I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 8)

Widdershins · 02-09-2019 12:15pm

Persepoly wrote: »

I have a naval gazing competitor

I am having a sit watching the new season of Dark. Oh the excitement.

No just taking stock of life and what and who to keep and cherish and what to dispense with. It's a good thing to do as it lets you grow.

votecounts · 02-09-2019 12:21pm

Kitty6277 wrote: »

It had to, it was the only way I think. Look, I still have love for him, I probably always will, but trust is everything and if we don’t have that, what do we have? Plus he was kicking off that I wanted to go to the party instead of going out with him, even though I offered to meet him earlier in the day and he said no :rolleyes:

I am usually the last person to give relationship advice but it seems you dodged a bullet. You'll meet someone better, enjoy being single for a while.
Workside.

Widdershins · 02-09-2019 12:43pm

Kitty maybe invite your boyfriend to the party? It's nice to be included.

Having said that I was going out with a man I tried to open my life to as you do, and as he was a bit friendless, and he was on about going to meet my female friend himself rather than with me?! You mentioned trust issues and I know that one so maybe I'd have been better doing what you did a lot earlier.

coffee_cake · 02-09-2019 12:48pm

I wouldn't dream of inviting himself to a staff party to be honest, i don't think anyone else in the party would either.
Sorry about your news kitty all the best

Widdershins · 02-09-2019 12:53pm

oh, didn't know it was a staff party! well that's different. I just thought maybe he felt excluded if it was a normal one.

Kitty6277 · 02-09-2019 1:11pm

Widdershins wrote: »

oh, didn't know it was a staff party! well that's different. I just thought maybe he felt excluded if it was a normal one.

No, he wouldn’t have come anyway, even if it was a regular party. The issue was he wanted to go to the cinema in the evening, but I wanted to go to the party so I suggested we go earlier or go for dinner instead, he said no and then said I put the party before him and that I didn’t care anymore :rolleyes: and this is after him being a príck over the summer which led me to not trust him so I think it was always going to happen

Widdershins · 02-09-2019 4:19pm

Good on ya Kitty. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Kitchen side basking in the warmth of a lovely fire and having a laugh by text with the bestest friend in the world. Priceless.

[Deleted User] · 02-09-2019 4:37pm

Widdershins wrote: »

No just taking stock of life and what and who to keep and cherish and what to dispense with. It's a good thing to do as it lets you grow.

Yes I do it too. That's why I referred to you as "fellow naval gazer"

Witchie · 02-09-2019 5:00pm

Kitty, I know its hard at the moment and you probably will have moments in the coming weeks, months, even years where you will wish it hadn't happened and that you were still together...but, you are doing the right thing. You are walking away at a good time in your life. You have college to focus on, friends, partying, work etc and you will get through this and onto better things. Just remind yourself all the time that you deserve better. You wouldn't do that crap to him, so why should you accept it. You had more respect for him than he had for you. Never ever accept less than what you deserve. Take it from an auld wan who married the wrong person, went out with loads of wrong-uns and had a lot of fun being single inbetween.

Lecture over!

On the sofa just off the phone from me mammy. She was at a cousin's daughter's wedding at the weekend so had loads to tell me. Seemed to have been a stunning wedding, but that part of my family would teach the Kardashians a thing or two about style, so it was to be expected.

Gonna hit the hay soon as its midnight here and want to have enough sleep to get up early and go to the gym. When I say early, I mean 8ish. I don't start work until 10 and only have to walk into the living room to work so its loads of time!

The Crazy Cat Lady · 02-09-2019 6:16pm

couchside, absolutely wrecked, had a rough night last night

Grandeeod · 02-09-2019 6:30pm

Serious hair of the dog required today. Thankfully it was work free. Got the urge for onion rings at lunchtime and indulged, That was Mamof4's fault.:D

Working on a recovery meal this evening of steak, mushrooms, mash and peas. Splash of gravy somewhere. Having a few hair of the dog treatments now before dinner. Rail trip tomorrow. Work related. Early enough start but time for a nice breakfast before the train and someone else is doing the driving.:D

Leg End Reject · 02-09-2019 6:35pm

Kitty, what's for you won't pass you, a cliche but true. There's another cliche about the best way to get over a man ... :pac:

Any word from Seph? Hope his first day went well.

Tableside trying to decide what to have for dinner.

Kitty6277 · 02-09-2019 6:58pm

Witchie wrote: »

Kitty, I know its hard at the moment and you probably will have moments in the coming weeks, months, even years where you will wish it hadn't happened and that you were still together...but, you are doing the right thing. You are walking away at a good time in your life. You have college to focus on, friends, partying, work etc and you will get through this and onto better things. Just remind yourself all the time that you deserve better. You wouldn't do that crap to him, so why should you accept it. You had more respect for him than he had for you. Never ever accept less than what you deserve. Take it from an auld wan who married the wrong person, went out with loads of wrong-uns and had a lot of fun being single inbetween.

On the couch, currently having one of those moments. Thank you so much for your kind words Witchie, like I said last night, onwards and upwards hopefully.

Leg End Reject wrote: »

Kitty, what's for you won't pass you, a cliche but true. There's another cliche about the best way to get over a man ... :pac:

Tempting alright :pac:

RMAOK · 02-09-2019 7:04pm

Leg End Reject wrote: »

Tableside trying to decide what to have for dinner.

Food, perhaps?

Leg End Reject · 02-09-2019 7:06pm

RMAOK wrote: »

Food, perhaps?

Maybe.

Fathom · 02-09-2019 7:13pm

Poolside

Poochie05 · 02-09-2019 7:16pm

Heading to bed for a bit of relaxing after a long day and a very sleepless night last night.
I have suitcases under my eyes. Look a bit like the Banshee on the cover of the Banshee Bones packets!

x Purple Pawprints x · 02-09-2019 7:34pm

Currently couch side, post EP blues are kicking in.

Ted_YNWA · 02-09-2019 7:37pm

Having a bit of food & trying to catch up on boards.

Autosport · 02-09-2019 7:49pm

Currently carside deciding what to have for dinner and hoping that Seph had a great first day

I'm absolutely wrecked tired now so I'm thinking am early night

fmpisces · 02-09-2019 8:12pm

Couchside, catching up on the soaps. Wracked up 21,000+ steps today, first time in 7 weeks. The bottom half of my body feels like it has started rigor mortis

Good first "proper" day back though.

coffee_cake · 02-09-2019 8:16pm

that's great going on the steps. i've to go for a run later

Kitty6277 · 02-09-2019 8:53pm

Carside, came for a drive in an attempt to clear my head somewhat

Deebles McBeebles · 02-09-2019 9:05pm

Computerside. I'm so bored I'm about to watch Celebrity MasterChef. Mainly to see wtf Neil Ruddock does.

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Carside, came for a drive in an attempt to clear my head somewhat

Get out of the car and head for a walk in the countryside, K. It really helps with the old head-clearance. My dog is fitter this year than she was as a pup

[Deleted User] · 02-09-2019 9:06pm

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Carside, came for a drive in an attempt to clear my head somewhat

I love driving to clear my head too Kitty. I drive alone, with my tunes, sometimes in the middle of the night! There is nothing better. I know almost every city I've ever lived in like a taxi driver

Hope it works for you.

Bedside, exhausted too. The health kick is taking it's toll

Day off today, I cooked and baked and filled the freezer with enough food for the next month.

A pretty orange leaf landed on me when I was walking through St Stephen's Green this evening, a little sign of autumn, my favourite time of year.

Grandeeod · 02-09-2019 9:10pm

Gonna have the din dins.:D In the Kitchen getting it ready. Maybe a book in bed and then up early for the choo choo. Not driving and not paying!

Cork Boi!

Sephiroth_dude · 02-09-2019 9:21pm

*peeks in*

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quickbeam · 02-09-2019 9:23pm

Sephers!!!

Autosport · 02-09-2019 9:24pm

Sephy how did you get on??

Mam of 4 · 02-09-2019 9:26pm

How'd the day go Seph ?

Evening all you nice people

I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 8)

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