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19-07-2020, 18:04   #16
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Do you dance in front of married men? Or only single guys?

If it were single guys or the married guys wives knew and were fine ..i would have no issue with it.
You wouldn’t know if the single guys were lying tbh some guys that are regulars are married but unhappy they tell you the ins and outs of all their problems. Normally strip clubs are full of people that are unhappy in their marriage that just want a place to escape. Stag night guys i reckon some are single
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Exactly. She knows its likely many are.
That's up to the men though and their wives nothing to do with the stripper.
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How would she know if they are married or not?
Or why would she care?

It's up to the married men to sort that ethical dilemma.
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Exactly. She knows its likely many are.

And i am certain a lot of clients have even told her. And told her the wife doesn't know.
So an application and verification process before one can access a stripper?
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19-07-2020, 18:07   #21
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You wouldn’t know if the single guys were lying tbh some guys that are regulars are married but unhappy they tell you the ins and outs of all their problems. Normally strip clubs are full of people that are unhappy in their marriage that just want a place to escape. Stag night guys i reckon some are single

Yeah I understand. Thanks for being honest. I guess you need a high level of personal skills for the job.

But its not really escaping ...its just wasting time really.

I have to say...I take people as I find them to be. So that is what i think of women. I take them as i find them to be.

I hope you are happy anyway.
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I really fail to understand how it is the fault of the performer if the person viewing or paying is married or single, so to say your ok with it as long as the girl is totally virtuous is a strange standard to have
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That's up to the men though and their wives nothing to do with the stripper.
Its her duty to live her life without hurting people or creating the potential for that.

To earn money

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Or why would she care?

It's up to the married men to sort that ethical dilemma.
Its impossible not to care. They do care ..she does ..unless of course you become


Women were not born to be numb or robots. They were born to be the fully feeling wonderful people they truly are. They should not have to shut down and stop feeling to make it in the world. BUT the world sucks...so sometimes they have to. So i guess ...we are all not perfect ...and that imperfection doesn't mean we can treat them with disrespect ....

So a woman has an affair ..or takes money from married men for sex work ....she is still human ...she is not a robot ..but she is trying to be numb.

Of course these women care ....they are human. Its natural and human to care about other humans. Its natural for women to care about other women.

All women are worthy and equal.

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No way is my daughter doing that. If she’s broke, needs money, down on her luck then I’ll help her, but f*cked if she’s gonna be an object for other men to leer at just to pay the bills. If she actively chooses that as a career, I’d be even more disappointed. Maybe I’m just old fashioned.
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Look the whole thing of questioning whether a man is married should really be on the person who is married and questioning his own morality, even then you don't know the in's and out's of that situation. Some people get married drift apart live in separate rooms rarely exchange a hug or a kiss or a hello for that matter. Live completely separate lives. And for the most part any man or woman going to strip clubs or even prostitutes for company. Is understandable. Its a horrifically lonely experience being trapped in a marriage and with some one you don't want to be with.

As for Only Fans. I don't have a problem with any one using it. Its a great platform to make money on , there light is on and burning brightly for the mass's. I think like other site the split is 70% creator 30% OnlyFans which is fair.

I think if Bubbles finds an ability to retain an income in the current climate then you do you.
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I think that men who give money to women to see them naked online are idiots.

I think that women who put naked images of themselves online for money are trash.
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Look the whole thing of questioning whether a man is married should really be on the person who is married and questioning his own morality, even then you don't know the in's and out's of that situation. Some people get married drift apart live in separate rooms rarely exchange a hug or a kiss or a hello for that matter. Live completely separate lives. And for the most part any man or woman going to strip clubs or even prostitutes for company. Is understandable. Its a horrifically lonely experience being trapped in a marriage and with some one you don't want to be with.

As for Only Fans. I don't have a problem with any one using it. Its a great platform to make money on , there light is on and burning brightly for the mass's. I think like other site the split is 70% creator 30% OnlyFans which is fair.

I think if Bubbles finds an ability to retain an income in the current climate then you do you.

But you are asking the women in these professions to shut a part of themselves down ...so that they don't care.

I mean there is enough of that in the world already ....we all shut ourselves down in our jobs. But well ....its a bigger ask when you want a woman to shut herself down to empathizing with another woman in a marriage.

I mean you are already asking these women to shut down a lot of themselves even without that.

I am not saying you are wrong logically. But people do have guilt and they do care ...because they are human they care about others. Its natural.

But on the other hand ..you kind of do have to be a robot to make money really.

You have to be dead.
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Onlyfans is a great way to monitize safely. So I'd encourage it if you're in the business. As for a digital legacy sure it could be an issue but honestly is the best policy there.
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19-07-2020, 18:41   #29
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Do you dance in front of married men? Or only single guys?

If it were single guys or the married guys wives knew and were fine ..i would have no issue with it.
What about men who are not married but in a relationship?

Should she ask if any are priests?

What if she dances in front of women? Does she check with them too about their relationship status?
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Its her duty to live her life without hurting people or creating the potential for that.

To earn money
I’ve seen some high horsey judgemental crap on this website, but congratulations. You have just reset the bar for it.

How do you know what anyone’s duty is!??

If she’s happy with herself, and with doing what she does then all power to her.

How many of us are 9-5 drones, not particularly happy?

I almost wish you were here for the AMA with the escort.
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