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Are women as desperate for sex?

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    #32
    branie2
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    Not all of them, I'd say


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    #33
    Stark
    Registered Users Posts: 20,891 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    This thread reminds me of https://lifestyle.clickhole.com/6-myths-about-female-sexuality-that-we-need-to-stop-spr-1825123628


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    #34
    gmisk
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    Signore Fancy Pants wrote: »
    It's almost as if by some freak of nature that a baby just went from being 1 week old and BAM, woke up the next day as a clueless 15 year old.

    With no guidance from parents, friends or peers, the baby must learn to understand the world through the internet.

    That, or its like a real life version of the film Coneheads.
    You will narfle the garthok!


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    #35
    Tacitus Kilgore
    Registered Users Posts: 2,128 ✭✭✭Tacitus Kilgore


    Patrick2010 wrote: »
    I think any further post on this topic would be superfluous after Tacitus's well thought out comment which has shed such clarity on the subject.

    I agree, but in my defence - the obvious cassanovas on the thread have already said all that needs to be said.

    Them women. With their bags of sand on their chests.


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    #36
    ArchXStanton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,912 ✭✭✭ArchXStanton


    Mad_maxx wrote: »
    Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

    Women are picker.

    In most species the female is usually the choosier of the two sexes


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    #37
    completedit
    Registered Users Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭completedit


    My gf is way hornier than me


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    #38
    Huntergonzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    Well look if yous know any women desperate for sex send them my way......seriously help a lad out here!


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    #39
    [Deleted User]
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    In before thread lock.


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    #40
    Gynoid
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    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

    It's a shame that male fashion has kind of died out lately. Now, we're telling men to dress like women (smooth skin, tight clothes, so on so forth), but they should be showing their masculinity and not estrogen features so to speak.

    This. Oh my goodness many modern male fashions seem designed to hide all evidence of the presence of testosterone.

    And I really can hardly believe there are still people who froth so freely about how the Church ruined every bit of libido in Ireland up until about 15 minutes ago. Weird. Truly weird.

    Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all...well, except as some kind of raw existential scream for life from the engorged womb before it relentlessly sheds.
    Ahhh, glad to get that off my heaving bosom....


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    #41
    Raconteuse
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    Gynoid wrote: »
    Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all..
    :eek:

    I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.


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    #42
    Gynoid
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    Raconteuse wrote: »
    :eek:

    I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.

    During that few days pre menstruation you mean? It is desperate ! :D


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    #43
    Raconteuse
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,817 ✭✭✭Raconteuse


    Gynoid wrote: »
    During that few days pre menstruation you mean? It is desperate ! :D
    And the bauld ovulation.


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    #44
    Plopsu
    Registered Users Posts: 671 ✭✭✭Plopsu


    Raconteuse wrote: »
    :eek:

    I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.


    Sure, that's why the good lord gave them opposable thumbs.


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    #45
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them.

    I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days.

    Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.

    So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself.

    The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex?

    Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves.

    It says alot about the self esteem of men.


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    #46
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society:

    1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with.
    So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other.

    2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women.

    3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent.

    4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex".

    This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change


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    #47
    Richard Hillman
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    Females want to mate with something that they feel can provide a strong child and protect them.

    Men want to mate with as many females as possible to enhance their dominance.

    We are still primates are heart, especially when it comes to mating.


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    #48
    ArchXStanton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,912 ✭✭✭ArchXStanton


    Sarahdunners wrote: »
    No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them.

    I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days.

    Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.

    So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself.

    The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex?

    Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves.

    It says alot about the self esteem of men.

    Men are coming from a scarcity mentality, and like you've admitted women come from an abundance mentality, this has actually been exasperated through the likes of Tinder and online dating were it's like window shopping for them, we're nearly reverting back to a tournament mating system,.

    I'd also say that society has women conditioned to see themselves as the prize whether it's valentines day, a man having to get down on one knee and propose or through social media were they seek validation and attention from posting selfies, additionally they can give themselves an extra 2-3 points on the attractiveness scale through make up, heels, fake this and that etc.


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    #49
    Reviews and Books Galore
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    Sarahdunners wrote: »
    I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society:

    1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with.
    So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other.

    2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women.

    3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent.

    4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex".

    This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change


    That is absolute cadswollop.


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    #50
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    ArchXStanton wrote: »
    Men are coming from a scarcity mentality, and like you've admitted women come from an abundance mentality, this has actually been exasperated through the likes of Tinder and online dating were it's like window shopping for them, we're nearly reverting back to a tournament mating system,.

    I'd also say that society has women conditioned to see themselves as the prize whether it's valentines day, a man having to get down on one knee and propose or through social media were they seek validation and attention from posting selfies, additionally they can give themselves an extra 2-3 points on the attractiveness scale through make up, heels, fake this and that etc.

    Yes but men are putting THEMSELVES in a scarcity mentality. Which is them thinking "because I am not having sex, I feel terrible about myself".

    As I said, I can go without sex for ages and be perfectly happy, there are so many other things to do , painting , walks on the beach.

    Why do men tie up so much of their happiness and self value in sex?


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    #51
    Tacitus Kilgore
    Registered Users Posts: 2,128 ✭✭✭Tacitus Kilgore


    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »
    That is absolute cadswollop.

    Agreed, men haven't changed a whole lot in 1000s of years, but yeah - it's porns fault...


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    #52
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »
    That is absolute cadswollop.

    I have just pointed out that my male friend works with male teenagers, and he spoke about this to me.

    Are you saying hat he is wrong? Would you like to contribute something other than the word "codswallop". Who still uses that word in nearly 2020!


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    #53
    Reviews and Books Galore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 964 ✭✭✭Reviews and Books Galore


    Gynoid wrote: »
    This. Oh my goodness many modern male fashions seem designed to hide all evidence of the presence of testosterone.

    And I really can hardly believe there are still people who froth so freely about how the Church ruined every bit of libido in Ireland up until about 15 minutes ago. Weird. Truly weird.

    Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all...well, except as some kind of raw existential scream for life from the engorged womb before it relentlessly sheds.
    Ahhh, glad to get that off my heaving bosom....


    I know. The best example is men going for what they find attractive (smooth young skin) in reality they should go for what women find attractive (rougher skin).


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    #54
    partyguinness
    Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭partyguinness


    Wanting sex and being "desperate" for sex are two different concepts.


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    #55
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    Nobody has answered this yet:

    "Why do men place so much of their happiness and self value in sex"?

    You are putting all of your happiness in the actions of another person.

    You really need to depend on yourself for your own happiness


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    #56
    Reviews and Books Galore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 964 ✭✭✭Reviews and Books Galore


    Sarahdunners wrote: »
    No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them.

    I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days.

    Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.

    So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself.

    The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex?

    Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves.
    It says alot about the self esteem of men.


    Must be strange to get validation from people you see as more dog like :P


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    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »
    Must be strange to get validation from people you see as more dog like :P

    Eh....what?


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    #58
    Reviews and Books Galore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 964 ✭✭✭Reviews and Books Galore


    Sarahdunners wrote: »
    I have just pointed out that my male friend works with male teenagers, and he spoke about this to me.

    Are you saying hat he is wrong? Would you like to contribute something other than the word "codswallop". Who still uses that word in nearly 2020!


    Yeah, I'm sure he does.



    Tbh, your coming across as very, very young. Give it time.


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    #59
    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »
    Must be strange to get validation from people you see as more dog like :P

    I don't need validation from men to feel good about myself. As I said - I am totally fine with or wthout sex. Nobody owes me sex. And nobody died from not having sex

    This is what I see the problem with men is - they are constantly looking for validation from other people to feel good about themselves. When they need to learn to make themselves happy.


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    #60
    partyguinness
    Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭partyguinness


    I am actually going to introduce the OP to my "Not used nearly enough" Ignore list.

    He is just too inchoate.


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    Sarahdunners
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 181 ✭✭Sarahdunners


    Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »
    Yeah, I'm sure he does.



    Tbh, your coming across as very, very young. Give it time.

    Hahaha "that is a new one!" When you disagree with someone you call them very young.

    I am not very young. And I don't see anything in my posts that alluded to me being young. I said "my teacher friend".


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