Is the OP what is called an Incel?
For what it is worth I was approached many times (married for 10 years now). Ok not every night and certainly the minoirty of nights out and so were friends of mine which I witnessed so it really is not crazy unusual in the slightest.
Only joined 10mths ago.
nearly 1000 posts + 233 thread started !?!!
The vast majority about sex/sexuality/gender ….
Its ridiculous …… And people keep posting on them !!! (yes, I know I am doing that ...right now.... )