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Helloitsme123 · 11-05-2019, 16:40

My bf still has the tinder app he went away on holidays to his home country for two weeks and I noticed that his location distance updated which means he was on it he deleted our anniversary on Facebook too he said to me its only social media .. I asked him why he was on it and he said to me that " I was just looking at your profile to see when we started talking I just look for gays in my home town it's just fun I am not sleeping with anybody but you " .. and btw the reason I went on tinder is because I noticed he still had it on his phone ...and I got suspicious.. as any partner would do...

**wiggle16** · 11-05-2019, 17:31

What do you think of it, OP?

How long have you been together?

People who are happy in a relationship don't go on Tinder.... especially when they're abroad, and don't tell you, and to "make friends". He had it on his phone before he left, so his excuse is a load of b*llocks. Sounds like he's checking out of the relationship and doesn't have the decency to tell you... I'm sorry OP.

MartyMcFly84 · 14-05-2019, 19:16

There is no reason for someone in a relationship to have Tinder.

They would only have to to look for something else.

**Oink** · 19-05-2019, 19:32

Sounds to me like he’s full of sh!t, and he’s getting away with it. You’re clearly just filling the gap until he finds someone else.
That’s my opinion.

Danzy · 19-05-2019, 19:35

Deleting the anniversary on Facebook.

Holy ****, what a see you next Tuesday.

That is even before the tinder stuff.

11-05-2019, 16:40	#1
Helloitsme123 Registered User Join Date: May 2018 Posts: 4 Adverts \| Friends	Still has tinder My bf still has the tinder app he went away on holidays to his home country for two weeks and I noticed that his location distance updated which means he was on it he deleted our anniversary on Facebook too he said to me its only social media .. I asked him why he was on it and he said to me that " I was just looking at your profile to see when we started talking I just look for gays in my home town it's just fun I am not sleeping with anybody but you " .. and btw the reason I went on tinder is because I noticed he still had it on his phone ...and I got suspicious.. as any partner would do...

11-05-2019, 17:31	#2
wiggle16 Moderator Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 2,111 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Personal Issues, ZTest	What do you think of it, OP? How long have you been together? People who are happy in a relationship don't go on Tinder.... especially when they're abroad, and don't tell you, and to "make friends". He had it on his phone before he left, so his excuse is a load of b*llocks. Sounds like he's checking out of the relationship and doesn't have the decency to tell you... I'm sorry OP.

14-05-2019, 19:16	#3
MartyMcFly84 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,250 Adverts \| Friends	There is no reason for someone in a relationship to have Tinder. They would only have to to look for something else.

19-05-2019, 19:32	#4
Oink Savage muc Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,732 Adverts \| Friends Mod: Songwriting, ZTest	Sounds to me like he’s full of sh!t, and he’s getting away with it. You’re clearly just filling the gap until he finds someone else. That’s my opinion.

19-05-2019, 19:35	#5
Danzy Banned Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 3,988 Adverts \| Friends	Deleting the anniversary on Facebook. Holy ****, what a see you next Tuesday. That is even before the tinder stuff.