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Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

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    #32
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Finnley Juicy Scavenger wrote: »
    I think he meant tax complaint with your additional job !!
    How do you inform revenue about the income stream?

    I know what he meant and I'm sure he knows the answer himself !!


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    #33
    222233
    Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    Is this a lifelong career for you, as in is it a long term plan?


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    #34
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    When you take on a new client how scary is it that he could turn aggressive? What protection do you have in place in case someone turns nasty?

    Have you ever been contacted by someone you know or someone famous?


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    #35
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    222233 wrote: »
    Is this a lifelong career for you, as in is it a long term plan?

    I honestly don't know how long I will do it. It suits me at the moment thou


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    #36
    Boards.ie: Niamh
    Boards.ie Employee Posts: 12,597 ✭✭✭✭✭Boards.ie: Niamh
    Boards.ie Community Manager


    Alcoheda do not post in this thread again

    How can I? User's guide to some features on the new site



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    #37
    dev100
    Registered Users Posts: 1,002 ✭✭✭dev100


    LaraLushhhhh wrote:
    Hhmmm good question but I will admit I'd be devastated and as hypocritical as it sounds I would finish it with him yes.

    Why so ?

    Do your clients be the young single type or the rich older married man or is there a certain type who would use your services more than most ? Do you enjoy the sex or is it purely a transaction fee for your time ?


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    #38
    roywilljenks
    Registered Users Posts: 1 ✭roywilljenks


    Wow.. interesting read! Thanks Laura!


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    #39
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    When you take on a new client how scary is it that he could turn aggressive? What protection do you have in place in case someone turns nasty?

    Have you ever been contacted by someone you know or someone famous?

    As I said previously I am lucky enough now to have enough regular clients so I don't need to meet strangers anymore but yes it was very scary not knowing who was coming to the door.
    Where I work from thou they would be very silly to try anything nasty
    I havnt been contacted by anyone I know thank god


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    #40
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    dev100 wrote: »
    Why so ?

    Do your clients be the young single type or the rich older married man or is there a certain type who would use your services more than most ? Do you enjoy the sex or is it purely a transaction fee for your time ?

    It's honestly a good mix. 90% are married thou
    I enjoy it with the attractive guys yes


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    222233
    Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    I honestly don't know how long I will do it. It suits me at the moment thou

    I just have a few more, then I promise I'll leave - I have always wanted to speak with an escort!!

    How do you find your clients, as in do you market your services or is it word of mouth?

    How do you prevent STI's e.g if a condom breaks or someone has some form of oral/genital warts, herpes etc?

    Have you ever turned a client down for being really unhygienic?


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    #42
    Collie D
    Registered Users Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭Collie D


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    I havnt been contacted by anyone I know thank god

    Interesting thread.

    I know you've said you have regular clients/customers/dates/whatever you call them so you probably don't need to advertise now but when starting out did you not have a photo on a website and were you not worried about someone you know seeing you eg the boss at your daytime job?


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    #43
    Colser
    Registered Users Posts: 5,572 ✭✭✭Colser


    Have you ever refused someone because of their lack of hygiene?How do you know that they won't be one of the unwashed before you get started...have you ever just had to stop after starting because they were stomach churning?What excuse do you give if you can't go ahead with it?


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    #44
    JCX BXC
    Registered Users Posts: 18,105 ✭✭✭✭JCX BXC


    This may be a bit blunt, but do you have an STD?


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    #45
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    222233 wrote: »
    I just have a few more, then I promise I'll leave - I have always wanted to speak with an escort!!

    How do you find your clients, as in do you market your services or is it word of mouth?

    How do you prevent STI's e.g if a condom breaks or someone performs or someone has some form of oral/genital warts, herpes etc?

    Have you ever turned a client down for being really unhygienic?

    Ask as many questions as you want, I don't mind.
    I advertise online that's how I meet them
    I've never had a comdom break ! Touch wood.
    I've never had to turn away a client. They all know to shower beforehand and if they looked like they had warts I wouldn't hesitate to turn them away.

    I get tested for STIs regularly too


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    #46
    Carlos Orange
    Registered Users Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭Carlos Orange


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    It's honestly a good mix. 90% are married thou

    What do you provide that they can't/don't get at home?
    Are they in sexless marriages?


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    #47
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    JCX BXC wrote: »
    This may be a bit blunt, but do you have an STD?

    What a ridiculous question ..... next


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    #48
    connemara man
    Moderators, Sports Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 6,773 Mod ✭✭✭✭connemara man


    Do you find it lonely as it's not something you talk about with your friends and family?

    Do you have friends who are also escorts? A network in that sense?


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    #49
    SGSM
    Closed Accounts Posts: 138 ✭✭SGSM


    Wait so you wouldn't tell a partner you do this??? Seriously? When did cheating stop being a big deal?


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    #50
    Liam McPoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,846 ✭✭✭✭Liam McPoyle


    Has someone you knew/recognised ever tried to avail of your services?

    Does anyone in "the real world" know what your side line is?

    You seem quite well balanced, I've seen documentaries about sex workers and some of them came across as quite sad as in emotionally damaged (for want of a better word). Do you ever leave a job and think, I cant be dealing with this anymore?

    Ever fell for a client?

    Do you like toast?


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    #51
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Collie D wrote: »
    Interesting thread.

    I know you've said you have regular clients/customers/dates/whatever you call them so you probably don't need to advertise now but when starting out did you not have a photo on a website and were you not worried about someone you know seeing you eg the boss at your daytime job?

    I still advertise ! It's the only way they will see I'm working in their area! I'd never call or txt my clients ! I do have photos up but Ireland's a small country so no my face will never be on show


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    #52
    222233
    Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    Are you body confident?


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    #53
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Rod Munch wrote: »
    Has someone you knew/recognised ever tried to avail of your services?

    Does anyone in "the real world" know what your side line is?

    You seem quite well balanced, I've seen documentaries about sex workers and some of them came across as quite sad as in emotionally damaged (for want of a better word). Do you ever leave a job and think, I cant be dealing with this anymore?

    Ever fell for a client?

    Do you like toast?

    No ive never been contacted by anyone I know. I don't work on my own doorstep thou so that's probably why.
    I have one friend who knows what I do
    I'm honestly happy right now with what I'm going. I'm completely balanced. I earn good money , I can pay my bills, buy nice things . I don't smoke and rarely drink . I have a thick skin and am 100% able to put it to the back of my mind when I'm home


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    #54
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    222233 wrote: »
    Are you body confident?

    Completely


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    #55
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    No ive never been contacted by anyone I know. I don't work on my own doorstep thou so that's probably why.
    I have one friend who knows what I do
    I'm honestly happy right now with what I'm going. I'm completely balanced. I earn good money , I can pay my bills, buy nice things . I don't smoke and rarely drink . I have a thick skin and am 100% able to put it to the back of my mind when I'm home

    And yes I love toast :)


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    #56
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    connemara man wrote: »
    Do you find it lonely as it's not something you talk about with your friends and family?

    Do you have friends who are also escorts? A network in that sense?

    It can be very lonely ! But only if it's a slow day !


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    AndyBoBandy
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 14,893 Mod ✭✭✭✭AndyBoBandy


    Have you ever come across any of your clients in a social environment?

    If so how did you deal with it?, was it a case of acknowledge & ignore, or avoid all contact at all cost? Or a simple, hey, how's it going to each other?


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    #58
    Liam McPoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,846 ✭✭✭✭Liam McPoyle


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    No ive never been contacted by anyone I know. I don't work on my own doorstep thou so that's probably why.
    I have one friend who knows what I do
    I'm honestly happy right now with what I'm going. I'm completely balanced. I earn good money , I can pay my bills, buy nice things . I don't smoke and rarely drink . I have a thick skin and am 100% able to put it to the back of my mind when I'm home

    Thanks for answering and doing the AMA.

    Stay safe.


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    #59
    gordongekko
    Registered Users Posts: 5,301 ✭✭✭gordongekko


    I know you dont want to talk about your personal life but in general do the escorts you know tell their partners what they do and what is their reaction if they do tell them?


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    #60
    FrKurtFahrt
    Registered Users Posts: 899 ✭✭✭FrKurtFahrt


    Do you have upper/lower age limits?
    Is sex outside of your profession as rewarding physically now?


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    #61
    JCX BXC
    Registered Users Posts: 18,105 ✭✭✭✭JCX BXC


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    What a ridiculous question ..... next

    Why exactly?


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