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07-12-2018, 23:00   #496
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Seriously guys, there's an enormous gulf between two people engaging in sexual acts with the consent of both fully in it, good for them, and on the other hand an unwelcome sexual act forced upon someone. Hopefully after the former there is never the look of disgust/distress/anger that you see on the faces of the latter after the act has been carried out. In the example of the "girl tossing off a guy", I am presuming she didn't force herself on him so the example is neither here nor there. In the other example, I'm not sure if he meant this was a mutual act or not ??
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Seriously guys, there's an enormous gulf between two people engaging in sexual acts with the consent of both fully in it, good for them, and on the other hand an unwelcome sexual act forced upon someone. Hopefully after the former there is never the look of disgust/distress/anger that you see on the faces of the latter after the act has been carried out. In the example of the "girl tossing off a guy", I am presuming she didn't force herself on him so the example is neither here nor there. In the other example, I'm not sure if he meant this was a mutual act or not ??
We were all being facetious... Or at least I was!
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We were all being facetious... Or at least I was!
In fairness, you've only just graded a woman based on harassment on street.
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In fairness, you've only just graded a woman based on harassment on street.
Did you read the post I was responding to? Did you not realise I was not being serious in my response? Or that I wasn't grading a woman being harassed anyhow?
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Did you read the post I was responding to? Did you not realise I was not being serious in my response? Or that I wasn't grading a woman being harassed anyhow?
So you don't think the problem is women don't confront the men harassing them on the street?
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So you don't think the problem is women don't confront the men harassing them on the street?
What are you talking about? You asked if I graded a woman, which I did not. Re-read the post l responded to like I asked, as you clearly have not.
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Like I’m not going to look at that situation of a guy groping a girl he knows 15 minutes in public and think “What a respectful young man!” Similarly, I was walking to get the bus the other night and saw a lad fingering a girl on the street. Grade the respect you think he had for her at that moment from 1 to 10.

But if we’re talking about teenagers then I accept the point because teens are mainly just ****ing idiots.
You have weird views on sex. A man pleasuring a woman is taking advantage of her? Or is just the location that's the problem?

I'm guessing you wouldn't say a woman has no respect for the man she's jacking off. Is it the man disrespecting the woman in that case as well?


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What are you talking about? You asked if I graded a woman, which I did not. Re-read the post l responded to like I asked, as you clearly have not.
I'm referring to how you have repeatedly insulted the women who don't confront those who engage in street harassment... You've referred to them as cowards...
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I'm referring to how you have repeatedly insulted the women who don't confront those who engage in street harassment... You've referred to them as cowards...
And what are you looking for? I've debated this mainly with Bigbagofcans and Mrsmum. Reread my responses to them. Also re-read post 457.
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You have weird views on sex. A man pleasuring a woman is taking advantage of her? Or is just the location that's the problem?

I'm guessing you wouldn't say a woman has no respect for the man she's jacking off. Is it the man disrespecting the woman in that case as well?


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They can do what they want (well it’s actually illegal to perform sex acts on the quays in Dublin City, but still it’s not for me to judge)...but nah, you probably don’t have a very high opinion of someone, man or woman, if you think “They’re probably okay with me dropping the lamh at this bus stop.”

Again, each their own (and if you want to fight for the bus stop wankers more power to you too!), but one thing it’s not is a great example of ‘respectful’ behaviour, and that was the question asked. Like maybe we have a different moral system but I’ve never thought “I respect this person so much...yeah, it’s time, I’m gonna finger them at a bus stop!” Maybe that makes me weird, maybe some would call you weird for seeing it and saying “Wow give that man a pat on the back for being so caring and not wanting to wait to pleasure that woman”, who’s to say really?

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They can do what they want (well it’s actually illegal to perform sex acts on the quays in Dublin City, but still it’s not for me to judge)...but nah, you probably don’t have a very high opinion of someone, man or woman, if you think “They’re probably okay with me dropping the lamh at this bus stop.”

Again, each their own (and if you want to fight for the bus stop wankers more power to you too!), but one thing it’s not is a great example of ‘respectful’ behaviour, and that was the question asked. Like maybe we have a different moral system but I’ve never thought “I respect this person so much...yeah, it’s time, I’m gonna finger them at a bus stop!” Maybe that makes me weird, maybe some would call you weird for seeing it and saying “Wow give that man a pat on the back for being so caring and not wanting to wait to pleasure that woman”, who’s to say really?
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I'm enjoying your input in this thread professore. I like how you don't let logic get in the way of making whatever point you want to at any stage.
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And again, what is the point of this post?
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