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  • 27-05-2020 12:07am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,
    Currently single and attracted to woman but every now and again I get a craving as such to meet with men. I am. Not attracted and never kiss but do like being a bottom as I enjoy the feeling, currently unsure how to feel


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  • #2
    Heebie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Heebie


    You could try feeling curious to explore and leave it at that. If you're willing to explore it, enjoy.


  • #3
    368100
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,067 ✭✭✭368100


    If you're not attacted to men and never kiss, but like being bottom....then maybe you just want a woman to do that with you.

    But it sounds like you probably are attracted to men but maybe haven't admitted it to yourself.

    As you're single, there's no better time to explore what those cravings are, as long as you're comfortable doing so


  • #4
    wakka12
    Registered Users Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Perhaps some women might be open to trying penetration with you(with some kind of object), maybe that would be a better compromise if youre not attacted to men?


  • #5
    MarriedButBi
    Registered Users Posts: 91 ✭✭MarriedButBi


    368100 wrote: »
    If you're not attacted to men and never kiss, but like being bottom....then maybe you just want a woman to do that with you.

    But it sounds like you probably are attracted to men but maybe haven't admitted it to yourself.

    As you're single, there's no better time to explore what those cravings are, as long as you're comfortable doing so

    This is an interesting perspective. It's one I have heard from gay or bi people a fair bit. There's often an assumption that deep down you're gay or attracted to men, but not admitting it. It might very well be valid.

    I think the whole thing is very confusing. I'd be the same, never fancied a guy, well not since I was 13 or 14. But have always liked the idea of having a play buddy to have fun with. Or fantasize about having an encounter.

    I do find images of hard penis attractive, and I would definitely like to try having sex with a guy. So I've decided I'm bi. Maybe the OP is too. But it is all quite confusing when you don't actually fancy guys.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I've bought it up in previous relationships but never went down well and is just easier to meet guys off hook up site they are more than willing to help. It does worry me what will happen when I do get in a relationship


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  • #7
    MichelleSummer
    Registered Users Posts: 6 ✭MichelleSummer


    I had those confusing feelings but now I just accept that I am who I am. I am very much attracted to women not men but I do occasionally like to meet with a man for sexual gratification. I do kiss men even though I'm not attracted in the sense I have no desire to be in a relationship with them.


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