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Loosing a pet

  • 14-01-2019 10:58pm
    #1
    simone79
    Registered Users Posts: 96 ✭✭


    Hi I found my 8 month old kitten killed on the road today I had such a close bond to him he used to follow me everywhere I'm here absolutely devastated I actually feel pain from my loss I want to ask is it normal to feel this pain so hard and will I ever get over this


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  • #2
    donkeykong5
    Registered Users Posts: 7,259 ✭✭✭donkeykong5


    simone79 wrote: »
    Hi I found my 8 month old kitten killed on the road today I had such a close bond to him he used to follow me everywhere I'm here absolutely devastated I actually feel pain from my loss I want to ask is it normal to feel this pain so hard and will I ever get over this
    That's awful. Sorry for your loss.


  • #3
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    I can relate to this Simone. I had to have my dog put down a few years ago and it broke my heart. When I got home and went to pick up his food and water bowls, I just howled. The house was so empty and lonely without him. I've lost people close to me too and I don't make any distinction between that sort of loss and a human bereavement. Animal and human bereavements are very raw

    I've lost a few pets I loved and all were very tough experiences. What I have found though is that getting over the loss of a pet is a faster process than a human bereavement. Perhaps that's why people often turn around and get another pet after a while. So in short, yes what you're feeling is very normal and yes, you'll get over this. Just give it time.


  • #4
    Purgative
    Registered Users Posts: 2,509 ✭✭✭Purgative


    Simone losing a pet is tough.


    We lost our 10 year old rescue dog 2 years ago.



    I was in bits for days after. Blood pressure went way up, couldn't do anything.



    I still miss him but those initial feelings of grief do mellow over time.


    Be kind to yourself and don't worry about how you feel.


  • #5
    OUTDOORLASS
    Registered Users Posts: 618 ✭✭✭OUTDOORLASS


    Hi Simone, In the Animal and Pet Issues section of Boards, there is a Departed Pet Thread, where people post about their
    departed pets...and where what your feeling is regularly expressed. All the best to you....


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