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Grandeeod · 19-11-2019, 23:23

I had to literally drag the Cat downstairs for the supper. Chomping away now, then out for a pee - not me the Cat.

I'll be eating a lot later than planned and then bed.

Guy Person · 19-11-2019, 23:25

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Originally Posted by Duvet Day

I'm ashamed to say that I haven't moved on from something that happened to me 5 years ago, its like one step forward two steps back,it ridiculous but it's on my mind 24/7..think I'm a lot cause tbh...

You are not a lost cause Duvet. You are only a lost cause if you tell yourself that, say it enough and you will believe it and once you believe it you will become it. I don't know what you are referring to so this will likely sound condescending but human beings can overcome almost any trauma/bad experience. We are amazing creatures in some ways. It's absolutely normal to have not moved on or to feel like you haven't moved on but you owe it to yourself to not let it stay that way if it gets you down. There are always unexplored options or previously explored options approached with a different mindset. One thing that I have found that works for me is to analyse a bad experience after the fact and try to take any positives from it, even one. I won't stop doing it until I get at least one positive thing from it, "If A never happened then I wouldn't have gotten B" kind of a thing.

The bad thing has already happened, many good things can still happen.

**Sephiroth_dude** · 19-11-2019, 23:36

Night all

Cali_girl · 19-11-2019, 23:43

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Originally Posted by Duvet Day

I'm not vegan or vegetarian but I very rarely eat meat tbh,my lot love chicken and I'm always cooking it but would never eat it apart from a pick,I'm a total grazer tbh ,I eat loads just not actual meals if that makes sense, I love going out for meals but always take a fish dish, weird I suppose but it works for me.

BTW I loved your poetry quote the other night...

Bedside.
I'm a terrible carnivore Duvet Day, always was - even as a kid, just wanted to eat the meat or chicken or fish and would leave or hide the rest if I could get away with it, total savage! My mother and sister are like you, no interest. They pick around all day, like little birdies pecking away

I put it down to different blood types or something. But seriously a good steak literally changes my mood and makes me feel different and happy, it has to be genetic!

That poet breaks my heart, his life was so sad, talk about a tortured soul... After a bad year of going down multiple dead ends a while back, I scripted that line over a photograph of my favourite beach, put it on the wall and just stared at it for 6 months, then I finally got bored, tore it down and went off and did some new stuff

Grandeeod · 19-11-2019, 23:56

Striploin Steak dinner done. I'm done too. A bit late after work so not so enjoyable. I was planning on having it so much earlier. Sleep well folks!

**Gremlinertia** · 20-11-2019, 00:11

Sweet dreams to you all. I'll just be over here roaming the dark halls alone *sniff*

JupiterKid · 20-11-2019, 00:16

Horizontal on the sofa, TV on and my OH and I are watching A Touch Of Frost. Chilled and bedside in under and hour.

Belated Birthday wishes Grandeeod.

Go and spoil yourself...you’ve earned it!

Witchie · 20-11-2019, 02:21

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Originally Posted by Gremlinertia

Sweet dreams to you all. I'll just be over here roaming the dark halls alone *sniff*

I'm awake monitoring a possible allergic reaction to see if I need to head 45 minutes away to the nearest hospital. Another reason to hate being home.

Anyone ever find a lump in their mouth, prod at it and find it moves? Am weirded out.

**Gremlinertia** · 20-11-2019, 02:24

Your tongue?. Some food?.

Sorry, no not experienced that i don't think. Fingers crossed it fecks off for you.

**Gremlinertia** · 20-11-2019, 05:57

Deskside hoping Witchie is ok..

**Ted_YNWA** · 20-11-2019, 06:14

Bedside awake too early

Witchie · 20-11-2019, 06:35

Am fine but ended up in the hospital anyway. Dad came woke me just after 5 to say mum wasn't well so am now waiting while she sees doctors.

**Gremlinertia** · 20-11-2019, 06:37

Cripes, sorry to hear that Witchie

Eleysian · 20-11-2019, 07:42

Deskside.
Witchie are you still at the hospital with your Mam?

It’s Wednesday, hump of the week. Wishing for a good day for all the lovely people in here.

Autosport · 20-11-2019, 07:49

Morning all

Happy Wednesday!!!

Hope it all turns out well Witchie

Can't wait to spend the day shopping with my favourite man

20-11-2019, 00:16	#6967
JupiterKid Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 7,701 Adverts \| Friends	Horizontal on the sofa, TV on and my OH and I are watching A Touch Of Frost. Chilled and bedside in under and hour. Belated Birthday wishes Grandeeod. Go and spoil yourself...you’ve earned it! Last edited by JupiterKid; 20-11-2019 at 00:19.

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19-11-2019, 23:23	#6961
Grandeeod Registered User Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 8,194 Adverts \| Friends	I had to literally drag the Cat downstairs for the supper. Chomping away now, then out for a pee - not me the Cat. I'll be eating a lot later than planned and then bed.

19-11-2019, 23:36	#6963
Sephiroth_dude One Winged Angel Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 68,416 Adverts \| Friends Mod: After Hours, Current Affairs/IMHO, Racing Sims, ZTest	Night all

19-11-2019, 23:56	#6965
Grandeeod Registered User Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 8,194 Adverts \| Friends	Striploin Steak dinner done. I'm done too. A bit late after work so not so enjoyable. I was planning on having it so much earlier. Sleep well folks!

20-11-2019, 00:11	#6966
Gremlinertia Moderator Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 42,115 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Archaeology, Long Term Illness, Dark & Deviant, Psychology, ZTest	Sweet dreams to you all. I'll just be over here roaming the dark halls alone sniff

20-11-2019, 02:24	#6969
Gremlinertia Moderator Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 42,115 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Archaeology, Long Term Illness, Dark & Deviant, Psychology, ZTest	Your tongue?. Some food?. Sorry, no not experienced that i don't think. Fingers crossed it fecks off for you.

20-11-2019, 05:57	#6970
Gremlinertia Moderator Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 42,115 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Archaeology, Long Term Illness, Dark & Deviant, Psychology, ZTest	Deskside hoping Witchie is ok..

20-11-2019, 06:14	#6971
Ted_YNWA Moderator Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 58,237 Adverts \| Friends Mod: After Hours, ZTest	Bedside awake too early

20-11-2019, 06:35	#6972
Witchie Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 4,862 Adverts \| Friends	Am fine but ended up in the hospital anyway. Dad came woke me just after 5 to say mum wasn't well so am now waiting while she sees doctors.

20-11-2019, 06:37	#6973
Gremlinertia Moderator Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 42,115 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Archaeology, Long Term Illness, Dark & Deviant, Psychology, ZTest	Cripes, sorry to hear that Witchie

20-11-2019, 07:42	#6974
Eleysian Registered User Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 297 Adverts \| Friends	Deskside. Witchie are you still at the hospital with your Mam? It’s Wednesday, hump of the week. Wishing for a good day for all the lovely people in here.