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Pregnant woman dies in UCHG after being refused a termination

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,893 ✭✭✭Hannibal Smith


    Who is responsible for her death? How exactly are they responsible from a medical point of view? What could they have done and didn't do that would have definitely prevented her death?

    To quote myself from another thread...

    Have you any idea the pain a miscarriage causes? you assume she was in mild discomfort? try picturing yourself in the worst physical pain possible, where your whole body feels like its on fire and your insides are actually gonna rot and that pain is only going to ease when the fetus passes. she had been going though her version for 3 days...how many more days would she have to endure it....when the baby was dying anyhow.

    Couple that with the emotions of knowing your baby is dying inside you...it would only be a matter of time before it died and you have to sit and wait. how mentally exhausting that all is.

    So never say 'just' when it comes to miscarriage it is a horrendous experience and if the laws were different in this country it may not have saved her from the sceptisima but it would have saved her from the awful trauma and spared her further anguish.

    If the new child protection referendum provides that a child has a say in whether it can be adopted...then surely women should have a say in what happens to their own bodies.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭billybudd


    gozunda wrote: »
    It was also already posted here earlier today I believe....check couple pages back...

    As an aside - the worldwide coverage of how this woman was treated will impact our international reputation as a country
    to visit, work or live in - Perhaps The Gathering project should do some rethinking....[/QUOTE]


    Wow! why should it do our international reputation any harm? you think attrocities like this do not happen every day? in every part of the world? every country in the world at one point or another violates its citizens human rights.

    The next question is, who gives a ****? we obvioulsy have a problem that needs fixing and judging by the majority of peoples anger at this then it hopefully will be dealt with, so really i couldnt give a **** what other countries think of us at this moment in time, i am just interested in this awful tragedy never happening again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 117 ✭✭frfintanstack


    Sharrow wrote: »
    Actually there are people who are using the gathering postcards to send to thier TDs saying they can't invite people to a country which lets women die like this.

    more reasonable reaction :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 346 ✭✭Big Bottom


    Something should have been done to save that poor woman.

    Id say the doctors were afraid to make the huge decision to end the pregnancy for fear of their careers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭billybudd


    Sharrow wrote: »
    Actually there are people who are using the gathering postcards to send to thier TDs saying they can't invite people to a country which lets women die like this.


    Fantastic idea, now is the time to really put TD's under preasure and not let this fade, we demand change and we shall have it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 117 ✭✭frfintanstack


    Have you any idea the pain a miscarriage causes? you assume she was in mild discomfort? try picturing yourself in the worst physical pain possible, where your whole body feels like its on fire and your insides are actually gonna rot and that pain is only going to ease when the fetus passes. she had been going though her version for 3 days...how many more days would she have to endure it....when the baby was dying anyhow.

    Most miscarriages have very little pain and can be utterly painless, in fact many women don't even realise they've had one.


    But hey go for it with the melodrama, your description describes a very rare event......dramatically.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 117 ✭✭frfintanstack


    Big Bottom wrote: »
    Something should have been done to save that poor woman.

    Id say the doctors were afraid to make the huge decision to end the pregnancy for fear of their careers.

    Doubt it, doctors manage miscarriages every day in maternity hospitals.

    The fact that this is such big news is that its such a rare event......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 662 ✭✭✭Annabella1


    Most miscarriages have very little pain and can be utterly painless, in fact many women don't even realise they've had one.


    But hey go for it with the melodrama, your description describes a very rare event......dramatically.

    This poor lady suffered a miscarraige at 17weeks causing severe hemorrhage and severe pain causing hospitalisation

    Whats your point??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,992 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    billybudd wrote: »

    Wow! why should it do our international reputation any harm? you think attrocities like this do not happen every day? in every part of the world? every country in the world at one point or another violates its citizens human rights.

    The next question is, who gives a ****? we obvioulsy have a problem that needs fixing and judging by the majority of peoples anger at this then it hopefully will be dealt with, so really i couldnt give a **** what other countries think of us at this moment in time, i am just interested in this awful tragedy never happening again.


    BB thanks for that - you appear to have been a mine of amazing detail - none of which I'm afraid I have paid a blind bit of notice to date tbh...no offence intended

    However as you have replied to my last post I will suggest that with regard to our international reputation - it's taken hell of a battering - take a look at every single major newspaper / TV channel worldwide. Rightly or wrongly Ireland has come out as a medieval backwater with a belief system to match. Only a fully transparent response and action by the government to this horrendous matter is likely to help regain this.

    This is supposed to be the Year of the Gathering when we persuade poor benighted escapees to return so that they can hand over their well earned dosh so that we can continue paying developers to build mansions in bogs in the national interest.

    As you have asked I for one give a Shyte. I know plenty others both here and abroad who are also. The more pressure nationally and internationally brought on this dank little island and its corrupt and bankrupt systems the better for all of us imo.

    I like the Gathering postcard idea...the rubbed in detritus that they have gathered in the bin adds a certain pathos...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,992 ✭✭✭✭partyatmygaff


    Have you any idea the pain a miscarriage causes? you assume she was in mild discomfort? try picturing yourself in the worst physical pain possible, where your whole body feels like its on fire and your insides are actually gonna rot and that pain is only going to ease when the fetus passes. she had been going though her version for 3 days...how many more days would she have to endure it....when the baby was dying anyhow.
    When did I assume she was in mild discomfort? I didn't actually say that at all and you just invented it out of thin air.

    What I actually said was "At this point, it doesn't appear she was in abnormally huge pain." which is a perfectly acceptable description relatively speaking unless you consider the pain of a miscarriage to be equivalent to the the final stages of septicaemia. She initially presented with back pain which wasn't necessarily caused as a result of the miscarriage. Pain in the lower back is often one of the early symptoms of septicaemia.
    Couple that with the emotions of knowing your baby is dying inside you...it would only be a matter of time before it died and you have to sit and wait. how mentally exhausting that all is.
    What's even more mentally exhausting is realising you have septicaemia and seeing yourself deteriorate so rapidly. Being a dentist, even in the awful state she was in, i'm sure she would have had some idea of what has happening and her prognosis all the way through.
    So never say 'just' when it comes to miscarriage it is a horrendous experience and if the laws were different in this country it may not have saved her from the sceptisima but it would have saved her from the awful trauma and spared her further anguish.
    I didn't even use the word "just" in my post let alone make it out that miscarriage is a little thing :confused:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,536 ✭✭✭SomethingElse


    Hey, I posted this earlier, but does anyone know how it took so long for this story to filter through to the media? According to the reports, the woman died in October. Was there an inquiry in the interim?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 420 ✭✭Clarehobo


    I have to agree that this "catholic" quote seems so strange. There is no real surprise that there is so much speculation about it. The image in my mind is some Irish doctor replying after being asked to be perform an abortion "no, this is a Catholic country" just does not sit right.

    Is it possible the doctor was even not Irish? Is it possible as you say that when refusing to perform an abortion, the doctor was asked why we have strict laws and they simply stated the link between the predominant religion and abortion laws?

    To be honest about it, there are doctors in this country that hide behind their religion: like the case of the woman who was denied the MAP by her doctor. And the fact that in Ireland they would carry out symphysiotomies when they could easily have carried out cesareans, because a cesarean can only be carried out a few times.
    Religious beliefs are actually quite a scary influence on medical care - you should never be forced to undergo torturous procedures or to travel farther afield to seek medical aid for no good reason.

    My take on this whole situation is this: my father is a farmer. If he had an animal miscarrying/in pain for any amount of time and he could see that the creature was in distress, he would call the vet and have the animal cared for.

    What sort of medical professionals can leave any person: man, woman or child in such unnecessary pain for such a prolonged duration when they could have resolved it at the start? They told them at the start the foetus would not survive. Why drag out her pain and suffering? Even if she hadn't died, it is inhumane in the extreme to fail/refuse to use your medical expertise to resolve the situation as quickly as possible.

    At the end of the day, if any government of the last 20 years had legislated properly, the doctors could not have denied her care on the "fear of being prosecuted" defence. It may not have saved her life, but then again it may have. I'd prefer to know that whoever is taking care of me would do their utmost to ensure I was not in pain or danger if it was within their ability.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,992 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    When did I assume she was in mild discomfort? I didn't actually say that at all and you just invented it out of thin air.

    What I actually said was "At this point, it doesn't appear she was in abnormally huge pain." which is a perfectly acceptable description relatively speaking unless you consider the pain of a miscarriage to be equivalent to the the final stages of septicaemia. She initially presented with back pain which wasn't necessarily caused as a result of the miscarriage. Pain in the lower back is often one of the early symptoms of septicaemia.

    What's even more mentally exhausting is realising you have septicaemia and seeing yourself deteriorate so rapidly. Being a dentist, even in the awful state she was in, i'm sure she would have had some idea of what has happening and her prognosis all the way through.

    I didn't even use the word "just" in my post let alone make it out that miscarriage is a little thing :confused:


    "Abnormally Huge Pain" wow - is that a medical term or a diagnosis?

    Excuse me if I don't take the rest of your argument seriously..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,090 ✭✭✭jill_valentine


    Hey, I posted this earlier, but does anyone know how it took so long for this story to filter through to the media? According to the reports, the woman died in October. Was there an inquiry in the interim?

    It seems to only have come to light because the husband decided to go to the press with it, and to be fair to him, presumably he had more immediate things on his mind for the last few weeks.

    The other stories that have emerged on radio etc since would suggest that it's not an isolated occurrence, so it would seem that the media was either not previously aware of or willing to investigate and report on situations like it that have been occurring until now. So AFAIK, it wasn't so much a delay in the press breaking the story as it was that it took him a while to come forward with it.

    Had he not done so, it would have been business as usual and we likely never would have known about it at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,992 ✭✭✭✭partyatmygaff


    gozunda wrote: »
    "Abnormally Huge Pain" wow - is that a medical term or a diagnosis?
    "Pain" cannot be a diagnosis. Pain is a symptom, not a condition.

    As for "abnormally huge" it was the first term that came to me for describing a particularly high level of pain that still paled in comparison to the pain of advanced septicaemia.
    Excuse me if I don't take the rest of your argument seriously..
    No need to excuse yourself. Not having incredibly fragile sensibilities and being able to handle incredibly unorthodox terms like "abnormally huge pain" isn't for everyone after all :D

    Edit: I even changed it to "At this point, it didn't seem that her level of pain was as debilitating as it was from Tuesday evening on.". Better?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,536 ✭✭✭SomethingElse


    It seems to only have come to light because the husband decided to go to the press with it, and to be fair to him, presumably he had more immediate things on his mind for the last few weeks.

    The other stories that have emerged on radio etc since would suggest that it's not an isolated occurrence, so it would seem that the media was either not previously aware of or willing to investigate and report on situations like it that have been occurring until now. So AFAIK, it wasn't so much a delay in the press breaking the story as it was that it took him a while to come forward with it.

    Do you know if it originated in the Irish media or the international media?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,635 ✭✭✭✭Cookie_Monster


    Indian news isn't exactly holding back on this
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=81765677&postcount=2202


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,327 ✭✭✭Madam_X


    Do you know if it originated in the Irish media or the international media?
    Irish Times as far as I know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,090 ✭✭✭jill_valentine


    Do you know if it originated in the Irish media or the international media?

    As far as I'm aware, and I stand to be corrected, the first mention of it was Vincent Brown in advance of the Irish Times story going out the following morning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,860 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    Indian news isn't exactly holding back on this
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=81765677&postcount=2202
    India would be better off getting its own house in order.

    Clean drinking water.

    Poverty.


    Shanty towns.


    Child labour laws.


    But they do have a belter of a nuclear weapons program.:rolleyes:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,327 ✭✭✭Madam_X


    Well I dislike that trashy headline too, however Indian hospitals would have allowed a termination, but really the back and forth good/bad points about each country are irrelevant ultimately to this tragedy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,992 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    "Pain" cannot be a diagnosis. Pain is a symptom, not a condition.

    As for "abnormally huge" it was the first term that came to me for describing a particularly high level of pain that still paled in comparison to the pain of advanced septicaemia.

    No need to excuse yourself. Not having incredibly fragile sensibilities and being able to handle incredibly unorthodox terms like "abnormally huge pain" isn't for everyone after all :D

    By diagnosis I was referring to the determination of a specific level of pain as in "abnormally huge" as opposed to say "abysmally little" for example

    Hmmm So you are actually telling me its not a medical term :?

    Out of interest are you a medical professional is the above a selection your own opinions?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,253 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    Most miscarriages have very little pain and can be utterly painless, in fact many women don't even realise they've had one.

    How many miscarriages have you had?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,374 ✭✭✭InReality


    My feeling is that the asking for a termination freaked the docs. If she and her husband had just asked for a second opinion instead , another doc might have done whatever was needed.
    Its a sad case.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,992 ✭✭✭✭partyatmygaff


    gozunda wrote: »
    So you are actually telling me its not a medical term :?

    Out of interest are you a medical professional is the above a selection your own opinions?
    At the moment, just a student and that's my opinion on the case.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,635 ✭✭✭✭Cookie_Monster


    this story even made the paper today out here in New Plymouth which is really unusual for any non rugby related story


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,992 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    At the moment, just a student and that's my opinion on the case.

    Medical student?


  • Site Banned Posts: 154 ✭✭EEm


    Hi, just wondering did she die because she didn't get rid of the baby? Or what?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    THis is an absolute disgrace to be honest. I understand the doctors were bound by law but to be honest I would prefer if medics operated by science rather than some worthless anti human law. Medics should have precedence over some catholic bs. Im not happy that one Doctor aparantly said "this is a catholic country".

    Im no doctor but Im a biological scientist and hope to research diseases and I can safely say I wouldnt pay heed to some fairy tale law if it possibly meant the death of a human life.

    Im not religious at all but I love a particualr bible expression that sums it up " The law was made for man, not man for the law". Man supercedes law, end of.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 346 ✭✭petersburg2002


    Indian news isn't exactly holding back on this
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=81765677&postcount=2202

    Pot calling kettle black. Perhaps they should sort their child slavery problem and their own scandalous treatment of women and girls before lecturing the rest of the world.

    http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2011/10/201110415385524923.html


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