[KiKi III]

Originally Posted by Larbre34

They don't justify it either love. Riding him while unmarried is under the heading of Zina, and you'd have been stoned to death, after a hundred lashes in some islamic territories.

I love when people who have probably never been there act like they know more about a country I lived in for six years than I do.

[eviltwin]

Originally Posted by Larbre34

You were 17, he was....?

She was late 30s. Amazing person, still friends today.

[B.A._Baracus]

Originally Posted by eviltwin

She was late 30s. Amazing person, still friends today.

[KiKi III]

Originally Posted by eviltwin

She was late 30s. Amazing person, still friends today.

Oh I have a more scandalous one than that. Age gap was smaller (I was 17, he was 31) but the scandalous bit was that I knew him because he was friends with my Da.

[Kamu]

Originally Posted by KiKi III

I had an affair with a married man when I was 22. He was Muslim and we were living in a Sharia country where he could legally have had four wives (and it wasn’t uncommon with the men we knew to have more than one) so I figured a girlfriend on the side barely counted.

I wouldn’t let myself away with justifying it like that these days though.

Random question, but considering you lived in a culture where this was normal and accepted.

What do you think of men with multiple wives? Would you be the 'xth' wife?

[KiKi III]

Originally Posted by Kamu

Random question, but considering you lived in a culture where this was normal and accepted.

What do you think of men with multiple wives? Would you be the 'xth' wife?

Nope, I never considered marrying him nor he me. It was a pretty tawdry affair.

On the multiple wives thing, it’s way different than I pictured it. I always thought it was a fella with multiple wives in the one house deciding which bedroom he’d sleep in tonight. It’s rarely like that.

It’s more like a guy from Cork who works in Dublin having a wife and family in each city; the two wives often have never met or in some cases don’t even know about each other. You have to be pretty wealthy to run two homes like that, so it’s more common in oil-rich countries in the Gulf.

Technically you’re only meant to get a second wife under certain specific conditions (like if your first wife turns out to have fertility problems) but what often happens is they marry who their parents tell them to as their first wife and then for love with wife no. 2. I never met anyone with 3 or 4, I think that’s basically reserved for royalty.

[Kamu]

Originally Posted by KiKi III

Nope, I never considered marrying him nor he me. It was a pretty tawdry affair.

On the multiple wives thing, it’s way different than I pictured it. I always thought it was a fella with multiple wives in the one house deciding which bedroom he’d sleep in tonight. It’s rarely like that.

It’s more like a guy from Cork who works in Dublin having a wife and family in each city; the two wives often have never met or in some cases don’t even know about each other. You have to be pretty wealthy to run two homes like that, so it’s more common in oil-rich countries in the Gulf.

Technically you’re only meant to get a second wife under certain specific conditions (like if your first wife turns out to have fertility problems) but what often happens is they marry who their parents tell them to as their first wife and then for love with wife no. 2. I never met anyone with 3 or 4, I think that’s basically reserved for royalty.

That's actually quite interesting, thank you for the insight.

I always only saw it through a 'huh, huh, bang multiple women, be great, huh huh' viewpoint.

However, I can barely handle one women, let along try for more. Hahah

[Still waters]

Originally Posted by Kamu

That's actually quite interesting, thank you for the insight.

I always only saw it through a 'huh, huh, bang multiple women, be great, huh huh' viewpoint.

However, I can barely handle one women, let along try for more. Hahah

Jesus imagine being married to 2 or 3 of them, you'd never get a minutes peace

[Pherekydes]

Married the wrong woman.

Had an affair with a much older woman. She was 62!

[julyjane]

Climbed over a wall to get into a hurling match without paying

[julyjane]

Originally Posted by Still waters

Jesus imagine being married to 2 or 3 of them, you'd never get a minutes peace

imagine being one of the wives though, you'd get loads of peace

[igotissues]

Was broke and slept with men for money. Was quite profitable but messes with your head

[jaxxx]

I let the dogs out.

[KiKi III]

Originally Posted by Pherekydes

Married the wrong woman.

Had an affair with a much older woman. She was 62!

We can’t tell us how scandalous this is unless you tell us how old you are

[Pherekydes]

Originally Posted by KiKi III

We can’t tell us how scandalous this is unless you tell us how old you are

Totally scandalous! I was only 60.