Originally Posted by knucklehead6
I almost wish you were here for the AMA with the escort.
If she’s happy with herself, and with doing what she does then all power to her.
How many of us are 9-5 drones, not particularly happy?
If you feel i am judgemental ..that's fine ....that is your judgement of me. Fair enough.
I am not saying I wish the scenario could exist where they could only have single clients didn't exist?
Is she happy though? Are we happy? no of course not ..for similar reasons to why some women doing this are not. We all shut ourselves down to what we need to do.
Is the answer to just shut off empathy for others all the time? Is the answer to feel less?
I am not hurting anyone though.
I’ve seen some high horsey judgemental crap on this website, but congratulations. You have just reset the bar for it.
No..i said if i had a daughter who was only servicing single men and was safe i would have no issue with it. That's very non judgemental.
But if i had a husband ...and he was going to an escort. I would feel very damaged and hurt by both of them. I would feel that woman was taking advantage and callously hurting me. I would feel she was cold to other humans. And i would be right. That is not to say my husband would bear the brunt of responsibility. I mean he would have gone to another prostitute if not one particular one etc. It was his choice. But its her choice too.
And if she doesn't have choice imo she is not consenting. And if the man doesn't TELL her ..he is married. She isn't consenting either. Because she hasn't consented to that situation.
To say that women in prostitution must have an 'off' switch...is hardly revolutionary is it?
I mean i couldn't do it. I would be too sensitive.
And yes lots of people are in similar positions with other jobs this is true.
She asked me / all of us for an honest opinion. I was not going to lie.
To say ..him ..i owe nothing to anyone ...its selfish. Its not my responsibility to be righteous.
If your partner had an affair with someone ..yes you would be angry with your partner ..but you would also be angry with the other person ...i think you are lying if you say otherwise.
I am not saying if a friend of mine decided to become a prostitute i would stop being her friend etc or treat her differently. But well i was asked.