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Did you enjoy your school days?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,130 ✭✭✭silliussoddius


    I found that the most psychotic of the teachers were those who taught the manly subjects like woodwork and metalwork. It seemed like some of them should never have been allowed near kids, probably had chips on their shoulders for being the failed priest of the family.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,551 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,519 ✭✭✭phormium


    Hated school and my mother was a primary teacher! What made it worse was my sister absolutely loved it and to this day says she can't understand why someone wouldn't like school.

    Nothing untoward went on, teachers made sure not to pick on me with my mother a teacher but even at that I hated it, could never understand that 'best years of your life' line other than you were young with no adult responsibilites sort of meaning.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,217 ✭✭✭Eggs For Dinner


    I hated every aspect of it from day one. Christian Brothers in the 70's. No further explanation required



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,914 ✭✭✭Sgt Hartman


    In Primary school in CBS Limerick there was some nasty teachers who seemed to get a buzz out of punishing students. One female teacher in particular had big knobby rings on her fingers that she would use to give misbehaving students a knuckle over the head with. Another teacher I had in 5th and sixth class used to love dishing out long laborious lines to students. An example would be “I got these hundred lines because I was being loud, giddy and disruptive in class”. I once wrote out 100 instead of the word Hundred and the petty bollix made me write out the word Hundred one hundred times.
    In secondary school the teachers were marginally better but some of the students in my class were a pack of absolute nasty fcukers. It didn’t help that I was shy and socially awkward at the time, going through some crap at home also due to my brother and Dad fighting every Thursday night after my brother got home blind drunk after getting his wages in work that day. I was terrified of my art teacher also. She put me off of art for over twelve years. My German teacher was a condescending bully as well. On the bright side though my Maths, Science and English teachers were brilliant, as was my headmaster at the school. I enjoyed PE also, especially swimming, indoor hockey and badminton. I was crap at soccer and even worse at basketball but I still enjoyed it. I’m still friendly with some of my old classmates there but to be honest I never want to see the majority of them ever again.
    My college years however were the best years of my life, it was so liberating compared to school. I also met my best friend at college, someone who I still consider my best friend to this day.

    Anyway I don’t want to be bitter about it anymore. I’m in a far better place now than I was back then, and, if you excuse the bad pun, it was a valuable “learning” experience, especially about people.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,130 ✭✭✭silliussoddius


    I remember being in a college class and the lecturer left for a few minutes, everyone sat there either in silence or having a normal chat. In my last year at secondary school, if a teacher left then everyone would go crazy. I wonder did people mature a lot in those years or was the lecturers attitude of treating people as mature add to it (don't get me wrong, some of those secondary school students should have been treated as morons).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 397 ✭✭thoneaseessi


    The old schoolyard in Manchester wasnt a very enlightened place

    The whole trans thing is very depressing right now



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭phelixoflaherty




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,075 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    I’d agree with this- secondary school was easily the most vicious, relentless bullying atmosphere I’ve ever endured. It’s really only when you leave it that you realise how abnormal it all was. Hopefully things are better now than in the late 90s/early 00s. The bullying and picking on some guys got was ferocious-definitely bad enough for the law to be involved with regard to the violence and physical abuse



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,854 ✭✭✭SupaCat95


    No no, the Irish teachers have that market cornered. Anti British indoctrination at its finest. Proof the RC Church has standards.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,854 ✭✭✭SupaCat95


    I hated my school it was condemned by the SEHB about 8 years before I arrived. I harbour a particular hatered for that dumb Irish teacher from the Gaeltacht that had the body odour problem of a sweaty pig. I just wished he had access to soap and toothpaste. He used to ridicule the students who didnt do "Onorocha". You would swear he had the teaching fervour of Rev. Ian Paisley. Told the mother of one of the girls doing honours Maths she would never amount to anything.

    Long Story short He got to be VP in a different Vocational School. Shortly afterwards he was embroiled in a war of words with the local paper and Parents association and was lampooned. They had to VER (Voluntary Early Retire) him because they couldnt sack him so they paid him to FO!. Mad as a Hatter, Filthy Animal, even married his cousin. Embarrassed for his granny for having his mother for having him.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 997 ✭✭✭angel eyes 2012


    I think I'm the opposite of most here! I enjoyed my school days, still have friends from school that are life-long friends. I didn't really enjoy college. I never encountered bullying in life until a I joined a toxic workplace where I endured a hellish existence for a couple of years.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,428 ✭✭✭extra-ordinary_


    Wouldn't say "best days" but definitely had some great fun in school. Primary school was boys and girls which I really liked and I had a great time there. It helped that it was in the area and that all my siblings had already gone through it before me. I then went to an all-boys secondary school which was Christian Brothers, where I had a very different experience, as it was away from the area and I didn't know anyone. I made the best of it but was getting in trouble and messing as well. I was doing the work but not really fully applying myself. I have an endearing memory of small break in the morning where we would pull a bit of the skirting off the back wall of the classroom and start playing cricket with the duster with everyone scarpering out of the room. We had some absolutely great laughs. I had the opportunity of moving schools after my Inter so was excited to go somewhere new and it had girls as well! This new mixed school for my leaving cert felt like a holiday camp after the Christian Brothers, so I took full advantage, and ended up getting thrown out a year later. At the time I was delighted but I definitely did feel some rejection. Looking back later as an adult, I wished my parents had done more, and that it was really a shocking thing to do to any young person in their final year of secondary education.

    Another teacher I had in 5th and sixth class used to love dishing out long laborious lines to students. An example would be “I got these hundred lines because I was being loud, giddy and disruptive in class”. I once wrote out 100 instead of the word Hundred and the petty bollix made me write out the word Hundred one hundred times.

    I do remember taping three or as many pens together as possible made short work of lines!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,880 ✭✭✭✭ednwireland


    no ! wasnt the most social or brightest so wasnt for me

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,362 ✭✭✭waywill1966


    hated school with a passion , didn’t get all that catholic/gaa emphasis. Headmaster telling us you must be involved in gaa if you want to get on, networking, contacts etc. That was BS as it never held me or anyone I knew back, that didn’t play gaa.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,546 ✭✭✭AyeGer


    I only enjoyed the Leaving Cert year.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,362 ✭✭✭waywill1966


    I was caught reading a Stephen King book in woodwork and the loony teacher who we imaginatively called Woody grabbed it and put it through the saw, handed it back and said ‘there’s a horror story for you’



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,702 ✭✭✭Tork


    Enjoy is too strong a word for my schooldays but I have nothing particularly negative to say about them. None of the teachers I had were psychos, though there was one particular one whose temper was legendary. What I do miss is the simplicity of life in those days. There are still times when I'd love to sit back and have mammy and daddy take care of everything for me. Having to be an adult and being forced to be responsible for myself and others is a pain in the backside.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,315 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    GAA was pretty much obligatory in my school too. My headmaster used to practically beat us onto the pitch. He was a big fúcker too, a bit like Mr Gilbert from The Inbetweeners. There were two boys in particular that were always causing trouble. Jasus he gave them some awful beatings.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,743 ✭✭✭✭Tony EH


    Got bullied in primary by some little scrote. Used to make my life hell when the 3 o'clock alarm went for home time. Tried to avoid him as best I could. But one day I crossed his path on the way home and he started his usual crap. I'd had enough of this nonsense by this stage and fired off a punch and clocked him in the side of the head. He shat himself and went running into the road and nearly under a truck, which had to screech to a halt.

    After that he wanted to be my "friend" and asked if he could come over to the house. I wasn't having any of that and later in life realised that he was just a sad git.

    Secondary was a breeze though. I was into heavy metal and had long hair, but I used to trade tapes with the other cliques. Lads that were into Madness and The Specials and whatnot and others that were into Bob Marley. There were a group of girls I used to hang out with that were into The Smiths and The Cure and I started listening to that stuff too. I still listen to most of the stuff I listened to back then.

    Subject wise, I was fine with most. But I absolutely loathed maths and Irish. Hated those periods with a passion. And I hated the way they were taught too. I'd say a good 90% of what's taught in a secondary maths class, you'll never have to use again in your life unless you go study it in some way in college. And Irish, don't get me started on that.

    Secondary was a good time for the most part. Made a lot of friends, started going with girls. They were exciting times. All in all, though, I wouldn't want to go back and do it all again.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,241 ✭✭✭chrissb8


    When people say the best days of your life, I think they mean the most influential time of your life. Every year was a massive change physically, mentally, and socially.

    With an objective lens, there was a lot of nervousness, awkwardness, timidness, insecurity and a lot of boredom.

    I can't say I enjoyed school that much, 6th year was great but that was because it was ending. I got a hard time at points, and couple that with being overtly sensitive and just naive it wasn't a good mix. Came into my own towards the end as mentioned enjoying the last year. But still have life long friends from school so can't completely discredit it.

    A lot of first-time experiences and memories in and around school, which are memories wrapped in clover. But school itself? No I found the all male environment stifling and be this way or get out of the way attitude frustrating.

    But in all honesty as someone who finally grasped a full sense of who they are and the confidence that goes with that in my late 20s my 30s have been great thus far. Finally feel I've "landed" and not 2nd guessing myself continuously.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,631 ✭✭✭Lewis_Benson


    Seeing lads talking about CBS and corporal punishment reminds me of a teacher who was in our secondary school.

    He was a throwback to those days and roared and shouted all the time used to threaten to bate lads who stepped out of line.

    He tried it on with the wrong lad one time, big country fella who wasnt afraid to give it back. Ended up injuring the teacher and got a long suspension.

    I didn't have yer man for any subject the next year so I dont know how that ended up.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 343 ✭✭Feets


    Loved going to school...go early...hang out. It was all about the friends for me.



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 14,059 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Single-sex schools are archaic, outdated, a legacy of inequality and are deeply rooted in organised religion which did tremendous and lasting damage to Irish society in the 19th and 20th centuries.

    They have no place in the 21st century.
    The same goes for school uniforms - archaic, Victorian nonsense.

    The fact that the Catholic Church still has control over much of our primary and secondary education system in Ireland in the year 2025 beggars belief after all we now know of the most horrific abuse meted out to generations of children in their institutions, including children being murdered and babies being tossed into septic tanks.

    Generations of Irish children were "educated" through fear, coercion and physical abuse.

    Continuing church control over our primary and secondary education system is a scandal that our spineless government with zero sense of vision or leadership has utterly failed to tackle head-on.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,075 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    I can see some advantages to single sex schools (I’d say girls possibly do better in them academically), I’d imagine bullying is a good deal less in mixed schools and they prepare you for the real world where all workplaces are mixed sex.
    School uniforms I don’t agree are archaic- lots of workplaces have uniforms so it’s no different-they’re functional, handy and remove a lot of the brand snobbery and competition



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,601 ✭✭✭ShagNastii


    I enjoyed school. School was me was fairly fun. I was a complete inbetweener. Played sport and got on with the GAA/rugby lads and was a bit of a metal head so fit there too.

    Absolutely sailed aimlessly through the academic side. Pissed about without being a waster. The school I went to wasn't great (very middle of the road) and I didn't find drive or ambition until I got into college and the working world.

    I truly believe that is what you are getting with private education. Not so much a better education but you are in an environment where everyone is told and is expected to do great things.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,769 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    undiagnosed autism, add and dyslexia, so school wasnt all that nice, extremely stressful, even traumatic



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,849 ✭✭✭✭Red Silurian


    My introduction to science in first year and applied maths in 4th year really paved the way for the person I am and the career I have today. Unfortunately when I think of school today I think of having to learn poetry, plays and novels which almost makes me sick to my stomach.

    The school system of education I think is largely broken, the optional subjects are what got me through my school life while the core/mandatory language subjects were a complete dose of crap that I haven't used since scraping through them in the leaving cert.

    Only for kicking a ball around at lunch time I probably would have gone into meltdown



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,566 ✭✭✭daithi7


    Unlike most here, overall I loved school & my schooldays. It probably helped that I was a good athlete & student, & applied myself at both. I laugh now at how ambitious & competitive I was back then :). I also used to play competive sports e.g. athletics, during my school holidays. So overall school, while far from perfect, was very fulfilling in itself, & also set me up very well for college & life tbh.

    I still have a gang of school friends who I still meet & socialise with ~40 years later. We mostly go to matches or gigs together. There are 7 of us going off sailing for a week next month in Spain, who all went to school together, so they must have done something right!!



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,566 ✭✭✭daithi7


    Maybe, but boys (who are struggling academically in school in general) do far better academically in single sex schools than mixed schools. So there seems to be a place for them.



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