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Think mum had a baby in the 50s. How to find out.

  • 01-01-2016 4:47pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 97 ✭✭


    Hi All we have always suspected something happened to my mum in her late teens. She is from Limerick and was the only one of her family sent to a boarding school in Clonmel and was only there for a year and then she was packed off to Dublin. None of the rest of her family were. She is now 81. Over the years for various reasons and because of things she said we came to the conclusion she had a child perhaps. She never wanted any of us to see her family alone We always felt she had a secret because of events that happened and things she let slip. We did ask her but she would get quite cranky and change the subject. Now she has developed dementia and it happened very very quickly. She is saying that she did very very bad things and we managed to get it out of her that something bad happened in a Clonmel Convent but not what. She now keeps saying she wants to get money (shes in hospital pending nursing home) to give to someone but she wont say who She gives money to this person Christmas she says and they will be abandoned now she says. .When probed she says she cant remember and wont tell us who and gets cranky. We did notice when she talks about this person its always female and I got the name June from her but can get no more. Is there anyway I can get records from any convent in Clonmel. Was there a Convent there that took in Pregnant girls in the early 50s. I wouldn't know where to start.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭TOMP


    Try posting this in the boards Clonmel thread


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,616 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    I think you'll need some specialist advice here. Your mother, though not fully compos mentis, is alive, so she cannot give her consent for you to FOI information about her.

    It would be worth posting on an adoption board to see if you can get some general advice, i.e. what places took young pregnant girls in Clonmel. If there is a baby, it would have a birth certificate. A really long shot, and costly, but you could chase up all the certificates for babies born in that year with your mother's birth surname in Clonmel.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭Artdeco30


    Hi there,

    I just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and your Mum. There must be hidden stories like this all over Ireland. Are there any siblings of your Mum alive who may know something? It sounds like she was sent to a religious institution in Dublin to have a baby. Did she complete her education? Does she mention anywhere in Dublin?

    Best wishes to you and your family.


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