what girls wear on a night out - guys opinion

Professey Chin · 31-12-2008 04:29PM

liah wrote: »

I never really dress like that. I seem to do just fine in my regular jeans, converse, leather jacket and scarf. Totally covered, but it works out just fine (insofar that it gets to the point of being annoying) for me.

Makes me wonder what I could do if I dressed the part...

This I also wonder and would like to see :pac:

BennyLava · 31-12-2008 04:50PM

Despite what they may say, most hetro guys,given a choice, would prefer to surrounded by good looking girls wearing short skirts and low cut tops, actually good looking girls in bin bags would be good to

gives us a warm feeling inside

,
dosn't mean those girls are tarts or anything
I hate it when people, men or women judge others by what they wear, tends to say more about them than anything else, its very school yard:)

allabouteve · 31-12-2008 04:55PM

BennyLava wrote: »

Despite what they may say, most hetro guys,given a choice, would prefer to surrounded by good looking girls wearing short skirts and low cut tops, actually good looking girls in bin bags would be good to

gives us a warm feeling inside ,
dosn't mean those girls are tarts or anything
I hate it when people, men or women judge others by what they wear, tends to say more about them than anything else, its very school yard:)

Very very school yard.

The thing that gets me going is the fact that its other women talking about how men judge, when as far as I can see, its generally other women that are far more judgemental about how others dress, especially if the girl in the short dress and sexy shoes is better looking than they are.

Claws out, catty remarks,morality questioned, judgements made.

Berty · 31-12-2008 04:56PM

BennyLava wrote: »

Despite what they may say, most hetro guys,given a choice, would prefer to surrounded by good looking girls wearing short skirts and low cut tops,

I disagree. Me and my hetro friends do not like seeing girls dressed like this. We may say "oh, look at that, i'd give that one" but thats about it. They are only good for one thing. You would not want to bring one home to your mother.

It all depends on the bloke. I prefer a well dressed girl with a bit of class and decorum. Other guys depending on their social class and upbringing may enjoy a girl dressed differently.

31-12-2008 05:00PM

Berty wrote: »

It all depends on the bloke. I prefer a well dressed girl with a bit of class and decorum. Other guys depending on their social class and upbringing may enjoy a girl dressed differently.

haha! that's hilarious,
oh no sir, too posh for me!

BennyLava · 31-12-2008 05:03PM

Berty are you 15? :eek: :rolleyes:

Honestly man, get out and explore the world, and get over yourself:D

Berty · 31-12-2008 05:05PM

Deleted User wrote: »

haha! that's hilarious,
oh no sir, too posh for me!

Yeah definately. My OH family are from a "deprived area" and when we visit we often get asked "oh, are you going out tonight?" when we are just dressed smartly. I called to her my GF's sister in laws house one day and one of the neighbours asked what a detective was calling to the house for because I was wearing a suit.

My brothers in law and I have been in the pub loads of times when they say "aw man, look at her" and I turn around to see some girl with a tracksuit and gold chains and hoopy ear rings or short skirt, boob tube and hoopy earrings. I find that very unatractive.

I might see a girl dressed (IMO) nicely on a night out and they would think she's a posh bitch.

Horses for courses.

Berty · 31-12-2008 05:07PM

BennyLava wrote: »

Berty are you 15? :eek: :rolleyes:

Honestly man, get out and explore the world, and get over yourself:D

No, I have standards and girls dressed like common whores are not very attractive.

EDIT: because bennylava does not read posts, rather takes them into his own context then I will repeat "dressed like" common whores not actually calling them common whores.

BennyLava · 31-12-2008 05:18PM

Berty wrote: »

No, I have standards and girls dressed like common whores are not very attractive.

EDIT: because bennylava does not read posts, rather takes them into his own context then I will repeat "dressed like" common whores not actually calling them common whores.

"dressed like" common whores, nice

"clothes maketh the man" etc... enjoy your New Years:)

michael_23 · 31-12-2008 05:20PM

From a lads point of view I really think it depends on how a girl carries herself. I see many girls dress with similar length skirts but they hold themselves very differently. Some girls can pull off

a short mini with class and elegance (Kate Moss) where as some cant(loud, perma tanned Jodie Marsh types!!)

BennyLava · 31-12-2008 05:32PM

Good point Michael, more about the woman than the clothes:)

FGR · 31-12-2008 05:46PM

A lot of girls are into wearing not-too-mini skirts with black tights and heels/boots.

Quite respectable and more classy looking than jeans Imo.

Kold · 31-12-2008 05:49PM

When a girl is trying too hard for attention it turns me off to be honest. This whole wearing barely anything and dancing sexily with your best friend, f*ck off, you know exactly what you're doing. Boosting your own egos. I think the guys that cater for it are pathetic too. These same chicks then complain about how the only men they attract are douchebags.

Xavi6 · 31-12-2008 05:54PM

Tits are tits and if they're on show I'm gonna look and enjoy it. Any red blooded male would.

However that girl would be chalked off as girlfirend material. Generalisation? Most definitely but if you don't want to be branded a slapper then don't dress like one.

wylo · 31-12-2008 05:55PM

galaxyminstrels wrote: »

Ok looking for a guys opinion here,
had this debate with some male friends last night and they said they do not like seeing girls wearing mini dresses, bare legs or high heels as it gives off the impression they are "easy".
I disagreed for simple reason is that any of the girls they fancy and end up with wear short dresses etc.
They said they prefer nice jeans and top, longer dresses that come just below the knee etc.
So guys, what impression do you get from a girl who wears clothes that show legs/ boobs etc?
Easy or just showing off what they have?!

Your friends fancy you

Wompa1 · 31-12-2008 06:10PM

allabouteve wrote: »

Very very school yard.

The thing that gets me going is the fact that its other women talking about how men judge, when as far as I can see, its generally other women that are far more judgemental about how others dress, especially if the girl in the short dress and sexy shoes is better looking than they are.

Claws out, catty remarks,morality questioned, judgements made.

Yeah thats what I think aswell about women being more judgemental of other women. My girlfriend was talking to me before and mentioned some dress she was wearing some night and I was like I can't remember what I was wearing 3 days ago let alone what you were wearing 4 months ago. And I said nobody would then she asked her friend beside us if she remembered what she wore and she did...feckin women I tells ya!

jester77 · 31-12-2008 06:25PM

I couldn't care less what she wore the night before, once she looks good cooking the brekkie in the morning!

Dudess · 31-12-2008 07:20PM

I'm getting the impression some guys here truly believe skimpy clothes = guaranteed shag, and more modest clothes means legs firmly shut for the night.

Those guys... how should I put it?... don't have much experience of the opposite sex it would seem. Bless.

31-12-2008 07:23PM

Dudess wrote: »

I'm getting the impression some guys here truly believe skimpy clothes = guaranteed shag, and more modest clothes means legs firmly shut for the night.

Those guys... how should I put it?... don't have much experience of the opposite sex it would seem. Bless.

Indeed.

I've met thousands of gamey nuns!

m5ex9oqjawdg2i · 31-12-2008 07:24PM

Well something to look at is nice, but not too much, yea? Let the imagination run wild.

Dresses are nice, not too long though. Jeaans are meh, not great. boob tube and micro are no no's. Mini skirt and a top is nice. Rules are, show your tits OR your legs, not both

Aisling(",) · 31-12-2008 07:40PM

I've found that among people of my age group 17/18/19 that people find it strange when you dont wear a skirt/shorts/dress on a night out.Went to a girl in my years birthday a few weeks ago wearing heels,jeans a corset and a cardigan and many commented on the fact i was wearing jeans.i did find lads paid less attention to me then if i was in a short skirt though so i think that dressing with a bit more skin on show does attract lads but not always for the right reasons.

GirlInterrupted · 31-12-2008 07:58PM

Darragh29 wrote: »

I've a load of single mates and I've never seen them 'targetting' the most attractive women in the place. Often these girls get put aside because a brief conversation will reveal that they are airheads who can't hold a conversation and they tend to know they are good looking and are gold diggers. It's not down to the tights or the mini or the heels, it's down to a conversation I think.

Not terribly fair. Attractive doesn't equal airhead, or rude, or disdainful, or dismissive or anything negative at all.

Perhaps the problem lies with the type of approach.

Ellie The Mess · 09-04-2009 02:39PM

Mmm...I'm not a guy but I think it really depends on what signals the said girls send: it's not just the clothes, it's the behaviour, the way girls talk etc...if your dressed slutty but stay composed and demostrate a certain degree of intelligence even in small conversations then you dont come across as easy...

But I'm a girl and I'm probably wrong...

Anyway...I might be hated for this but love handles and rounds of fat coming out of a mini skirt are a "oh god no no please"...no one likes to look like (look at) a squeezed sausage.

Ass · 09-04-2009 02:46PM

Working in a shop, beside a rather well known under 18 kiddies disco in south dublin, it's usually the kids going to these events who dress like whores. Most people 18+ dress fairly respectable when they're out. I'm comparing the kids sense of dress to the likes you'd see in coppers or somewhere. I don't know how their parents let them out the door wearing what you'd see half of them wearing.

smileysurfer · 09-04-2009 02:46PM

Dudess wrote: »

I'm getting the impression some guys here truly believe skimpy clothes = guaranteed shag, and more modest clothes means legs firmly shut for the night.

Those guys... how should I put it?... don't have much experience of the opposite sex it would seem. Bless.

+1

Its a ridiculous notion really!!

Chocoholic84 · 09-04-2009 02:47PM

I'm a girl and while I like to look good on a night out, I don't think it necessary to flash alot of flesh! I would usually wear a dress, (either that shows a lot of leg OR cleavage, but not both at the same time, huge no-no!)

Tbh, if I see girls stalking around in tiny skirt/pants along with, erm, not very much of a top, I would think they're easy and obviously out for the shag!

Ass · 09-04-2009 02:49PM

How about the girls in here crapping on about how they like to dress like absolute whores but are not "easy" put their money where their mouth is and post pictures and let after hours be the judge.

Loomis · 09-04-2009 02:50PM

"A girl walks by and man she looks good. Not good in that classical way. I mean, you know, I'm talking she got half her ass hanging out her skirt, her titties are all mashed together, popping out the top of her turtle neck 'n ****.
You're out with your buddies and had a couple of drinks and figure if you talk to her it might not come out right like "Damn look at those titties."

Oh uh uh wait a minute, just cause I'm dress this way does not make me a whore.

Which is true. Gentlemen that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies you must understand that that is ****ing confusing. It just is.

That would be like me, Dave Chapelle the comedian, walking around the streets in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me "Oh thank God officer, help us. They're over here. Help us."

Just cause I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer.

You understand what I'm saying? Ladies fine, you are not a whore. But you are wearing a whores uniform. Misunderstandings can happen."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OBPaenkxdg

Professey Chin · 09-04-2009 02:55PM

ZOMBIE THREAD!!!!! :eek: :eek:

Oh and I agree with Ass' idea 2 posts thataway ^

smileysurfer · 09-04-2009 02:56PM

Ass wrote: »

How about the girls in here crapping on about how they like to dress like absolute whores but are not "easy" put their money where their mouth is and post pictures and let after hours be the judge.

Do you just want a free perve?? :rolleyes:

what girls wear on a night out - guys opinion

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