Would you...

LegacyUser · 2016-02-02 21:31:28

I really hope this is the correct forum, I mean it as a serious Q (as it is my reality!) rather than an after-hours forum debate. Basically - Would you settle down with someone who has a criminal background and did time more than once? I'm trying to be open and non-judgemental as I have fallen in love with this man and we…

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#32 04-02-2016 02:54PM

njs030

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned in the already good advice is have you thought about how you'll feel when the guards come pounding into your house at 6/7am to search it?
Imagine standing there in your nightclothes while they search your underwear drawer, your make up, your work area. When they seize your laptop/tablet/ computer. You could even be taken in for questioning!
They will treat you as the girlfriend of a suspected criminal - not a hard working professional.

Also if he doesn't support the children he currently has, what makes you think he will support yours?!!

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