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Lessons you learned the hard way?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Stan27


    If some is bad, stay well away. I learnt the hard way
    .


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,720 ✭✭✭Greyfox


    Never stay too long in a job you don't like and when a women says we need to talk it means drop everything and talk and not we'll have a chat in a few days


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,458 ✭✭✭valoren


    That the only way to deal with toxic people is to not deal with them at all.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,462 ✭✭✭Bob Harris


    Don't be...
    nosey


  • Registered Users Posts: 939 ✭✭✭bitofabind


    Tony EH wrote: »
    Most people in authority haven't a clue what they're doing and just muddle through, hoping for the best, or they just don't care

    Oh a million times this. The difference between you and your boss is usually that they are more convincing in sounding like they know what they are doing. Confidence is about 80% in management.

    Judge actions, not words. Words are cheap.

    In a relationship, sometimes love is not enough.

    The best skill you can develop is to learn how to listen. To REALLY listen. If you can listen well, you will prosper in business and personal relationships.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,164 ✭✭✭Bigbagofcans


    Make sure your mickey is fully tucked in before zipping up your trousers.

    Especially if you're Twink's ex!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,168 ✭✭✭chrissb8


    Don't talk about it, just do it. The beginning is always the hardest to start. Once you've started you're away.

    Never try and dress a situation up better than it is. When the circumstances finally reveal themselves to others you are only causing more damage by lying or putting overtly positive spins on things. Just face up to it.

    Confidence is a matter of self perception. So be your biggest fan and make steps to start being the person you want to be. Never ever listen to anyone who tells you otherwise. They don't know you. You know you, what you're worth and what you want.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,128 ✭✭✭Tacitus Kilgore


    Tasers hurt.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 2,150 Mod ✭✭✭✭Oink


    Never ask advice from someone who doesn’t know how to say “I don’t know”.


  • Registered Users Posts: 24,143 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Always wash your hands after cutting chillies.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,354 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Tasers hurt.

    Stun guns aren't much better.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 426 ✭✭MrAbyss


    That going to college would improve my standard of living all throughout life. All it did was rob me of the best years of my life - with unnecessary pressures/poverty - and pigeonhole me into a world of narrow options.

    I should have been working on building sites and riding every woman with a pulse at the weekend.


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    valoren wrote: »
    That the only way to deal with toxic people is to not deal with them.
    This.


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Don't listen to anyone who tells you can't do something


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Assholes are not pretending to be assholes. Being an asshole is not more genuine or cool. Its called narcissism.


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Don't listen to anyone who tells you can't do something


    That someone is myself.


    People don't see really genuine people until its too late.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,963 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    That you never ever know what's around the corner in life, so be prepared mentally for anything.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,626 ✭✭✭✭josip


    • Electricity makes your wrist feel funny.
    • If you're on a bike, you've got to slow down for corners with chippings.


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Never get too close to someone who is an authority figure over you. Never trust them.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,793 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    Never trust a Guinness fart.

    Many's the good man got caught out.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 939 ✭✭✭bitofabind


    Probably the most important albeit cliched lesson I've learned, in both my professional and personal life, is this: Trust. Your. Gut. Always.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,318 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    Don't give anyone a second chance to break your trust.

    Ignore the begrudgers unless it's to further antagonise them.

    Leave the past in the past, you can't change it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,575 ✭✭✭monkeysnapper


    I'm probably going to get myslef into trouble here but let's go regardless.

    The shop I used to work at used to have a lane around back where we all parked our cars... some days the
    neighbor's terrier would come yapping behind me as I walked up lane to car and I just ignored it ....anyway one day the bolloxs bite me on ankle.

    At least I learned my lesson anyway , it didnt do it again after i drove my size 9.5 up its hole with my big work boots.

    And before the pet forum give out at me I could have had the mut put down.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    When the petrol light on a small car flashes it means get petrol NOW, not get petrol after you just pop up the main road through a busy town and get that other thing you came in to buy first.... :(


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Did disastrous paint job on my model kit. Paint strokes clearly visible. Revell paint btw

    Bought Revell "Paint Remover"

    Applied it but its effect is meh.

    Lesson: Do proper paint job next time


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,206 ✭✭✭SCOOP 64


    Greyfox wrote: »
    Never stay too long in a job you don't like and when a women says we need to talk it means drop everything and talk and not we'll have a chat in a few days


    Normally means your in a world of sh..t.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,160 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    you can't beat city hall


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    You never really know what the other person is thinking.


  • Registered Users Posts: 748 ✭✭✭It BeeMee


    Never play pool for money against the son of a publican


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,597 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Never let a good thing pass you by.

    First they came for the socialists...



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