our boy, and wanted the same for the new ones. Creedon's in Cork offer this as well as 4Paws in Douglas, so will go with either one of those when the time comes.


    Thank you for your help and comments :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 36 ToTheSea


    emmamav wrote: »
    I do want a specific breed as it suits my needs.

    I looked at my local rescue website in the past and they state that someone must be at home most of the day..so it's the same issue.

    If you look around a bit there is probably a chance that you could breed you want in a rescue centre. Not all rescue centres would have the same policy
    No.

    and what exactly is wrong with a rescue dog?

    its attitudes like that, that has the rescues centres full.


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