Partner has temper/Smashed up property

Honestly I feel stressed reading them, at best you could keep her as a distant friend if she has other good qualities, she might be a good match for someone else, but if it were me, I think get out. She's just too intense imo

Yes she was. I've a sister exactly like that, two marriages and one child later she lives in a flat on her own drinking white wine like water. One husband a really quiet decent guy is in the grave. Run jimbob run like the wind.

She's just lashed out a bit. She's erm...passionate shall we say.

Theres a world of difference smashing something against the wall and smashing it against you. She probably refrains from throwing vases at you out of pure love.

Perhaps you can be grateful she's found a way of getting your own ridiculous behaviour off her chest :)

I disagree with the other posters. I think you should stick.

Thread is getting a bit misogynistic. Crazy women great in bed, blah blah stereotypes.

Advice should be the same to a man or woman experiencing red flags like this - go.

Just for anyone reading this in future: Dom(me)s should be calm and controlled at all times. Someone who cannot control their temper have no place being in a position of trust and power. Boundaries and limited are extremely important in BDSM, and if she can't follow regular boundaries in normal life, there is no way she should be allowed near a person in a vulnerable position.

OP, you say you will break it off and that is absolutely the correct thing to do. However, it might be worth exploring why you felt someone smashing things and exhibiting unstable behaviour was justifiable to you at all, and how you might be able to recognise it in future.

You say she has a lot of good qualities, and she probably does. The thing is, most people are not all bad and evil. Even in the worst of DV situations, there are good qualities to a person. It's important to know that the good doesn't justify that level of bad.

ah theres clearly some sort of psychological issues going on there, could be bpd or god only knows what, not easy disorders to be dealing with unfortunately, and generally require professional help to resolve, so this is probably where you re at, it could be time for an adult conversation about getting that professional help, thats if you want the relation to survive! best of luck

If she behaves like this in six months relationship, you can assume, you didn't cause it (I mean you didn't cause dealing in this way with problems and you very likely didn't cause this high level of her aggression), so it is not your responsibility to help her. What's more you are probably not qualified to do it.

I don't know how damaged you are yourself, if you even have doubts about accepting such behaviour or not. But if you think, you don't deserve better, so you need professional help as well.

But with these silly reasons for arguments you gave us I am not entirely sure it's not a wind up...

If you dragged a housing crisis into it, I am pretty sure now, it is. Next point for discussion...

Boards will always advise you to leave her and that her behaviour is unacceptable. Personality disorder etc. You have to make your own mind up.