So this is mainly amied at the women among us (unless males feel they can help!).
Anyway, so a few years ago, I gave up on masturbation cause it really just didn't do anything for me.
Bu recently, I decided that if I really wanted to get the most out of sex with a partner I might as well try pleasing myself to the best. Particularly because of the amount of times I've heard that if you can't make yourself orgasm He'll never be able to.
Anyway, recently started using a vibrator and the difference is amazing, a lot easier to get pleasure. However, still not sure I'm reaching orgasm...
Basically, I get that legs shaking feeling for about 3-5 seconds and then it dies down.
Sorry this may be a bit graphic but ...
As well, my legs and clitoris pulse afterwards...
Kind of lost now and fed up trying... I know there are different types of orgasms etc, and maybe I am just trying too hard but I'm not pressuring myself or anything.