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2 fast · 2020-01-05 21:20:27

Would you class your parents as friends now your adults or do you prefer a divide. Most ppl I know are very close to their parents but when does it become unhealthy?

05-01-2020 10:20pm

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Would you class your parents as friends now your adults or do you prefer a divide. Most ppl I know are very close to their parents but when does it become unhealthy?

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#2 06-01-2020 8:19pm

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Depends on your relationship and the people themselves. I was always close to my parents, but as an adult they were always careful to never interfere or be intrusive or try to exert undue influence over my choices. Time I spent with them was my choice, not engineered through duty or guilt. If an adults parents cast them in the role of child and themselves in a role of authority, I don't see how it's possible to have a 'friends' type relationship with them.

Everyone's different.

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