They did have a choice - between having an abortion abroad and seeing their pregnancies through. If they'd done the latter then they wouldn't have had to have their deceased children's ashes "shipped" home - they wouldn't have had to have the remains cremated at all.
Have a bit of compassion, for goodness sake.
No one should have to carry that burden unless they choose to, and find comfort from it, as Vicky did.
In any other civilized country a choice would be given and BOTH women’s decisions would be respected. Both would be looked after.
Thankfully no other woman will ever have to go through that trauma again, and not a moment too soon.