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Should I chase her?

  • 05-01-2009 10:27pm
    #1
    spiderbaby21
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭


    hey id love to hear from girls r whoever on dis 1 but i was seeing a girl for 2months getn on great no mention of relationships but she new i waqs falln 4 her n tink she was d same! she had a row with her ex and 2days later told me she must b crazy not wanting to b with me but cant see me anymore cause she doesent now wat she wants! she doesent want the ex i no dat much but should i chase her knowing dere mite b something to chase after??


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  • #2
    Rb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    Ok first of all, I presume you're sitting at a computer so use the full keyboard you have infront of you, otherwise you'll just piss people off here.

    Secondly, no, don't chase her. It is, and always will be, a waste of time going after people who "don't know what they want". If she wants you, she'll come to you so for the mean time get on with your life and go meet other girls.


  • #3
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,071 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    spiderbaby21 Please use your full keyboard. Txtspeak is not allowed on this website. Thanks.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #4
    spiderbaby21
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭spiderbaby21


    sorry new to this tonight wont happen again.


  • #5
    castle
    Registered Users Posts: 497 ✭✭castle


    Only chase her if you think there is a chance to catch her.Life is to short go for it if you like it.


  • #6
    Caryatnid
    Registered Users Posts: 555 ✭✭✭Caryatnid


    spiderbaby21 wrote: »
    hey id love to hear from girls r whoever on dis 1
    You mean you'd like to hear from girls or boys? I fall into that category.

    In answer to your question - I think you should not chase her. It does not seem like she is into you. Also I wouldn't be too sure she doesn't want the ex - otherwise, how did that phonecall have such an impact on your relationship?


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  • #7
    dolliemix
    Registered Users Posts: 4,048 ✭✭✭dolliemix


    Give her some space ....let her know you like her but if she's not sure she probably needs time. If its meant to be she'll come back.


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