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Would you date a bisexual woman?

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  • #32
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    Rubberchikken wrote: »
    If you were bisexual you'd hardly need to date;)

    Why not? Genuinely curious about that logic. (Yup, I'm single in my 40s and actively dating)
    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    What has your experience dating straight women been? I kind of feel that many wouldn't be keen about dating a bi-guy.

    Few women have cared. If anything they like me more because I have broader experience, and can deal with a greater variety of personalities.

    mr_fegelien... people are individuals.. which means you won't know what they think until they tell you, and even then, they won't know fully how to express themselves. Some might care, but I've found an honest/direct conversation removes any hesitation. At the end of the day, they're with me because I make them feel good.


  • #33
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    breezy1985 wrote: »
    I have done. It was the same as a straight woman except maybe there was less not more talk of a 3some from her than any straight GF I had

    Err.. I found bisexual women talk less about threesomes and are more likely to propose one (having found someone willing already), whereas straight women are more likely to talk and talk about having one but not actually commit themselves.

    In any case, in my experience, a 3some is always a mistake because it opens the door to an open relationship, which tends to end relationships.


  • #34
    Sardonicat
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    JustAThought wrote: »
    I don’t agree with you - if your appetite streatches into something you are attracted to and your partner does not have the basix equipment to ehem deliver the good then I would imagine yu would be more likely to feel the loss/need and cheat to scratch that itch.

    You imagine wrong. I'm bisexual. I've managed to make it to nearly 50 years without cheating on or with anyone. I despise cheating. And your post is typical of the utter nonsense accusations fired at bisexuals all the time.


  • #35
    JasonStatham
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    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    Have we figured out yet if Mr. Fegelien is actually a Boards-bot designed to create discussion? I mean look at the post history. Four "interesting" topics in the last 24 hours alone. Date an alcoholic, visit an escort, sex overrated, bisexual dating, would you save a woman, minimum wage enough to live on, vasectomies, using drugs at work, dating in the workplace, LGBT people getting disowned, travelling to asia as a 'non-white', God discussion.. just seems like a trawled net of 'popular topics' discussions.


    I'm growing more suspicious as the days pass...

    Don't get me wrong - more interesting than anything I post, but still...

    It's several blokes at once I think. In After Hours there's a poster masquerading as three different people and they keep thanking each other's posts. It's sickening.

    Oh, and to answer this thread. No, I wouldn't date a bisexual woman.


  • #36
    Hello 2D Person Below
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    Have dated a couple and would do so again.

    I think bisexuals are the most misunderstood people on the planet.


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  • #37
    Spore
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    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    Being bisexual is stigmatized moreso among men than women. I wonder what you'd think of dating one.

    There's a belief that bisexual people are more likely to cheat which is false.


    Date one? I'd marry one!!!


  • #38
    Kylta
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    Have we figured out yet if Mr. Fegelien is actually a Boards-bot designed to create discussion? I mean look at the post history. Four "interesting" topics in the last 24 hours alone. Date an alcoholic, visit an escort, sex overrated, bisexual dating, would you save a woman, minimum wage enough to live on, vasectomies, using drugs at work, dating in the workplace, LGBT people getting disowned, travelling to asia as a 'non-white', God discussion.. just seems like a trawled net of 'popular topics' discussions.


    I'm growing more suspicious as the days pass...

    Don't get me wrong - more interesting than anything I post, but still...

    Jaysus, thank you, I've been saying that for ages


  • #39
    rapul
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    Been there done that, prefer things simpler these days, would ya be well!


  • #40
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    rapul wrote: »
    Been there done that, prefer things simpler these days, would ya be well!

    Simple, depends on who you're with (and what you're bringing with you)... not their sexual orientation.


  • #41
    jmlad2020
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    Personally I'd stay away as the bisexual people I do know are very confused people, who are desperate for affection and deep down don't really know what they want.

    But if I came across a strong minded one who didn't give off those vibes maybe


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  • #42
    PsychoPete
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    No because when it comes to cheating she has two genders to choose from, I don't like them odds


  • #43
    Wibbs
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    Have done and more than once. See no issue and no extra tendency to cheat either. Never mind that I can't see how it would lead to a tendency to cheat. "Oh she might get attracted to a woman". Yeah well she might get attracted to another man too.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #44
    circadian
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    PsychoPete wrote: »
    No because when it comes to cheating she has two genders to choose from, I don't like them odds

    Speaks more of your ignorance and insecurities than anything else.


  • #45
    circadian
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    jmlad2020 wrote: »
    Personally I'd stay away as the bisexual people I do know are very confused people, who are desperate for affection and deep down don't really know what they want.

    But if I came across a strong minded one who didn't give off those vibes maybe

    Jesus wept.


  • #46
    PsychoPete
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    circadian wrote: »
    Speaks more of your ignorance and insecurities than anything else.

    If she was to cheat there is a 50% chance of it being a man and a 50% chance of it being a woman, that's a 100% chance of her cheating. It's simple math


  • #47
    NickNickleby
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    Rubberchikken wrote: »
    If you were bisexual you'd hardly need to date;)

    I'm going to go out on a limb here and say "haha, I get it!". Although I suspect you knew the proper word is : hermaphrodite. (is there a himaphrodite?)


    ok, ok, I'm off topic, but I suspect its a joke thread.


  • #48
    Tpcl20
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    I'm in my thirties and everyone I know with a fulfilling love life (about four couples total, all the other relationships I've observed in my cohort have broken down or are absolutely painful) each has an open relationship.

    It requires a level of maturity, communication and honesty which a lot of people are very uncomfortable with but it suits some people perfectly. We don't get jealous when thinking of our partner with another sexual interest because we want them to have pleasurable experiences beyond what we can give them. They are most intimate with us so it is not threatening to our status. That said, watching your old doll climax uncontrollably because her friend is going down on her is a singular experience that not everybody is going to enjoy. I like to see what presses her buttons, to me it's like getting an education.

    Usually the arrangement is that you can have a sexual relationship with people of the same gender, but you must be open with your spouse about it. In my case, my wife doesn't mind if I see other women. Now that I think of it, I never bother. I'm not as pushed about it as her. She is really only attracted to women. She'd have the odd glance at a man who's really her type, but she has very little interest in them sexually and she would never pursue them.

    Before covid, we'd occasionally have friends over for a threesome. We have similar taste in women except she likes them a bit skinny whereas I prefer a nice tush. Still, I'm hardly going to complain. We would never invite anyone over who we reckon is skanky or might have the clap etc. It is a serious consideration you have to make, and once we didn't actually have sex with a girl we liked because she decided it seemed risky and gave me a signal and we made our excuses. Haven't quite been able to look that one in the eye since.. I obviously always sheathe up during a threesome but it's harder for women to have safe sex because it's fairly down and dirty stuff, so I defer to her for anything in the hygiene department. We get tested after any new partner just to make sure we're safe and it's all been fine which is terrific because the last thing you want is venereal disease, oof.

    Regrettably, I doubt we'll be getting up to any shenanigans like that for a fairly long time now.


  • #49
    Wibbs
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    PsychoPete wrote: »
    If she was to cheat there is a 50% chance of it being a man and a 50% chance of it being a woman, that's a 100% chance of her cheating. It's simple math
    Maths. And though I have dyscalculia even I can tell that's bollocks. You missed the part of your own sentence IF she were to cheat. Yes then that would be 100%. If she weren't that would be a 0% chance. Her bisexuality would have nothing to do with it. I've gone out with a few bi women(for some reason) and only one cheated and she did so with the possessor of a penis. The only other time I know was going out with a stealth slapper who cheated she was so straight you could use her as the standard for measuring straight things.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #50
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    Wibbs wrote: »
    Maths. And though I have dyscalculia even I can tell that's bollocks. You missed the part of your own sentence IF she were to cheat. Yes then that would be 100%. If she weren't that would be a 0% chance. Her bisexuality would have nothing to do with it. I've gone out with a few bi women(for some reason) and only one cheated and she did so with the possessor of a penis. The only other time I know was going out with a stealth slapper who cheated she was so straight you could use her as the standard for measuring straight things.

    I've had a variety of bisexual partners (m/f), and none of them cheated on me. I've had one woman cheat on me, and she was heterosexual.

    Anyway, the 50% logic is flawed because many bisexuals have their own preferences. So, for myself, as I get older I'm more interested in women, than men, whereas when I was younger, I was more interested in a more balanced mix, but even so, I've had a few more girlfriends than boyfriends. Same again with my casual partners. So in terms of attraction, few bisexuals would operate on a 50/50 split of the genders.

    People want to create some kind of mystique about bisexuals, like we're completely different creatures. We're individuals... just like he is. The only difference is that we don't limit ourselves to one gender... :D


  • #51
    The White Wolf
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    These threads are always the craic seeing people demonstrate who is the billy big balls. :D

    Can't see myself having an issue with it but something tells me it'd be exhausting if you're someone who can't control your thoughts.


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  • #52
    Rikand
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    I'd have no problem with it at all. A mutual interest in vaginas, we'd have something in common right away!


  • #53
    Mister Vain
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    Fecking sure I would. I'm not that fussy.

    OP's next question should be "Would you date a woman who was born a man?"


  • #54
    IAMAMORON
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    Absolutely.

    In fact I would date her as many times as she would prefer.


  • #55
    Wibbs
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    Mister Vain wrote: »
    OP's next question should be "Would you date a woman who was born a man?"
    That would be a definitive nope.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #56
    Hello 2D Person Below
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    PsychoPete wrote: »
    If she was to cheat there is a 50% chance of it being a man and a 50% chance of it being a woman, that's a 100% chance of her cheating. It's simple math

    I'm no Carl Friedrich Gauss but I daresay you've got your sums wrong.


  • #57
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    Mister Vain wrote: »
    Fecking sure I would. I'm not that fussy.

    OP's next question should be "Would you date a woman who was born a man?"

    Unlikely. Oh, I've dated Ladyboys in Asia, but that's a different scenario because they've committed to being that gender, in as many ways, they possibly can (and the culture there often supports them to be more feminine even before they transition). I find, in the west, there's far less commitment towards a full transition.. At least, I haven't met any who floated my boat.


  • #58
    IAMAMORON
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    PsychoPete wrote: »
    If she was to cheat there is a 50% chance of it being a man and a 50% chance of it being a woman, that's a 100% chance of her cheating. It's simple math

    Back to school please.

    The chance dilutes to 1 in 4.

    Throw in the mood swings and you are closer to 12.5% ( 1 in 8 ) - that is if she changes her mood exactly twice a day, as opposed to twice an hour - which is not as simple as it sounds when you diversify time between when she is eating, sleeping and riding. Ignore reading or watching telly, they are happy then - because their minds tend to be switched off.

    It is never that simple really.


  • #59
    dvdman1
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    NO.


  • #60
    Ultrflat
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    I don't have a problem with it to be honest watching your partner with another woman is pretty fun. I don't think it means their more likely to cheat. It depends on the "talk" I think to some degree You've have to be excepting that she may want to play with another woman at some point. Truthfully that wouldn't bother me all that much. Its simply a dynamic of a relationship as long as your comfortable with it and you feel your needs are meet it realistically shouldn't be a problem.

    I'd have more of a problem if she was a heavy drinker.


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  • #61
    99nsr125
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    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    Being bisexual is stigmatized moreso among men than women. I wonder what you'd think of dating one.

    There's a belief that bisexual people are more likely to cheat which is false.

    I have

    She wouldn't suck the cock and more relevant was that she was mentally unstable.

    Not sucking the cock was an issue particularly as she would elude it was beneath her.


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