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13-10-2019, 19:02   #16
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That’s brilliant Joey. Not all my thing but there’s a good few that sound good.

Do you know how often the PDC Course is run? There’s one just ending this week
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27-10-2019, 07:42   #17
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That’s brilliant Joey. Not all my thing but there’s a good few that sound good.

Do you know how often the PDC Course is run? There’s one just ending this week
Maybe ring outhouse and ask them
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08-11-2019, 09:13   #18
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I remember panicking so much about this in my late teens, early 20's. Slow steps, tell people you trust and that you know will stick by you. For a long time only my closest friends and immediate family knew, and only last year that extended out to my work friends and wider range of people I know.

Being 19, looking at the internet and thinking "God, I'd never want to be that lad whose 27 and only coming out now" but, that's exactly what happened and, honestly, I'm glad it did because I don't think I was in the right space mentally to be open with people before then. Everybody is different, nobody misses the boat.
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08-11-2019, 21:28   #19
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I only started coming out, really, last year (I'm 37), and I'm still not out to everyone irl. Everyone has their own pace.
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09-11-2019, 19:48   #20
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I kind of was only sure myself a year or so ago and I guess I need to process it myself first. Went to the gay guys cafe in the outhouse today which was good
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16-11-2019, 22:21   #21
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I only started coming out, really, last year (I'm 37), and I'm still not out to everyone irl. Everyone has their own pace.
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I came out to my family last Christmas, i'm 32, and literally, last year, only realised my attraction to women, was more than just curiosity, and i've not had a relationship yet even, but when you know, you know
As for missing the boat OP, no such thing, and i'd try not worry about what others think, because those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter, won't mind
I wish you only the best, and as said above, get comfortable with it yourself first, there's no rush on you to do anything you don't feel ready for, everything in it's own good time
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Never too late.... At 91 years old https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/w3csyfd8
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