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How old were you when you first kissed a girl.

  • 02-02-2019 9:42pm
    #1
    devlinio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 172 ✭✭


    I was a social wreck during school, and I've only become social in the last few years. I'm 23 now, and it still hasn't happened, but I'm going to try harder, because tbh, I never attempt to approach girls.


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  • #2
    Pawwed Rig
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 22,289 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Work on yourself and your confidence. Have interests and chat to people. There is nothing as boring as someone whose only interest is TV (whether watching sports or movies).
    Once you have a bit of confidence the rest comes naturally.
    I think I was 17 when I first kissed a girl.


  • #3
    khaldrogo
    Registered Users Posts: 1,572 ✭✭✭khaldrogo


    Nine the first time my lips touched those of a girl I liked but I wouldn't call it my first kiss. 11 otherwise


  • #4
    Robert Wolfe
    Site Banned Posts: 79 ✭✭Robert Wolfe


    devlinio wrote: »
    I was a social wreck during school, and I've only become social in the last few years. I'm 23 now, and it still hasn't happened, but I'm going to try harder, because tbh, I never attempt to approach girls.

    I was 14. Just get messy drunk and you'll shift someone on a night out pretty quickly. It's no big deal.


  • #5
    JupiterKid
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 12,561 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    I was 13 when I first snogged a girl. It was very awkward.


  • #6
    greenspurs
    Registered Users Posts: 10,215 ✭✭✭✭greenspurs


    14? ish …..

    Awkward, but amazing feeling ! :)
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  • #7
    Reati
    Registered Users Posts: 1,922 ✭✭✭Reati


    I 15 and super awkard about doing it so luckly she did it. She had chewing gum and I asked for one so she stuck her tongue and her gum in my mouth.


  • #8
    theteal
    Registered Users Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭theteal


    12/13ish iirc, she came at me with tongue swinging, I nearly ducked out of the way!


  • #9
    Sleepy
    Registered Users Posts: 24,143 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    I remember thinking I was really "late" at the age of 16 but in retrospect, I was probably ahead of the majority of my peers at the time.


  • #10
    Pissartist
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 473 ✭✭Pissartist


    12 i think, washing machine central


  • #11
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭[Deleted User]


    10 years old and had to stand on a brick just to reach her as she was tall for her age! :D


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  • #12
    EdgeCase
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,471 ✭✭✭EdgeCase


    OP, just get to know more women. Join stuff, get involved with things and have chats.
    In my experience at least, you don't ever meet anyone if you go out with the intention that you're going to meet someone. It usually just happens, so what you need to do is expand your social circle and get to know more people generally and some of them might click with you and before long you'll be getting snogged.

    The main thing is don't over-think it or build it up into something complicated. Just do things you enjoy and get to know as many people as you can.


  • #13
    Heart Break Kid
    Registered Users Posts: 834 ✭✭✭Heart Break Kid


    Thing to remember though is, it’s not the kiss that’s special, it’s the person. First kisses can be sloppy and often involve teath.

    Just work on yourself, great that your self aware and becoming more social. Enlist your best friend and get a wingman. Talk about to friends if it gets to you they might be able to help too. I don’t mean to be insensitive about it but I can well picture a lads night out with a goal of finding you your first kiss.


  • #14
    stryker mcqueen
    Registered Users Posts: 1,284 ✭✭✭stryker mcqueen


    I was 12 , made a mess of it and clashed teeth, didn't have a "proper" first kiss until 14 , made up a fake GF to avoid kissing a girl on holidays in Spain when i was 13 due to nerves LOL........


  • #15
    TheShow
    Registered Users Posts: 1,157 ✭✭✭TheShow


    16, I was in fifth year and nervous as hell. Was feeling the pressure because I thought I was a late starter. Had been in a position a few times before but could never get enough confidence to go in for the kiss.
    Once I did it once, it was easier the next times after that.

    Try not to make a big deal of it, if you find the right person it will be a non issue.

    Otherwise if you prefer, just go to a club, have a few drinks and a chat a people up and see if you can break the duck that way, obviously not in a rapey way though.


  • #16
    raze_them_all_
    Registered Users Posts: 6,744 ✭✭✭raze_them_all_


    11/12 around that age


  • #17
    Hermes Trismegistus
    Registered Users Posts: 12 ✭Hermes Trismegistus


    7/8...twins actually. Theres a flash back.


  • #18
    Victor
    Registered Users Posts: 78,237 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Danced with a girl - 17(?).

    Kissed a girl on the cheek - 18.

    Kissed by a girl on lips - 19.
    I was rather surprised and didn't kiss her back.

    Kissed a girl on the lips - 20.
    Robert Wolfe wrote: »
    I was 14. Just get messy drunk and you'll shift someone on a night out pretty quickly. It's no big deal.
    And ........... no .....


  • #19
    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    devlinio wrote: »
    I was a social wreck during school, and I've only become social in the last few years. I'm 23 now, and it still hasn't happened, but I'm going to try harder, because tbh, I never attempt to approach girls.

    Trust me it will happen once the right woman and circumstances come.

    And don't feel bad about it either, it's one of these totally arbitrary things society puts pressure on young men to care about. You'd be surprised how many men had their first whatever in their twenties. A lot of women too.

    I know because I was one of them.


  • #20
    helimachoptor
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 21,639 Mod ✭✭✭✭helimachoptor


    10, in the local youth club ;)


  • #21
    beertons
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 23,055 ✭✭✭✭beertons


    I was 15. Up in larch hill, away with the senior scouts. Fidelma. Never saw her again.


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  • #22
    Caegan
    Registered Users Posts: 358 ✭✭Caegan


    12 and it was awkward as **** as my mother caught us


  • #23
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,066 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    15.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #24
    Nikki Sixx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 426 ✭✭Nikki Sixx


    Hermes Trismegistus wrote: »
    7/8...twins actually. Theres a flash back.

    Is that you Charlie Sheen!:-)


  • #25
    Gffg
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 33 ✭Gffg


    I'd a few spin the bottle kisses when I was in my teens. But my first proper kiss didn't come until I was 19.


  • #26
    Gffg
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 33 ✭Gffg


    Church on Tuesday wrote: »
    Trust me it will happen once the right woman and circumstances come.

    And don't feel bad about it either, it's one of these totally arbitrary things society puts pressure on young men to care about. You'd be surprised how many men had their first whatever in their twenties. A lot of women too.

    I know because I was one of them.
    Biggest load of sh1te I ever heard.


  • #27
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭[Deleted User]


    12/13 local disco, was like kissing a washing machine on spin cycle.

    IIRC got my second, third, fourth and fifth kisses that same night too.
    Teen discos are manky spots :D


  • #28
    Plumbthedepths
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,653 ✭✭✭✭Plumbthedepths


    9. Playing chasing as kids. One girl a few years older me said she'd let me go if I let her kiss me . Seemed a good deal at the time.


  • #29
    Galwayguy35
    Registered Users Posts: 16,249 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    16 or 17 I think, was easy to get into nightclubs back then so had a pint in me before it happened.


  • #30
    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Gffg wrote: »
    Biggest load of sh1te I ever heard.

    Care to specify?


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  • #31
    TerrorFirmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    Anyone who was ever at a teen disco or the Gaeltacht at some point in their early teens would be guaranteed, even if you had a face like a bag of spuds. Think I was about 13.


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