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22-08-2020, 23:40   #1
 
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I'm sorry.

Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
So schoolpal I'm sorry.
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23-08-2020, 00:17   #3
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Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
So schoolpal I'm sorry.
I kind of feel sorry for you
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23-08-2020, 00:21   #4
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I'd prefer if they ever said it to me tbh.
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I'm sorry I ever met you
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23-08-2020, 00:27   #7
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I’m sorry to the singers I couldn’t sit through at open mic sessions years ago. I just had to walk out. Sorry.
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Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
So schoolpal I'm sorry.
An easy get out for yourself because you were a bully in school and probably still are. Few drinks now making you think about your behaviour. You aren't sorry. You are trying to justify your horrible behaviour which I have no doubt is still the same today
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I'm sorry God for not loving you,
For saying things that were untrue,
For being unkind and calling names,
For not letting others play in my games.

A first confession hymn I remember.
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An easy get out for yourself because you were a bully in school and probably still are. Few drinks now making you think about your behaviour. You aren't sorry. You are trying to justify your horrible behaviour which I have no doubt is still the same today
I was wrong in the fact that I thought only children could be mean. You have carried it through to adulthood.
I dont drink and I am not justifying anything to anyone.
As a male who now identifies as female I have had my fair share of bullying over the years. And to be honest its your comments that are coming across as horrible not mine as a 9/10 year old.
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Even a small child knows when they are being nasty or a bully. I remember being wholly conscious as a child and having emotional awareness around activities*. Those who are nasty can vibe with it unless they have psychopathy. They choose it regardless.

Sorry is a very light weight word. People seem to imagine it has the power to change what was done and the consequences of what was done. A child bullied at school for example might go on to have life long depression or addiction problems or never achieve their potential as a human being. Sorry is a bit of a trinket to throw at that tragedy, isn't it. Or many others. Betrayal of a loved one. Carelessness. Selfishness.
Sorry is not a kiss it better magical spell. What is done is done.

*PS I was not bullied but was aware when it was done.
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100% sure this was a Mr_Fegelian thread
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I’m sorry to my parents for embarrassing them and not living up to expectations, this eats away at me every day
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I’m sorry to my parents for embarrassing them and not living up to expectations, this eats away at me every day
"I am not in the world to live up to your expectations." - Bruce Lee

Be cool like Bruce Lee, White Jesus. Anyone elses expectations of you are their own neurosis.
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